r/femdompersonals

Hi all! My name is Mackenzie, but I go by Kenz or Kenzie, I am 23 and from NY! I’m seeking an obedient submissive who is open and willing to helping me also learn and grow as I explore my dominant side further, if you lack a lot of experience even better because then we can navigate this realm together! I’m a college student and work full time, so while I would like my time to be dedicated to you, I can get busy and would appreciate a willingness from you to be needy and present, even in times when I’m not around, being desired attracts me above a lot of things.

In terms of kink, I’m pretty open to exploration and am understanding of niche desires, including ABDL and pet play amongst others! Something about a sweet and obedient puppy boy just makes the dominant side of me happy and a bit giddy!

If you’ve taken the time to read this post and are interested in chatting with me, feel free to send a DM, but please start the message with “goddess” so I can ensure you’ve read and understood the entirety of my post.

Xoxo,

Your future mistress😘

I'm an eager sub, looking for a connection, good conversations and fun.

# About me

I'm an introvert, so I'm not into huge crowds usually. I prefer having a quiet chat with a few select people, preferrably over good food and wine. I love having a deep conversation with someone I can trust.

In my spare time I also enjoy going for a run, cooking (especially if I can make someone else happy with it!), analog photography and going to the cinema.

Physically, I'm 172cm tall, athletic but not overly muscular, I have long brown hair and a beard.

# about me, but spicy

I enjoy giving someone the gift of submission - hardly surprising here, I know... What I love most about it is the feeling of being able to trust someone enough to just let yourself go and let them take control. It's such a beautiful and cathartic feeling, it's honestly addictive.

Kink-wise, I enjoy pegging, anal, eating you out, edging, orgasm control, a bit of humiliation amongst others. Let's figure out together what's fun for both.

# what I like in a domme

I don't want you to be *just* a domme - I would like to be able to have normal conversations on eye level outside of your dynamic. Ideally I want you to be a friend as well as a domme. I'd also really like it when you put the word pineapple in your first message to show me that you've read this.

I prefer a more gentle and encouraging style of control, the harsh and cold dommes don't usually appeal to me as much (no shade if that's you, just not quite my thing)

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I'm happy to start this online. If it works out I'm very open to meeting in person too.

I'm also happy to exchange face pics if we click.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you! Swiss German, German or English all work.

Hey F’s

I am your average everyday guy, if you saw me on the street you would say tall and conventionally handsome. I work a normal job with normal hours, I am looking to branch out from the average daily slog and entertain some of the daily thoughts that enter my brain and my pants!

I am looking to explore a few sub kinks I have with the right person. Happy to discuss these further with those interested enough to ask.

A brief description:

6ft 3

Dark hair,

207 lbs, average body type

Funnier than average personality

Few pics on my profile of what I’m working with.

Looking for:

A woman with an interest in exploring some of her dominant side. Open minded and a good conversationalist. Not really looking to be someone’s slave it’s not my thing but reversing the traditional roles does pique my interest and hopefully yours too.

Hoping to find someone to chat with (and hopefully more) about all our deepest fantasies and who knows? Maybe bring some of those to reality.

Message me if interested. Hope we speak soon x

I have mostly been exploring my dominant side the passed few years but I feel like switching to submissive recently. I have been submissive before but only short-term. I have several years of experience and I believe in putting in effort, good communication, and commitment.

About me? I'm 30 from the Netherlands. Athletic, tall, blonde, blue eyed male with an interest in engineering and anything water. I have a career as a manager in civil engineering and I am serious about my work. I enjoy sailing with my boat and learning/instructing others how to do so. I workout 2-3 times per week to stay in shape.

My kinks are mostly anything around humiliation and orgasm focused. I can go desperate to get my orgasm. I have interests in feminization, chastity, anal and orgasm play. But I love to adjust to the needs of my dominant. I have a wide array of toys and clothes to my disposal. Plugs, gags, bodysuits, other clothes, fleshlight, etc. If I don't have it then I am willing to invest.

Please let me know if there's anything that I can clear up, answer or do for you :)

If you are reading this, I’m still looking so please reach out.

Just to get this out of the way, I will never send money to any scammers or anything along those lines.

I would describe myself as a ‘masculine sub’. If people saw us in public, they would never guess how obedient I am for you behind closed doors. I would really like to form a longer term connection with the right domme. That means talking periodically about our mutual interests, hearing about your day, thoughts on the world, and what not. I am not just looking for a one time sexting thing. You’ll always have respect and obedience from me. Bottom line I would always want my domme to be comfortable.

I dont want to come across as shallow but mutual attraction is important to me. I try to take care of myself through eating well and exercise and would appreciate a like-minded domme.

My background (happy to share photos):
* 32, US based, exercise almost daily (yoga, weight lifting, sports)
* White, tall (6'2"), maintained beard, athletic build, and blue eyes
* Interests include sports, anime, TV/movies, gaming, and outdoor activities
* Liberal Trump hater
* Successful Corporate America workerbee, grad level STEM background

Kinks:
* Body worship
* Face Sitting
* Praise
* Making my domme feel good and appreciated
* Training

What I am looking for:
* I tend to be into someone that is fit, petite, smaller.
* No one much much older than me.
* Educated
* Also looking for longer term and a friendship.

I do understand we have lives outside of kink so I can be respectful of that and I hope to receive the same.

I look forward to pleasing you ☺️.

I am looking for something more longterm ish, though I dont mind shorter terms with a kind domme that loves to have fun and use her favorite toy to the fullest~ we can discuss things like locations, appearances, kinks and more in dms

My kinks are joi worship edging milking licking cams orgasm control rimming orgasm torture etc, if you wanna help me discover more I'd be more than happy to oblige, my limits are the usual bathroom stuff, feminization of any kind, high risk public etc

I'm looking for someone who wants to spend time together doing the things we love outside the bedroom as well, my hobbies are cooking, music, games, anime, looking at art, watching stuff with people etc. I also do not mind being with an older woman, I think y'all are great to be with~

If you have any questions then please hmu and let's talk, I have multiple socials we can talk in if reddit chat is too ass for us. When you do communicate with me, please begin by describing yourself a bit to me, tell me your hobbies, what you're looking for, your kinks, stuff like that really helps with engagement and it's a great way to start conversations. Also please let me know what your expectations of me are and what it is you are looking for specifically, I've been trying to find something really heartwarming but settling for simply FWB's and the like and I've just become really used to the whole thing that I assume that's what everyone who comes to meet me wants anyway.

Do let me know what things you'd like to do outside of the bedroom as well, being someone with ADHD I find it hard to focus on things so regarding activities you are into, I may find it hard to focus on if I dont feel the same way you do, it sucks I know, I've been living with it all my life but like most things peeps dont like we just gotta learn to live with it. If you dont know much about the condition of ADHD, just ask me about it and I'll be happy to let you know, as the condition actually affects everyone differently in many manners. By that same coin, do let me know of anything that's been affecting you so that I can know about it before anything happens, if I dont know about it I'll go ahead and ask just the same as you may ask me.

In any other case, do hmu and let's make many wonderful memories together, I believe that even though a relationships may one day end, the positive notes we both gave each other during that time stays with us no matter how long it had been or wherever life leads us, I believe we should always strive to give each other the best of moments while we're together, take care ❤️❤️❤️

Hi all! My name is Mackenzie, but I go by Kenz or Kenzie, I am 23 and from NY! I’m seeking an obedient submissive who is open and willing to helping me also learn and grow as I explore my dominant side further, if you lack a lot of experience even better because then we can navigate this realm together! I’m a college student and work full time, so while I would like my time to be dedicated to you, I can get busy and would appreciate a willingness from you to be needy and present, even in times when I’m not around, being desired attracts me above a lot of things.

In terms of kink, I’m pretty open to exploration and am understanding of niche desires, including ABDL and pet play amongst others! Something about a sweet and obedient puppy boy just makes the dominant side of me happy and a bit giddy!

If you’ve taken the time to read this post and are interested in chatting with me, feel free to send a DM, but please start the message with “goddess” so I can ensure you’ve read and understood the entirety of my post.

Xoxo,

Your future mistress😘

Hi all! My name is Mackenzie, but I go by Kenz or Kenzie, I am 23 and from NY! I’m seeking an obedient submissive who is open and willing to helping me also learn and grow as I explore my dominant side further, if you lack a lot of experience even better because then we can navigate this realm together! I’m a college student and work full time, so while I would like my time to be dedicated to you, I can get busy and would appreciate a willingness from you to be needy and present, even in times when I’m not around, being desired attracts me above a lot of things.

In terms of kink, I’m pretty open to exploration and am understanding of niche desires, including ABDL and pet play amongst others! Something about a sweet and obedient puppy boy just makes the dominant side of me happy and a bit giddy!

If you’ve taken the time to read this post and are interested in chatting with me, feel free to send a DM, but please start the message with “goddess” so I can ensure you’ve read and understood the entirety of my post.

Xoxo,

Your future mistress😘

Hi all! My name is Mackenzie, but I go by Kenz or Kenzie, I am 23 and from NY! I’m seeking an obedient submissive who is open and willing to helping me also learn and grow as I explore my dominant side further, if you lack a lot of experience even better because then we can navigate this realm together! I’m a college student and work full time, so while I would like my time to be dedicated to you, I can get busy and would appreciate a willingness from you to be needy and present, even in times when I’m not around, being desired attracts me above a lot of things.

In terms of kink, I’m pretty open to exploration and am understanding of niche desires, including ABDL and pet play amongst others! Something about a sweet and obedient puppy boy just makes the dominant side of me happy and a bit giddy!

If you’ve taken the time to read this post and are interested in chatting with me, feel free to send a DM, but please start the message with “goddess” so I can ensure you’ve read and understood the entirety of my post.

Xoxo,

Your future mistress😘

Hello! I'm a 29 M currently living in the US Central time zone, but looking for something strictly online at the moment. In real life, I'm a grad student working on developing new robotic systems. This means a lot of reading papers, lots of writing code, and lots of staring aimlessly at my screen as I wait for simulations to resolve. Most of this work I do from home as well, so I've got a decent amount of free time during standard working hours while I wait for these simulations to tell me something interesting. Not quite sure what I'm going to do after that, but that's a problem for future me. For now, it gives me a lot of flexibility

Outside of the lab, I love finding new recipes and cooking in general. Most of the time it's finding ways to do 10% more to make my week taste better, but I made a cassoulet from scratch for Christmas and it was definitely worth the 5+ hours in the kitchen! Other than that, I love hiking (when there are hills - I miss those 😭), ultimate frisbee, going for runs, and reading good books. I just recently finished Babel-17, and it's awesome! Language and space merge pretty well - they're just another avenue to explore the human experience. When it's too hot or too cold out, I've also got a deep and abiding love of strategy games and CRPGs, most recently Rogue Trader. The organ music is so good! I also got a dog a couple of months ago, so she's taking up a lot of my time in the best way possible. I'm happy to share dog pics upon request.

Physically, I'm ~6'1", reasonably fit, with a close-cropped beard, shorter hair, and blue/grey eyes. Think more runner than lifter, although I'm trying to be consistent in picking up heavy things to be more well rounded there. It's really easy to go out my front door and run, harder to convince myself to actually go to the gym. I'm currently loving the changing of the seasons when I go out, the bluster of the outdoors makes me really happy :D

Onto the kinky side of things, I'm really into everything orgasm control. This means I love being teased, being denied, edged, locked into a chastity cage, and anything else like that. Special shoutout to ruined orgasms - the reality of getting so close to what I want, only for it to be ruined is so insanely hot that I struggle to put it into words. So yes, ruin me please 😳. I'm also interested in learning to cum faster and faster - so do with that what you will! I also think erotic hypnosis is incredibly attractive, but I haven't had too much success with listening to any files. The through line here: please use me for your pleasure. I have a couple of lovense toys that I'm more than happy to give you control over as well, if you are interested. I also recently recorded this audio of my voice if you enjoy that kind of thing <3

If we sound like a match, that's awesome! I'm so excited to talk to you.

Hiya! I'm Nana, 22 years old and currently living in Egypt. I'm a dom-leaning switch interested in a female-led relationship.

My type is someone who's caring, affectionate and does small things that make my day easier and better (don't we all want that lol). Looks wise I'm into guys that are much bigger than I am so if you're tall, big, strong and masculine then you're definitely my type! If you're not a switch we can always work around it and figure something out. It's more important to me that my partner is caring and willing to work on things with me.

I'm 5'0 and have soft/round features. I recently gained alot of weight and would love to have someone who'd work on that with me or encourage me to get back on track at least! I'm into anything art related. I paint (it's been a while since I did though), I'm really into makeup, playing games and I'm a huge sanrio girlie.

Kink wise I'm into alot of things and open to trying whatever you might be into. Some of my interests include: cunnilingus centered dynamics, switching, femdom, pegging, realistic cnc, tpe, orgasm control, denial and chastity etc. I also absolutely love being spoiled with gifts! I want someone who actually cares about my pleasure and puts mine before theirs. Don't get it wrong though I absolutely love giving and watching my partner melt.

Also, just to be upfront. I'm looking for someone based in Egypt, Sweden or Cape Town because online relationships are kind of hard for me.

If this post resonated with you, don't hesitate to reach out. Looking forward to hearing from you guys! <3

Hey, going to give this a go because I’m not enough of a masochist to download hinge again.

Little about me I’m 29 years old, 5’6, blonde hair blue eyes, slim build, and I have a few tattoos. Also happy to send a picture if you ask nicely. I’m currently living in Scotland but travel fairly often for work. I have an interesting job that I really like but being away from home can also be quite difficult at times so I might make a change fairly soon. Outside of work I’m a very active person, I play rugby, box, climb and also do some mountain biking every now and then. I can sometimes be convinced to go to the gym but I’ve lost most of my motivation for that at the moment. If I’m not doing sports or something similar I really like to read and watch films, occasionally I’ll binge some video games but only if they can hold my attention and the last one to do that was Elden ring.

I’m ideally looking for a long term monogamous partner but could be open to different connections depending on the person. I’m not generally a fan of one night stands I think I tend to lean more towards being Demi sexual. Obviously I’d like to find a likeminded partner who is preferably dominant or a switch. I don’t have any specific dynamics in mind but I have my preferences and I’m happy to chat about them. I have been into kink for a little while now and know what I like and what my boundaries are so I’m more than comfortable discussing them.

Just as some bonus info about me if you made it this far. I’m a pretty big fantasy nerd so if you have any book recommendations let me know. Also slightly obsessed with chess so a playing partner would also be great.

Since it might be relevant with everything going on in the world right now I will say I’m left leaning politically, support equality, and think America is just one big cult.

Thank you if you actually got to end of this and If you want to chat please feel free to send me a message!

I’m a 30 yo guy, 6’3, 225, blonde, ddf, college educated/professional, well-endowed, and very friendly- just to get all my stats out of the way.

I’m a traditionally masculine guy throughout the day, but love seeing someone in stockings/heels/leather/sexy outfits…and found out I like playing while wearing them too. I’ve been told I look very good in them too hehe. I have a few pics in my post history if you’re interested in checking them out, and plenty more to share!

I also absolutely adore outercourse. The teasing and sensations drive me absolutely wild..Would love to chat and potentially meet up with anyone that’s intrigued or into it :)

I have a variety of interests and kinks, too many to list but I can try to sum it up. Heels, stockings, leather, boots, teasing, worship, roleplay, toys, gentle femdom, edging, cfnm, orgasm control, bondage, spanking, and some mild humiliation.

I also have lots of toys and a love for mutual masturbation and pleasing. Maybe you just want to come watch a guy slip into stockings and heels and show off for you while you tease him? Feel free to dm or send me a chat if any of this catches your interest!

Hey there :)

I'm a 32-year-old guy from Spain who has been around the BDSM world for the past few years, and after a couple of amazing dynamics (both online and IRL) I'm back to looking for a special person to spend quality time with, watching movies or playing games, be there for the difficult moments and celebrate the good ones together!

About my SFW Side

I consider myself a calm person, but goofy and playful when I warm up to someone, looking for emotional connection as the core of a friendship/dynamic. I want something playful where I can be myself and have fun together when we can, and be serious when needed.

Outside of kink, some of the things that I like are:

• Hiking or walking along the coast, sometimes alone to reset, sometimes with a close friend chatting about everything and nothing.
• Watching movies or TV shows. I enjoy almost every genre, from flick action movies to slice of life, character driven movies. Everything, except horror.
• Beer tasting. I love trying different and new beers when I have the opportunity.
• Spending time with friends and family. I am a big family person and lucky to have a solid core of friends.

Even if I like spending time with friends and my family, I'm an introvert at heart. I also work out a bit at home, and I like reflecting on how to keep growing personally and professionally. For lifestyle context: I'm child-free by choice, with no interest in having kids in the future.

My NSFW / D-Side

I don't like to focus much on kinks as I don't have any musts, other than that feeling of being owned and giving up control, and the little mindfucks that comes with the power exchange. I believe that every dynamic is different, and I prefer to see what things we are comfortable exploring, the things we would like to try, and see how those mutual interests shape up the dynamic.

What I prefer to talk upfront are limits, which I think is much more important and can be deal-breakers. The following are non-negotiable hard limits that I would not include in a dynamic.

• Scat, vomit, gore/vore.
• Inflicting hard or long-lasting pain.
• Medical play, especially needles.
• Public play with non-consenting participants.

Also, important to note, I understand that life and its circumstances will always take priority. A dynamic should grow around our realities, adapting to what is possible to do, and respecting the balance between commitment to one another and real life.

When it comes to communication, I take privacy seriously and believe in moving at a pace that feels safe for both of us. I like a more personal approach than texts after a while, exchanging audios and calls as it helps to create a more personal connection. For pictures or video calls, I’m comfortable sharing once mutual trust is established. The same from you would be welcomed, but never expected.

Anyway, that's a bit about me! If you want to reach out tell me what piqued your interest about this post, what you are seeking, and something fun or interesting that happened to you recently!

Hope you have a nice weekend :)

I’m new to this space, but not new to understanding control, energy, and intentional presence.

I’m a 34-year-old masc-presenting Black woman with an athletic build and a calm, composed demeanor. I move with intention and tend to speak with purpose rather than saying too much. I’ve always been drawn to dynamics where control is felt rather than forced, where it shows up in tone, attention, and awareness.

I’m interested in connecting with men who are usually in charge in their everyday lives. Men who carry responsibility, make decisions, and hold things together, but are curious about what it feels like to let that go for a while and be guided instead. That exchange of trust and energy is something I find meaningful.

I’m naturally a private and somewhat shy person. I like to keep things low key, contained, and intentional. I’m not looking to be on video or anything performative. I’m more comfortable with something quieter, more personal, and grounded in mutual understanding.

What I’m drawn to is a softer, more psychological dynamic. Nothing loud or forced. I prefer things that build over time, where control comes through consistency, presence, and subtle direction.

This would be online only. Discretion, respect, and patience matter to me. I tend to move a little slower and like to take my time building comfort and connection. Quiet does not mean I’m not interested. It just means I’m intentional about how I engage.

I have a long history as an online servant for women, purely in a platonic way. Primarily I’ve been service oriented, using my skills as an academic writer to help with various tasks.

I’ve been thinking lately about the idea of serving a small business owner, or someone considering starting a business. A business or management major would be great, also — someone who aspires to do great things in business or start a nonprofit.

My ideal situation would be to work for you for free, allowing you to save a significant expense and completely exploit my labor.

I’m also open to writing articles to promote your business or even working on a book project for you, if you have ideas for one. Obviously I would be a complete ghostwriter: my name would not appear, and all of the credit and profit would be yours.

I have experience writing for women in the past, including as a research assistant, academic editor, and general proofreader. One of my proudest roles was writing press releases regularly for a woman’s job.

I realize that this interest of mine is niche and will not appeal widely, but if any of this sounds good to you, please get in touch!

Thank you so much for reading.