r/WeightGainTalk

I’ve been debating making this post for awhile now cuz both my bf and I are pretty private with this stuff but I’m worried I’m going loose him tbh and I need some advice

We’ve both been into this scene since before we met, it’s always been a big part of our relationship, like it’s partly how we meet. He’s often teased me about wanting to make me immobile and I always play up how out of shape I am to tease him and push his buttons. We both definitely get off to the more morbid of gaining and can get into a lot of pretty dark role play with our fantasies

When we met I was already pretty big and over the years being together I packed on weight faster than either of us expected I would. Especially over the last 2ish years I’ve gone from “regular morbidly obese” to the kind of obese where I can barely make it up stairs, generally feel my body struggling, etc. Every doctor’s trip has been a celebration as my list of obesity related complications grows longer and longer. I’ve been loving every second of it and reveal in every new stretch mark and roll but I worry my bf isn’t feeling the same anymore. Recently our role play has been feeling like a lot less like a fantasy and more of a reality and as much I’ve been loving it I think it scares him

He’s been away on a lot of extended business trips recently and whenever he goes I make a point of stuffing myself as much as possible to surprise him with a “gift” when he gets back. Recently though he’s reactions have felt mixed, like he still goes crazy when I send him pics or talk about how much I’m stuffing myself but once he’s back home he seems to lose a lot of his enthusiasm. Like when we’re apart he’ll tease and humiliate me, harder than he used to even, but when he gets home he seems concerned about my health and a lot less excited in encouraging me to keep gaining. Like he still loves the fantasy of it all but doesn’t want to deal with the reality of it’s complications

Last week I discovered I had finally broken 500 pounds yet I still haven’t told him for fear he’ll suggest I stop gaining or something. 500 had be our shared fantasy for so long yet now that I’m actually there I’m almost embarrassed to tell him. I don’t think he’s cheating or anything but just worried about me yet I still can’t help but feel betrayed

Just typing this out sounds ridiculous like some kind of humble brag but somehow this is real and is my life now lmao.

My girlfriend was busty and already had D cups when I met her. I told her about my kink and she seemed receptive and also relieved to meet a guy who didn't want her to be so thin, so she stopped going to the gym and we started doing stuffings.

What neither of us anticipated is that so much weight would go directly to her boobs. She kind of liked it at first but it soon became clear that they weren't going to be perky. I still think they look great but she hates them. They hang down almost to her belly button and she can't wear any of her normal bras anymore.

I'm already the happiest guy ever just having a girl with giant boobs and I've gotten a lot of enjoyment out of this so I already told her we can stop, but I'm just wondering if anyone has ever been in this situation before or has any input. Is it possible if she keeps gaining that her boobs will fill out and she could start gaining it in other places instead?

Anyway I've never heard of something like this happening before so I just thought I'd share this strange little tale of a gain gone wrong.

Honestly asking for all feedees out there, I’d love to know what your thoughts are on having a feeder/partner/whatever who is contrast to you or if you’d want them with some meat on their bones too. Feel like there is a somewhat even side to both, very curious to hear what some people think. Anyone and everyone is more than welcome to comment the more the merrier. Hope to be hearing from everyone! M20, I’m a skinny guy so I’m hoping for some contrast answers but would love to hear from the other side almost as much fr, would also love to hear from people who’ve experienced both sides!

Working from home, because I’ve gotten too big for the massage parlors, I’ve obviously been stepping up making content. I’m constantly stuffed, and after stuffing, my tight clothes cutting into my rolls, trying to catch my breath from inhaling food so fast, I am dripping wet and wobble my way to get my dildo.

Things I have noticed different from a few months ago;

* None of my sexy outfits fit anymore, unless the microplastic is cutting into my fat and making it bulge. I look huge in them

* walking in heels with all this added weight is not made for the small heels I have. I feel the pressure of my fat making them weaker as I walk.

* My big rolls, belly, and now developed fupa are taking up most of the camera. I’ve never had to hold up fat to be able to use my dildos but it’s making me be able to cum at least 2-3 times back to back

I know my customers are watching my weight gain thinking im going to loose it soon, we’ll see who notices and who stays lol 😩

Hi, I'm F26! Hope everyone doing well this weekend!

I had a doctor appointment this week, and of course he wanted to weight me. Tbh I've always been fat, so my doctor always want to weight me...

He asked me if I know how much I weighed. I don’t have any scale at home, so I just said I through I was at 260-270lbs.

I stepped on the doctor scale... and he said "okay, you're 294lbs".

He immediatelly telling me about weight loss, bacause my BMI is now over 50!! I'm just so obese, I love that and that turns me on...

After that, I just brought somes treats and chocolates. I just looove how my belly hanging and jiggling, and I always want more!

Hello fellow community members, my girlfriend (F26) talked to me (M24) about being a feeder just under a year ago and I agreed to start gaining weight for her, i was a little weirded out by it at the beginning but I've always known she is extremely kinky so I wasn't to shocked.

But anyway that was just a small explanation now for my actual point, she is extremely well versed in what she likes and the many fetishes and kinks she wants to try with me and I'm very much up for it and find it very exciting but I'm also not as well versed in stuff like that so she suggested that if I wanna get better at being a perv I should ask in communitys or stuff so I'm here to ask.

We have tried a lot of stuff and I would definitely consider myself a feedee now but I would appreciate some suggestions of stuff we could try and feel free to ask what we have tried if that could help you come up with anymore ideas, something she's definitely liked is how very feminine I've looked recently but anyway thank you for listening to my rant andif you'd be happy to help that'd be amazing.

Hey, I started gaining weight by accident in November/december, just a little extra weight from the holidays. Now it’s April and I’ve put on almost 40lbs and I’m starting to like it. I can eat whatever I want and have a belly.. but I’m so scared for the summer. I already know I’ll be bursting out of my old bikinis and while I don’t care much what other people think, I’m so nervous for my friends to notice it.

I’ve done an okay job at hiding my weight gain, despite constantly over eating. Im gonna be so embarrassed when they see how much I’ve filled out 🥲

ngl the food industry is actually winning… we’re all getting bigger and it shows 😭

feels like it might be tbh… everything now is designed to hit harder, more sugar, more fat, bigger portions, constant new flavors. it’s not just food anymore, it’s engineered to keep you eating. cheap, super accessible, and way too good to stop, at the same time, you kinda have to admit… it works. gaining weight has never been this easy.

so what do you think — is this actually intentional, or just how things ended up?

I've been playing Skyrim again after playing Cyberpunk and just feel like there's no fat women in these genres. There are fat men in games and movies that are either there for comedic relief or they're villains whose whole shtick is using their size for melee. This extends to other genres too.

But I really wish that, especially in fantasy, writers and game devs would move away from the thin and lean Tolkien elves, the rogue assassin archetype, and things like that. Like pleaseee I just want to play as or see elves or orcs or whatever with big bellies because Warhammer is the closest I can get.

Also please let me see the repercussions of eating 20 cheese wheels to gain health. My Dragonborn should not be able to climb a mountain after that, just saying...

just got back from my appointment and the first thing the doctor did was comment on how much i’ve gained since my last visit. she tried to give me a whole lecture about "healthy habits" but all i could think about was how much i want to go back to my dorm and order a huge pizza.

there is something so rewarding about having a professional actually point out my progress. it just makes me want to double down and get even bigger. has anyone else had a doctor get "concerned" lately? it’s honestly such a turn on knowing the gain is that noticeable now.

I’ve noticed something within the feederism and gaining community that’s been on my mind for a while. It seems like female feedees and gainers tend to receive a lot more attention, engagement, and overall interaction compared to male feedees(especially straight male feedees). I get that the community has a higher proportion of men than women, and that there’s a strong presence of diverse and non-conforming sexualities which shapes preferences. Still, it feels a bit unbalanced at times, and honestly a little disheartening.

I think it would be really great to see more appreciation, visibility, and support for male feedees as well. There are plenty of guys who are into gaining or being fed, and their experiences and expressions deserve recognition just as much as anyone else’s. It’s a niche community already, which makes things harder for everyone.

So I’m curious, if you’re a male feedee or gainer, what has your experience been like?

So for some background, awhile ago I started bloating more often, then stuffing more often, then I had an all weekend bender, and I’ve been stuffing and bloating myself as much as I can ever since.

At this point I am addicted to feeling full now and i keep eating more and more, so my food budget has gotten more and more expensive. I go through at least two or three packs of white claws during the week and I have been emptying my fridge more often. And doorDash was getting out of control. And I get candy from the gas station before and after classes everyday. I had to make a change. I live off-campus, so I either have to cook for myself or order out and that wasn’t sustainable, so I decided to go back on my college meal plan a couple weeks ago. It’s all you can eat for a card swipe as long as you stay in the dining hall, so I can get more food for less than cooking it myself.

At first I was too nervous to eat as much as I have been in front of others, so I would get a to go box and eat in my car. And it’s not self serve at the dining hall, so I hated having to ask for extra scoops. And you can only take so much food to go and can’t go back in later

So I started just staying there and eating the food. I went for breakfast, lunch and dinner, but I was too embarrassed to get more than just full. The workers would give me looks and I could tell they made comments to their coworkers when I walked back to my table, which really bothered me. It was humiliating and embarrassing. Within the first week of eating at the hall, they had barbecue pork and it was really good and I kept going back for more. I was starting to get nice and tight and pretty horny for the first time in public. But on my forth time getting food, the lady cut me off and said I couldn’t have anymore because they need to save some for others. I started tearing up and I ran to my car and sobbed. I felt so bad. I didn’t go back for a few days, but i had to go back eventually because my appetite has gotten to the point that I literally can’t afford to eat at home or anywhere else and pay rent with my part time job.

The first few times I went the dining hall after that were hard, I was so nervous I didn’t really even enjoy the food, I just ate as quick as I could and left. But the second or third day of eating every meal there, I got used to the looks and realized if I could just make it back to the table and start eating and focus on the food, everything else faded away. I was able to get so overwhelmed my the desire to keep fill up my belly that I began thinking about nothing else. Once I did that, I started going back for seconds and thirds. I was actually starting to get really full consistently. Every meal, I challenged myself to eat more and try to get as big as I do by myself at home. But, the walk out the building and was getting more and more nerve racking the more I stuffed myself. But i started to enjoy the thrill of being seen after a while. The jitters turned into butterflies in my stomach. Going back for more plates became invigorating. I began to love how flushed and hot and bothered it made me when I knew they were judging me. If I got worked up enough, some meals I would play with my belly under the table and rubbing my clit through my pants. The fear of getting caught, the idea of people seeing how much food I ate all by myself, it started to make me so horny. Just thinking about going to the dining hall makes me wet at this point. I think I might’ve programmed myself to connect pleasure and getting horny with being embarrassed and judged.

I mean I always have enjoyed being teased and humiliated online chatting with feeders, but also this was different and real. I never would’ve thought I would do something like this irl. And now I have started to show off. Instead of wearing super baggy clothes like I usually did to hide my bloated belly, I like wearing smaller more form fitting clothes. At this point, I get so bloated that people notice and can see my belly lifting up my shirt. It also helped that I’ve really started to gain weight from eating so much. It’s been catching up with me. Whenever I get up and walk to get more food or soda, I can see other students quickly glance down at my belly and then look away. That turns me on more than anything ever has. At this point I’ve become a full on exhibitionist. Lately Ive been fingering myself and coming in the bathroom between helpings because I get so horny that I can’t even wait until I get home. I love thinking about the time I got cut off and ran home crying. In the moment it felt like it was the worse thing that ever happened to me, but looking back now I think it’s so hot and I hope it happens again.

I am at the dining hall all the time now. I still like my own private stuffing sessions at home, where I can get drunk and use my wand, but nothing matches the thrill of seeing someone else’s disgust on their face when they look at me. And to make things even better, some of the lunch ladies have started to recognize me and sometimes I don’t even have to ask for extra scoops. They just go ahead and give me a huge serving. It’s honestly as flattering as it is humiliating. I look forward to sweaty and stuffed waddle back to my car. I have to walk a good distance through part of the campus to get back to my car and it really makes me realize how heavy my belly can get.

My next goal is to invite my friends who also live off campus to eat with me. I wanna see there reactions. I’m still pretty scared to do something that bold, so I’m not sure how much I would have the confidence to eat. But I wanna do it so bad. I’m sure they’ve noticed me being bloated a lot recently but they haven’t said anything. I’m so scared they’re gonna be disgusted and make fun of me, but I’m also really hoping that they do.

Discovering this new exhibitionist and public humiliation kink has been so exciting and so thrilling I can’t wait to explore it more. If you guys have any embarrassing stories or have stuffed in public feel free to comment them. I’d love some new ideas and inspiration!

So I'm trans mtf and I think I'd love gaining weight. I realised that my dream body would be a chubby girl who eats whatever she wants whenever~ but the thing is that I don't know whether it's better to wait until I'm a few months into hrt or to start right now...

Forr context I'm really underweight. I'm 5'6 and almost 110 lbs. I really want my curves and my belly to be as feminine as possible, so I'm just wondering whether some other trans girlies went through the same thing, and if so, what worked best for you?

Thanks in advance ^ ^

I started gaining when I was 220, so I was still overweight, and I don't know what being skinny is like, but I can compare how life was at 220 vs now at 375. First of all, I adore how much space I take up. I love having this big presence in every room I enter. Second, I can really feel myself, if that makes sense. Before, I just went about life normally, but now every step, shift in weight and little movement sends a ripple of jiggling throughout my body. Finally, I love how my body refuses to sit still, no matter how big I am my body keeps growing. I blink and I'm 50 pounds heavier. Knowing, even with how massive I've made myself, that I'll take up even more space and become even jigglier in a short matter of time, is so hot. Being obese feels so good, I wish I realized that sooner.

Hello!

This morning getting ready for I went to put my socks on, standing up and realized my belly is in the way and I got super out of breath trying to get them on, I failed. I ended up sitting down to put them on and it took me a good minute to get my breath back. I’m 5’11” 243lbs. Is that normal at this weight for that to happen? I think it’s extremely encouraging! But I just didn’t know I had gotten to this point already!

I just woke up and my belly is still very, very prevalent. Usually it dies down after I fall asleep, but not anymore. I rolled over on my side and noticed how different it feels on the bed. How it extends past my body and the side of it is making full contact with the sheets. How distended I am, just how round and protrudent my belly has really become.

All those snacks, breakfasts, stuffings, work place treats, they’ve really done their work. I’m going to keep lying here and rubbing it in slow circular motions. Right hand placed very flatly against it, starting at 12:00 and moving it all the way around.

hi all I am currently an already chunky girl at 240lbs but I’m looking to really sky rocket this belly of mine into blimpville.

so what is best for the job heavy cream

mixed with maltodextrin or melted icecream? already overeating so this is to really push that flab gain. Or if there’s anything else people can suggest

I‘ve slowly gained over the years so now its time to strap myself in and really see how quick I can grow and I am really hoping that it shocks me the speed.

Aiming to hit it hard like this for 3-4 weeks.

I (25M) have been on and off intentionally gaining for the the past year. 2 months on, 3 months where I try to better my habits and lose weight. You'd think that would mean I am burning the fat off, but im just bigger than ever. From 160 to 220 I have stuffed myself to obesity. I can't even see myself stopping now. I love my big gut and the way it wobbles when I walk. I love how sensitive my moobs are and how they feel when theyre played with. I can't even get hard anymore if my belly isnt rock hard. Is it time to just give in?

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Unrealistic fantasy is me being tied up and force fed for a week or a month even, only being let down for the bathroom and sleeping. No excessive no work. Only food in me and see what I weigh after that time. Just having me in the same out fit that's oversized so I dont know if my clothes are getting tighter or stripping me naked. Hell, imagine the results after more than a week. I imagine interacting with my coworkers or friends and getting their reaction as not only have I come back a bigger, but I'd probably be visibly bloated for a few days anyway. Realistically, after a week, I could probably gain like 5lbs or 20lbs after a month. This is just what I want to happen to me, and I know it's unrealistic it's just a fantasy I have. Lmk any suggestions or comments.

My goal for the longest time was to gain over300 lbs. I always thought that was fat but I got there last dec and it wasn’t enough. Ive been overweight most of my life so I'm used to some of the struggles and some of them are really hott to me. So I'm very aware of what I'm doing but I just want more. I feel like I am starting to get to a point of no return. Like I'm not going to be able to lose this weight and go back. Its really scary and at the same time its everything I want. Sometimes I just think about how much fatter I could be if I move in with a feeder and become a full time feedee. So maybe for now I will just make my new goal 400 lbs. 🐷