u/Lower_Breakfast1810

Throughout my life I’ve been deeply anxious and neurotic about sex, because it requires putting myself in an incredibly vulnerable position with another person and I am afraid of being hurt. But depriving myself of basic human desires has only made me more and more lonely, and I desperately want to break through this isolation.

I’ve been trying dating apps for a few months but I think that what I’m actually looking for is probably not going to be advertised in someone’s tinder profile, because what I really want is a mommy type to submit to, who can be gentle and loving but dominant with me and teach me and give me guidance. I want desperately to feel cared for by someone I can trust completely, without guilt or shame. Show me how to make you happy, and I will. I feel like there’s gotta be a woman out there - ideally near me - who is turned on by taking on this role.

I don’t think I’m bad looking. I look much younger than my age. I’ve lost a ton of weight and will ultimately look kind of pretty and androgynous in a few months if I keep going at this rate. I would be happy to share images of myself with you as long as I can get an idea of what you look like too, just to make sure we're into each other. I don't want to lead anybody on and I'm sure nobody else wants to be led on by me.

I would really like us to get to know and trust each other before getting too deep - like, I don’t want to meet up tomorrow and rush in. I don’t want someone with bad intentions to take advantage of me, and I’m sure you don’t want to be taken advantage of either.

It would be ideal if you lived in the same area as me (Memphis), though if you really feel like this ad is perfect for you I would 100% be open to someone further away as long as it's reasonably drivable. Like, Nashville or something could be great. We could talk and facetime and stuff like that for a little while to make sure we're compatible, and then I could visit you or vice versa. It has to be able to become a sustainable in-person thing eventually, though.

As far as kinks go - gentle femdom, breast worship, pet names, bondage… I’m just listing some of the really tame ones here because I don’t want to dive straight into the deep end, we can talk more about specifics if you’re interested. There's heavier stuff I fantasize about that would probably not be good for me if I immediately engaged with it without any experience beforehand. I think serious humiliation especially would be really bad for me, because at a certain point it would stop being a game and actually damage my self esteem.

If you have other partners, please disclose it to me - if you don’t have any that’s an enormous bonus because it would be wonderful to be someone’s one and only, but it’s not an automatic dealbreaker as long as everybody is on the same page.

I hope this piques your curiosity. If it does I would love to hear from you! I may not be able to respond immediately, but as long as this is up I am still looking.

Throughout my life I’ve been deeply anxious and neurotic about sex, because it requires putting myself in an incredibly vulnerable position with another person and I am afraid of being hurt. But depriving myself of basic human desires has only made me more and more lonely, and I desperately want to break through this isolation.

I’ve been trying dating apps for a few months but I think that what I’m actually looking for is probably not going to be advertised in someone’s tinder profile, because what I really want is a mommy type to submit to, who can be gentle and loving but dominant with me and teach me and give me guidance. I want desperately to feel cared for by someone I can trust completely, without guilt or shame. Show me how to make you happy, and I will. I feel like there’s gotta be a woman out there - ideally near me - who is turned on by taking on this role.

I don’t think I’m bad looking. I look much younger than my age. I’ve lost a ton of weight and will ultimately look kind of pretty and androgynous in a few months if I keep going at this rate. I would be happy to share images of myself with you as long as I can get an idea of what you look like too, just to make sure we're into each other. I don't want to lead anybody on and I'm sure nobody else wants to be led on by me.

I would really like us to get to know and trust each other before getting too deep - like, I don’t want to meet up tomorrow and rush in. I don’t want someone with bad intentions to take advantage of me, and I’m sure you don’t want to be taken advantage of either.

It would be ideal if you lived in the same area as me (Memphis), though if you really feel like this ad is perfect for you I would 100% be open to someone further away as long as it's reasonably drivable. Like, Nashville or something could be great. We could talk and facetime and stuff like that for a little while to make sure we're compatible, and then I could visit you or vice versa. It has to be able to become a sustainable in-person thing eventually, though.

As far as kinks go - gentle femdom, breast worship, pet names, bondage… I’m just listing some of the really tame ones here because I don’t want to dive straight into the deep end, we can talk more about specifics if you’re interested. There's heavier stuff I fantasize about that would probably not be good for me if I immediately engaged with it without any experience beforehand. I think serious humiliation especially would be really bad for me, because at a certain point it would stop being a game and actually damage my self esteem.

If you have other partners, please disclose it to me - if you don’t have any that’s an enormous bonus because it would be wonderful to be someone’s one and only, but it’s not an automatic dealbreaker as long as everybody is on the same page.

I hope this piques your curiosity. If it does I would love to hear from you! **I may not be able to respond immediately, but as long as this is up I am still looking.**