r/MommydomPersonals

Hello there,

If you’ve been searching for someone who can both care for you and keep you in line, you might want to stay a little while. I’m not here for rushed interactions or shallow dynamics I prefer something that builds, something that feels intentional, where attention is earned and the connection actually means something.

I’m 28, calm, observant, and naturally dominant in a way that doesn’t need to be loud to be felt. My approach leans into a Mommy dynamic not just control, but also reassurance, patience, and structure. I enjoy creating a space where you can let your guard down while still being held accountable. A place where you feel both wanted and guided.

I notice things. The way you speak, the effort you put in, how consistent you are. I don’t need perfection, but I do expect sincerity. If you’re the kind of man who finds comfort in being gently corrected, who thrives when given direction, and who wants to feel seen in a way that’s rare then we may get along very well

About Me

I’m the type of woman who balances warmth with control. I can be soft when it’s deserved—encouraging, reassuring, even a little affectionate—but I can also be firm when needed. I believe discipline doesn’t have to be harsh to be effective. Sometimes, it’s in the quiet reminders, the subtle expectations, and the way I guide you back into place without needing to raise my voice.

I enjoy dynamics where there’s structure and emotional depth. Where you learn to anticipate what I want, and take pride in meeting those expectations. I like shaping habits, encouraging growth, and watching someone become more focused, more attentive, and more in tune over time.

What I Enjoy in a Dynamic

I’m drawn to connections where there’s a clear sense of direction. Where you understand your role, and I step into mine naturally. I like:

•	Guiding behavior and setting expectations

•	Rewarding effort and consistency

•	Gentle correction when needed

•	Creating routines or small structures that bring stability

•	Building a dynamic that feels safe, intentional, and evolving

This isn’t about extremes it’s about the balance between care and control. I want you to feel comfortable enough to open up, but aware enough to stay respectful and attentive.

What I’m Looking For

I’m interested in a submissive man who:

•	Is respectful and knows how to communicate properly

•	Wants guidance and finds comfort in structure

•	Is consistent not just present for a moment, but willing to stay

•	Pays attention to detail and takes direction seriously

•	Is emotionally aware and open to building a real connection

You don’t need to have everything figured out. You don’t need to be perfect. But you do need to show effort. That’s what I respond to most effort, honesty, and a genuine desire to be led.

A Few Boundaries

While I’m open-minded in many ways, I still value respect and clarity. There are certain dynamics I’m not interested in, and I don’t compromise on what feels right to me. If you’re approaching me, come with intention not confusion.

What You Can Expect From Me

If we connect, you’ll find someone who is:

•	Attentive and present

•	Patient, but not passive

•	Warm, but not without standards

•	Understanding, but still in control

I don’t disappear randomly, and I don’t entertain inconsistency for long. If I give you my time and attention, it’s because I see potential and I expect that to be met with equal effort.

If this resonates with you, take your time when you reach out. Don’t just say “hi.” Tell me a little about yourself what you’re looking for, what draws you to this kind of dynamic, and why you think you’d fit under my guidance.

Make it worth my attention

I guess an introduction is in order since this subreddit “requires” five hundred or more words to post. Not sure who came up with that,but here goes nothing. Feel free to skip to the “IMPORTANT” section and read from there  if you’re ready to get down to it.  I am Madam C. I’m half asian and half black. I’m 6 foot on the dot. I’m thirty four years old, I’m a manager at a petstore, and I’ve been a domme for 8 years,after a beautiful experience with an ex boyfriend of mine.  My ultimate goal is to dominate two men into playing with each other and making them compete to see who gets to be my pet.

My main forms of  domming are edging,pegging, impact play, ruined orgasms, and degradation. My favorite colors are green and blue, so if you’re wearing those colors as underwear,you’ll definitely score extra points with me. For most of my experience being a domme, I’ve done in person sessions, but due to the pandemic and other life challenges I’ve switched to majority online play and I’ve gotten quite used to it. Names like mommy, goddess, queen, and mistress all work for me.  Honestly, the less dignity you have, the more fun you and I will have darling.

IMPORTANT

I’m on the prowl for some brainless gooning submissives. If you’re a loser that just loves to pump your greasy cock all day and night til there’s nothing left,come put that to good use and be my property. If I select you,you will show yourself off and play with yourself in any way I command you. You will be rewarded based on how good you do what I say and how quickly you get it done.

I’m decently lenient,but that doesn’t mean I allow mediocrity 

BEFORE YOU MESSAGE

Here’s some things you should be aware of before you shoot me a message so neither of us wastes our time. I require a face pic along with a naked body pic. I know this is a lot for some, but it is nonnegotiable that I be attracted to who I’m dominating. Don’t worry, I’ll show you pics of myself as well. I’m a very to the point person who doesn’t like to engage in small talk, so I’d much rather you tell me that you’re ready to get down to business.  Something along the lines of “I’m ready to be trained by Madam C”.

PREFERENCES

Now these aren’t mandatory, but these are things that’ll certainly get you extra attention from me. Black and Latino dudes definitely. I tend to enjoy skinny,athletic, or muscular builds. Something about bs just gets me going lol.  I mainly go for younger guys like 18-25 because they can keep up with my sex drive and they tend to be excited to learn. Finally,you having toys is a really huge plus for me. Dildos,plugs,fleshlights , whatever you got, as they really enhance the experience.

Thanks for reading and I hope to see you in my DMs!

Hi there!

Looking for cute and submissive men that are willing to serve and do whatever I tell them to. I like good boys who aren’t afraid to show off and touch themselves for me.

Please be around my age and tell me a bit about you — age, location, etc. (pics catch my attention faster and are responded to sooner). Please try harder than a simple “hi”. Give yourself a proper introduction so I can get a sense of who you are as a person — first impressions mean everything and I normally ignore lazy attempts to catch my attention.

I’d also prefer someone from the US for timezone reasons since it’s a lot easier to chat with someone that’s within an overlapping schedule but if you’re really cute enough I may make an exception depending on where you’re from and what you’re willing to offer me.

I’m only interested in handsome and obedient men — if you’re the kind to hesitate or overthink then let’s not waste our time. I want someone open minded and kinky — someone who’s willing to give a lot of affection and attention to me.

I’m also looking for something potentially long term though I want to see what our chemistry is like first before I can commit. If you can carry a conversation as well as satisfy my needs then I want you to hit me up but please understand that i want someone to serve me and my needs which always come first.

I also want someone loyal. I hate having to share with someone else. I want someone all to myself so that their main focus is on me. However, I’m also not the type to judge someone based on whatever their actual situation is regarding a partner, just as long as I get equal share

As for myself, I’m an open book. I’m always willing to get to know you, in fact, it’s my preference. I like to build a bond with my sub to make it feel extra special. If we connect then you have my full attention and affection. I’m usually almost always available to chat and my hope is that you’ll find a good amount of time too. I get that we all have lives and I like to think that I’m pretty understanding - all I ask is that you make time for me.

I’m also very demanding. I know what I want and how I want it. I can be very direct at times and I hate having to small talk my way to get what I want. I’m not a hard woman to please. You just have to do what I say :)

If any of this sounds interesting to you then please DM me. If I don’t get to you right away

please don’t feel discouraged. I’m sure that I’ll get to you eventually. I’m excited to see where this will take me and I’ll be eagerly waiting for your messages. So please, don’t be shy. Mommy’s waiting for you.

Hey everyone! Hope you’re all having a great day. After taking a break for a while from making attempts, I’m back to put myself out here again and hope I can get some responses from some amazing people :) It’ll be a bit long, but I really appreciate anyone who’s willing to give it a read!

A little bit about me, first of all:

I’m American, originally lived in Colorado before coming to Australia about 15 ish years ago? (It’s so easy to lose track) So I do have a bit of an accent both ways for anyone who’s wondering! I live in NSW for more specifics there. I’m a big gamer (playing a mix of Rivals and Helldivers 2 at the moment) I love drawing, and animals as well. I’ve always been a dog lover. I’m currently studying graphic design/animation at Uni (on my last year!) and I work part-time alongside it, but I have my nights off for the most part and I’m soon to be on a break I’m very much looking forward to. These assessments are killing me 😂 I’ve always been a more creative type, loving art a lot more than most I’ve known. I’m definitely an introvert and I’m shy by nature but I love listening to someone who loves to talk. I like to think I’m a pretty good texter and I love to call with someone I’m close enough with.

Now, for what I’m looking for here which is probably the part most people are interested in! (Understandably so)

I’m looking for someone on the more dominant side. Preferably like a soft mommy dom, something of the like? I’m still inexperienced in this so I’m unsure of the right terms to use. Someone who tends to be comforting and make their partner (or the like) feel safe and cared for. Above all else though, I want to be a safe space and a good friend to whoever I talk to! Of course a lot of us are here for the sexual stuff, but the most important part for me is being able to be apart of someone’s life, talk to and laugh with them. Those are the most important moments and I don’t want a relationship or dynamic that doesn’t value those too. I’m not exclusively after a relationship. It IS what I am ultimately wanting and looking for long-term but I understand that not everyone is up for it and just wants a person to have some fun with, which I am completely open to as well! I’ve been in 2 relationship so far, which is where all of my experience has come from, but overall I’d say my experience is semi-vanilla while I’m interested in more diverse things. I have yet to have much experience in online dynamics as well. I’d love to learn more about myself, and I’d love to do it alongside a comforting and/or guiding hand! I find new things quite daunting, but I also warm up very quickly so a little bit of patience, kindness and someone undemanding is all I ask for! And I intend to return the very same and more :)

Now for the actual NSFW stuff: my kinks, the stuff I know I am into or that I’m at least curious about:

I haven’t experienced much but I’ve been a sub before, and I do enjoy it a lot. I’ve been more submissive in my experience but I can swing the other way if I’m comfortable with someone and know what they like! I’ve only ever had experienced with some light bondage, sensory play and (very) light anal play. I do enjoy them all quite a bit though and I’ve been attempting to experiment with the third on my own. The thought of pegging has also been an interest to me, but as I’ve very clearly stated I am not ready for that hahah.

Thank you all for reading, I’m trying to be as open and honest as I can about who I am and what I’m looking for. I know I haven’t covered everything though so please ask me any questions and DM me! I’m a pretty open book. I’m hoping to meet someone amazing here and I really hope to hear from you soon!

I hope you all have a great day/night, whichever it is. Take care! :)

*About me!* I’m a 38 M from Canada, 6’2” tall and rock the dad bod. I’m easy going, Relaxed and enjoy good company and chatting. Love to play competitive sports, and try to live an Active healthy lifestyle But that being said I would still like to lose a little weight and tone up. My main interests are travelling, tattoos, Movies, Music, videogames, sports, playing sports, trying new places to eat and meeting new people. I can be fairly shy at first but once you get to know me, I won’t shut up haha. I love, love, love to cuddle, and steal heat because I always feel cold. I work lots of hours in the summer, but the winter time work usually slows down but I will always make time for the right person. My favourite place I’ve been to in the world is the Rocky Mountains, just such peaceful and beautiful scenery I could just sit for hours and never get bored of it. I love pets, I have 2 cats and a couple fish tanks full of a variety of different species. If you have any other questions feel free to dm and ask! Don’t be shy.

What I’m looking for:::

I’m looking for a dominant female partner, I’m so easy going and eager to please it just kind of feels natural to be submissive to a girl that knows what she wants and takes control. It doesn’t have to be a 100% all the time kind of thing because I’m also seeking a long term relationship and I don’t see how that can be fully sustainable unless that’s what you would really want, but I am looking for you to be my best friend and partner in crime too just like a regular relationship with a sprinkle of Kink if that makes sense. Me being a masculine construction worker there just is something about being bossed by a female partner when it’s probly not something you would expect looking at us just does something for me. Light humiliation and teasing is fun too.

*My kinks and limits*

Kinks are: I’m fairly new to lots of things, I’ve been out of a vanilla relationship now for a few years and would like to explore. My main interests right now are Bondage,BDSM, light teasing and humiliation. Chastity, ABDL( now this is a tricky one, because I’m not into being an adult baby, but I like to wear diapers for the humiliation and teasing factor, and with that being said I don’t “use” them in fact one of my limits is scat, and also acts as kind of a chastity thing too. Being forced to wear them under my regular clothes is just something I’m into). I’m into exploring more, just let me know what you’re looking for.

My limits are : Blood, Pain, Scat, Blackmail, Findom, Extreme Pain, and I’m sure there’s more that may come after exploring other things.

If any of this interests you, or you have questions or just looking for a friend, don’t be shy and send me a DM. I look forward to meeting and talking to you!

\*\*Me\*\*

Hello 👋, thanks for taking the time to read. I'm 32M from Southeast Pa. 5'8 slim, athletic build - Pic of Me in my profile.

I'm a financially and emotionally stable, educated, working professional that regularly works from home.

I'm looking for a long-term FLR preferably near PA so we can meet in person regularly. I'm open to online initially, and relocation eventually.

I enjoy working out, PC games, and spending time with my dog. I'm single, never married, no kids. I'm a social drinker, 420 friendly. I also enjoy reading, painting, and doing yardwork.

\*\*My Kinks\*\*

I haven't done anything in person but I know what I like. I am a very service oriented sub, and would enjoy such a dynamic.

I enjoy feet, chastity, pegging, cuck, domestic service, worshipping, sph, humiliation and many more. Permanent chastity and denial is something I'm really into.

My limits are generally scat/piss, extreme pain, and illegal/public stuff.

I'm pretty flexible and open to exploring with the right person. Hopefully that's you !

\*\*You\*\*

Strong, intelligent, dominant, confident, preferably close to my age \\\[32\\\], and to me \\\[SE PA\\\]. Knows what she wants. Knows how to balance being nice and mean. Wants to be treated like a queen, spoiled, worshipped, and served. Mutual interests, hobbies, and kinks. 24/7 kink is unrealistic, some nights we could just play games, watch a movie and cuddle, or go for walk/travel. Likes animals, especially my little one. Looking for something long term and in person eventually. Looking for a locked and denied little sub to worship your feet and serve you properly. Looking for a gym partner, life partner, gaming partner, and best friend.

\*\*Why Me\*\*

I am an excellent choice to be your sub because I am an educated, secure, and athletic individual that can serve and worship you in a variety of ways. I firmly believe women are superior to men and deserve to be treated as such. You deserve someone who always puts you and your pleasure first. I have the stability to dedicate plenty of time and affection to you. I am flexible, committed, loyal, and dedicated to having a healthy and loving relationship with my best friend and Dom.

I imagine our relationship to look fairly vanilla on the surface but quite the opposite in the bedroom. I would enjoy domestic servitude, doing chores like laundry and cooking, taking your coat and shoes off when you come home, pouring you wine, and massaging your feet when you come home.

I put a lot of effort into everything I do, especially this ad which took me quite a while to draft due to the 500 word requirement. The effort that I put into our relationship and making you feel special will be just as noticeable. I hope you recognize the potential in me as your sub and our future relationship. If all this sounds amazing and you think we would vibe, send me a message, my DMs are open. I'd like to chat for a bit, swap selfies once we're comfortable.

Thanks for reading Queens, Princesses, Mistresses, Everyone. I hope to hear from you soon.

Hey potential future mommy. Thanks for taking the time to read this post.

I’m 26 and live in Manchester (open to long distance with right person). Tall, muscular, brunette, smooth-shaven, “pretty boy” (happy to share face pics. Been told I resemble a Clark Kent vibe if that’s your type haha). I’m ambitious, intelligent and kindhearted, with a good career and recently became a homeowner. Things are great… except when it comes to finding a domme girlfriend who appreciates my submissiveness.

Previous ex’s have all expected me to be dominant which just doesn’t feel totally natural to me and seen as dating apps aren’t the easiest place to find dommes, I thought i’d give reddit a go. I really want to find that special person who I can give all my love and affection to, and worship both in and out of the bedroom.

Personality-wise, I’m an INFJ. Which basically means I’m an introverted empath who absolutely loves caring for others. When it comes to dating/relationships, you can expect me to go out of my way whenever I can to make your life better. Whether that’s surprising you with a gift I saw you had your eye on, or learning to cook your favourite meal. I know with all my heart that when I find the right person, they will be treated like a goddess. The only downside is that I have a very short social battery and like spending time alone too.

Some of my interests include gaming, writing, reading, singing/guitar, going to gym and skiing. I also love animals (planning on getting a cat soon).

I’m a non-smoker, drug-free and only drink alcohol on very rare occasions. What can I say? Just a good boy through and through haha

In terms of kinks, I am VERY open minded and keen to explore. But the most important thing to note is that pleasure for me, is ALL about pleasing you. I absolutely love giving up control and doing whatever it takes to be your good boy. For example, I love the thought of giving head on command with endless enthusiasm for as long as you like. Or letting you tease me for your own enjoyment.

Some things i’d be open to exploring: JOI, edging, orgasm control, chastity, bondage, pegging,, humiliation, worship, roleplay, spit play. Possibly even feminisation and forced bi if that’s something you wanted to try.

(We can go into more kinky details over message)

All I ask in return is that you have a kind heart and provide the trust and respect that allows me to feel comfortable being myself around you.

Whilst it would be great if you were closeby, I am not against long distance at all! My only limit that’s worth mentioning is that I am absolutely not here to be pen pals. If you’re looking for a sub to do endless tasks for you online, I’m afraid i’m not your man (sorry).

But if you like the idea of a having a devoted, loyal sub to date and see where things go, please do send me a message. I’d love to chat more and get to know you :)

Hi, I am a 26-year-old living in Ireland, and over the past while I have been learning more about myself and what I am looking for in a relationship. I have come to understand that I am naturally more submissive, and I would really like to meet a woman who is confident in a dominant role and enjoys that kind of connection. I am open to long distance if we genuinely click.

In terms of appearance, I am tall and slim with dark hair. I can be quite quiet and a little awkward at first, but I warm up once I get comfortable with someone. Personality-wise, I would describe myself as thoughtful, a bit nerdy, and easygoing. I enjoy gaming, both single player and online, and I spend a lot of time reading, mostly science fiction and fantasy. I also enjoy films and series, with some favourites being Godzilla from 1954 and Kingdom of Heaven.

I have a stable life overall. I have a solid career, I am motivated about my future, and I try to treat people with kindness and respect. The one area where I have struggled a bit is finding someone who truly understands and values a more submissive partner.

For a long time, I felt like I was expected to take on a more dominant role, but it never felt natural to me. Accepting this part of myself has been a big step, and now I would like to explore it with someone who appreciates that dynamic and wants something meaningful rather than something casual.

I am looking for a woman who enjoys taking the lead and who values consistency, trust, and a genuine connection. I like the idea of being devoted to someone, giving attention and effort, and building something where both people feel comfortable and understood.

When it comes to interests within a dynamic, I am very open minded and willing to explore. Some things that appeal to me include control based dynamics, teasing, roleplay, and different forms of power exchange. I am also interested in things like edging, chastity, bondage, worship, and similar areas. I’d also be open to trying things like feminisation or forced bi dynamics if that’s something you’re interested in. I am open to trying new things depending on the connection and shared interest, and I enjoy learning what makes my partner happy.

Outside of that, I live a fairly balanced lifestyle. I do not smoke, I do not use drugs, and I rarely drink. I enjoy quiet time as well as good conversation, and I would like to meet someone I can connect with both personally and within a dynamic.

At the end of the day, I am looking for something real. Not just the dynamic itself, but a connection where we can get to know each other properly and see where things go over time. If you like the idea of having someone loyal, attentive, and genuinely interested in building something together, I would be happy to hear from you.

Throughout my life I’ve been deeply anxious and neurotic about sex, because it requires putting myself in an incredibly vulnerable position with another person and I am afraid of being hurt. But depriving myself of basic human desires has only made me more and more lonely, and I desperately want to break through this isolation.

I’ve been trying dating apps for a few months but I think that what I’m actually looking for is probably not going to be advertised in someone’s tinder profile, because what I really want is a mommy type to submit to, who can be gentle and loving but dominant with me and teach me and give me guidance. I want desperately to feel cared for by someone I can trust completely, without guilt or shame. Show me how to make you happy, and I will. I feel like there’s gotta be a woman out there - ideally near me - who is turned on by taking on this role.

I don’t think I’m bad looking. I look much younger than my age. I’ve lost a ton of weight and will ultimately look kind of pretty and androgynous in a few months if I keep going at this rate. I would be happy to share images of myself with you as long as I can get an idea of what you look like too, just to make sure we're into each other. I don't want to lead anybody on and I'm sure nobody else wants to be led on by me.

I would really like us to get to know and trust each other before getting too deep - like, I don’t want to meet up tomorrow and rush in. I don’t want someone with bad intentions to take advantage of me, and I’m sure you don’t want to be taken advantage of either.

It would be ideal if you lived in the same area as me (Memphis), though if you really feel like this ad is perfect for you I would 100% be open to someone further away as long as it's reasonably drivable. Like, Nashville or something could be great. We could talk and facetime and stuff like that for a little while to make sure we're compatible, and then I could visit you or vice versa. It has to be able to become a sustainable in-person thing eventually, though.

As far as kinks go - gentle femdom, breast worship, pet names, bondage… I’m just listing some of the really tame ones here because I don’t want to dive straight into the deep end, we can talk more about specifics if you’re interested. There's heavier stuff I fantasize about that would probably not be good for me if I immediately engaged with it without any experience beforehand. I think serious humiliation especially would be really bad for me, because at a certain point it would stop being a game and actually damage my self esteem.

If you have other partners, please disclose it to me - if you don’t have any that’s an enormous bonus because it would be wonderful to be someone’s one and only, but it’s not an automatic dealbreaker as long as everybody is on the same page.

I hope this piques your curiosity. If it does I would love to hear from you! I may not be able to respond immediately, but as long as this is up I am still looking.

im a switch looking to explore my submissive side with little experience in bdsm looking for someone to explore with, I am very curious by nature. my name is Harley and im 30, living in Hampshire, England. So my time zone is GMT. Im open to new ideas as well as being naturally curious about everything in life. I like to message throughout the day even when at work, i understand not everybody is able to or wants to. Im sure we can work something out that works for both of us online at first and hopefully leading towards a meet one day in the future. Bonus points to anybody local to me in hampshire :)

To know a little about me, i am 5ft 9 with short blonde hair and green eyes, slim build and i exercise regularly, white skin, nice looking 8 inch cock, and one tattoo but you can ask me about that later. I have been working as a care worker for the past four years. I work double shifts most of the time but have a lot of days off in return.

i like to learn new things when ever i can. I have a big interest in subjects such as psychology or philosophy, strategy and the sciences. I enjoy reading when i can but i mostly have to listen to audiobooks or podcasts. I enjoy gaming and play when i can, mostly shooting or strategy games like Space Marine 2 or something like Total War if any of you know them. I play lots of other games also when im in the mood. I enjoy long walks in nature and i love to get lost somewhere so i can find my way out.

I do enjoy movies and tv series a lot, my taste can be found within action, sci fi, fantasy, historical and thriller or psychological type shows. A recent-ish movie franchise i enjoyed is Rebel Moon for a new sci fi type movie and the most recent tv show i watched was the new black mirror episodes, very thought provoking just like the others. If any of you like those then i cant wait to chat about them or about any other shows or interests you enjoy.

I am an open minded person and with the right partner will be comfortable to explore. Hard limits for me are Toilet play, forced bi, Findom is also a limit for me.

The kinks i know i like are bondage, ass worship, giving oral, teasing, edging, milking, control, praise, denial, roleplaying, impact play, rough play, mommykink, Open to try pegging and anal play with someone that is up for it. Thats all i can think of for now but there is definitely more that i like and more i want to try with somebody exciting.

Im looking for a long lasting relationship/dynamic that will start online and one day hopefully lead to in person meeting if we are local to one another, if you are a Mommy please message me, im a good boy at heart.

Please dm me and share your age, location and intro to get things started. looking forward to hearing from you

Terrible at writing these out so Thank you all for bearing with it this long 😊

Hello! Im a shy nerd looking for a mommy to cuddle! I have always wanted to be in a mommy sub dynamic and I figured this would be a good place to look for a mommy.

If you want to know about me, Im white, 5’11, 210 lbs (but trying to bring this down!). I am happy to send a SFW photo with my face if you ask for it! Im just a little too shy to put my face on my reddit profile 😅 I enjoy reading, board games, tabletop games, cooking, and I just started swimming. Ill be happy to talk about hobbies in chat, but Ill say now that my favorite book is Project Hail Mary, my favorite board game is Brass Birmingham, and my favorite video game is Sunless Sea. I will day Im a bit of a silly guy in text chat, but Im super shy in phone calls and real life. I will warm up to you though! I am also currently studying for a masters degree. Im trying to find a tutoring job while I study, as well. Im also a huge ginormous cuddlebug, so if you like physical affection then Im your guy!

I’m hoping to find a girl, trans girl, or enby who shares at least a few of my hobbies! And even if you don’t, Im sure that we can find something to talk about! Id love to learn about your interests. I really am looking for someone I can reasonably visit from the Chicago area, but Im willing to drive out to you if you’re pretty far away. Im pretty open to any personality, but I am likely to completely fall for you if you’re nice to me lol. If you enjoy cuddles, that’s a huge plus! Body type doesn’t really matter to me; I value ability to connect emotionally more than body type.

NSFW wise, I’m actually pretty inexperienced. I know Im into submission, pegging, praise, and breast sucking, but I may discover more kinks! Just in general Im a huge fan of soft vibes. I want to feel safe with you if we do anything. Im pretty open about trying new things if you’re into something not on this list. Im looking for both nsfw stuff and a genuine connection, so if a connection is there then Ill be open to trying almost whatever you want! My limits are CBT, pee, scat, and extreme pain. Cuckolding and forced bi Im a little iffy on, but I’m willing to try them if you’re really into them.

If you’re interested in chatting, send me a message with your age, location, and anything you want to start the conversation! Also, if you have any photos of yourself, then please send them! You don’t have to send a photo if you’re not comfortable, but Im more likely to respond if you do. Ill send a sfw photo if you do! And please please dont open with just one sentence; tell me a little bit about yourself!

Looking as long as this is up.

This may start out a bit odd. And I’m not the greatest at word count as I believe some things should be explored in chat.

So a little on what I seek. I seek a female friend, Domme, Mommy who is dominant, compassionate, easy going but stern, who is seeking a male sub to both own and be friends with. Someone to chat about anything on their mind but also control. Someone I can lean on for advise as well as please. Someone to guide me through life as I struggle to balance my online and offline life and kinks. That balance can be hard as I can be a bit snarky and difficult as well. I want someone I can be friends with who can keep me on the straight and narrow but also push me to be a better person than I am.  

A little on me, I am an open minded sub who has been sub for a long term but tend to go in and out of this lifestyle. I would like that to end. I tend to function better when serving. Kinks—I am into orgasm control, chastity (have own cage), anal play, some self bondage. But open to try new things. Interested in learning how to eat my own cum or maybe servicing a guy down the road. Long term chastity also interests me as I easily wear for a few days but struggle to wear to work or to important gatherings.. Limits include findomme, scat, blood, anything permanent.  

Vanilla-love to read (lots of spy and detective books, history, Star Wars), watch tv and movies (NCIS, Blue Bloods, 80s detective shows and action movies, science fiction), hike, sports (love baseball, soccer, and football-college more than pro) , write.  I work from home a few days a week and in the office the remaining days.  

Some more on me-49, white, 5’11”, 240 lbs (so some help here would be nice), wears glasses, greying hair, smaller than average penis if that matters (why I lock up). I struggle on eating so someone to help me figure out a good diet and be a better diabetic would be awesome.  Carbs are my comfort food and any pastry is hard to pass by.  Or other sweets. So help on control would be nice.

Been missing someone to connect with but yet will put up with my crazy offline life while being a part of it. I work from home, as I said above,  and have others around but have some privacy as well. Just miss a connection. Found before but it’s off way more than on so hoping to try again.

I tend to move slow on some things but fast on others. I do look forward to hearing from a good Mommy/Domme to see if we match . Aiming to start online and just see how things flow. I would want to spend some time on here to get to know each other then see where that takes us on other platforms.  I try to limit which ones I have and use.  I’m not opposed to moving off of here but it will take some chats before I do so as I have been burned before right at that switch.

 

Hello all

I hope you are having a great day so far! I am writing this message because am looking for an online dynamic to help me control myself. I have always fantasized about a dynamic like this  and I hope that I will get to have this experience. 

What I am looking for: Someone who could be older but not passing the age of 30. They could be a little strict but also nurturing as I am looking for a semi-rigid structure. Likes to give commands and expects obedience and will punish if necessary. I’m definitely a switch but I can be controlled very easily so don’t worry about brat taming unless you like that. We can always discuss dynamics more in chats. I’m okay with videocalling or messaging but I’d rather not show my face. Any way of communication works for me. 

I am a 21 year old male who goes to school in the US but frequently spends my summers in Belgium/Europe. Describing myself I would say I am a quiet guy who often has a lot of pressure on him and wants to have ways to release it. Being controlled and dominated is a good release on that. Regarding my kinks, being edged, dominated, light degradation, mommy, legs, ass, feet, socks, shoeplay, bondage, predicaments, and all stuff around those veins of kinky materials have been effective at one stage of my day or another. 

Limits usually are: Toilet play, sissification, huge amounts of pain bondage, (lighter forms are okay) blood and knives, and I suppose more extreme forms of things like that. Also toys that are available for you to use. I own several cock rings, and a fleshlight with a vibrator that sticks inside. It isn’t much but I could pick something up before traveling to Europe. 

Speaking of my travels I want to really respect your time and say I’d be more than willing to spend 4 months learning and serving under you but after that school sort of takes over and my days become really busy. I hope this could be satisfactory as I am really excited yet apprehensive. I’d be available for most of the summer barring occasional trips or other things that I have to do. 

Regarding why I want this. I aim to please people around me and want to be impactful in some way in someone’s life. It just so happens these acts also help me relieve stress. I’m more of an introvert with nerdy activities who wants to train himself more on his base urges because they have been getting out of hand at school and I believe some structure may be the solution to that which I hope someone would be gracious enough to provide. Finally as it would be my first experience I would be eager and ready to do any and all tasks set to me within defined boundaries. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if I sound like someone you would like to talk to

Enjoy yourself!

Hey I am Jack.

I am 21 Years Old and from Germany. I have always loved a Caring Femine Person. So I wanted to try to find my Mommy here.

I don’t mind Transwomen or Non-Binary Mommys.

About Me:

I am 21 Years Old. A bit Nerdy and Chubby And I Love Cuddeling. I got told I am like a Golden Retriever.

It’s Hard for me to Open myself but if You Get my Trust I Can be very Annoying and Affectionate and a bit Clingy.

To be Honest…I am Broken as hell. It’s Hard for me to Trust or feel Love.

What a Perfect Mommy would be:

Not to Dominant but very Caring and in a Way Strict. You should listen to what I want because of my Trauma I can get very Distant if handeld wrong.

I can Tell You more if you Are interested in me.

I love Anime, Horror, I am Writer.

I Adore and Love Pussys. I love to Lick them and I love to Suck on Breasts.

I have some very Weird Fantasies…Thats why I am Alone again and also because my Old Mommy Cheated on me and told me it was my Fault for Being to soft and Useless.

I had a Panic Attack and couldnt function so I couldnt please her in the way she wanted…So she took what She wanted and then I was the Bad Guy.

I have ADHD and a bit Autism. I love to Yap and Maybe You See I Can be pure Chaos.

I have also a Femboy Side I Never Explored fully but I would love to do that with.

I am Living with my Parents and they are very Strict…and yes I know I am 21 but they Pay for Everything and it’s easier to just obey… You see I learned it from a Young Age. Haha

I don’t know what to write anymore and just hope I finally Fill the 500 Words. God damit are that really so many Words?

My Old Mommy had DID so it was a bit hard because one of her Personalities was very Sadistic but also Maternal so if she did hurt me should always told me it’s love and not Pain. I got manipulated and Used By her a Lot.

I hate myself sometimes and Think that I should just Go Away but if I have a Mommy I am just Like a Flower who finally has time To Bloom so I Let Myself just Fall into the Arms of a Mommy.

I Need Warmth and Care. Yes also a strict Hand and Dominance but not like a Dominatrix or some Sadistic Women who just Uses you.

I Need a Real Connection. Something that feels Right.

I prefer Something Online at First because I Fear if I Open my Body too fast For anyone I will get used again so please don’t Force me to meet you…

Thank You for Listening to me

See You soon🩷

Greetings Jack

Maybe we Can Cuddle in the Future

hey there!

as I stated above, I'm 37M, and looking for a Redittor (F/T/NB) to guide me through this process.

so, I'm 37, living in Belgium with my partner, we've been dating for 4,5 years, living together as well. She's wonderful, and I couldn't be happier with her.

The reason I'm looking for something extra is because she is submissive, and not at all into Dominating, which she knows about and encourages me to find for myself.

I love music, movies (especially horror), series (supernatural, firefly, american horror story), video games, dungeons and dragons.

Sometimes a long walk is good to clear my head, other times some subbing does the trick better 😇.

In my personal life I'm quite busy, so would expect respect for that.

mostly quiet and with random hyperfixations because of adhd, I get distracted easily, so could use guidance there as well.

My physique is: average guy with glasses, tattoos, a beard, and about 5'6 (168cm), so a pretty short king 😋

i am also a very queer, pansexual, sex positive, fat positive, leftist, feminist by proxy(my partner is one of the biggest feminists on the planet, so i kind of have to be, but i wouldn't have it any other way), open-minded, try anything at least twice kind of person. i would love to meet a like-minded person if possible. definitely not a right wing person, because that would be a big red flag for me, sorry.

If you love pop-punk/punk rock/metal, that's a BIG bonus! I'm still stuck in the 90's/2000's pop punk scene, so don't hate me when i quote sum 41 or blink 182 lyrics on the daily haha.

More about me, the better stuff:

subby person, developping their sub side more and more.

kinks include but are not limited to:

chastity, humiliation, degradation, sph, orgasm control(everything about it), soft pain, anal play, bondage, water sports, bladder control, public play, forced chastity and sexual favours.

All in all, I'm looking for someone to be kind to me, help me discover new things, push my limits in a caring way.

I want to build a lasting connection, and make sure both of us are satisfied with everything.

also the person guiding me needs to take my adhd in account, and be patient with me. i get distracted sometimes, but a good ruling system or guidelines might help tonnes with that. it's not something deal breaking, but could help us both out tremendously.

i would love to hear from you, and a little introduction. I don't really care what you look like, since the connection will be the most important part.

other than that, i would love if the person is in the EU timezone

if you read this far, please send me a dm with your favourite dinosaur, no sellers please.

I hope this peaked your interest :))

kind regards,

Doc