u/FuturisticSnail

Hey there :)

I'm a 32-year-old guy from Spain who has been around the BDSM world for the past few years, and after a couple of amazing dynamics (both online and IRL) I'm back to looking for a special person to spend quality time with, watching movies or playing games, be there for the difficult moments and celebrate the good ones together!

About my SFW Side

I consider myself a calm person, but goofy and playful when I warm up to someone, looking for emotional connection as the core of a friendship/dynamic. I want something playful where I can be myself and have fun together when we can, and be serious when needed.

Outside of kink, some of the things that I like are:

• Hiking or walking along the coast, sometimes alone to reset, sometimes with a close friend chatting about everything and nothing.
• Watching movies or TV shows. I enjoy almost every genre, from flick action movies to slice of life, character driven movies. Everything, except horror.
• Beer tasting. I love trying different and new beers when I have the opportunity.
• Spending time with friends and family. I am a big family person and lucky to have a solid core of friends.

Even if I like spending time with friends and my family, I'm an introvert at heart. I also work out a bit at home, and I like reflecting on how to keep growing personally and professionally. For lifestyle context: I'm child-free by choice, with no interest in having kids in the future.

My NSFW / D-Side

I don't like to focus much on kinks as I don't have any musts, other than that feeling of being owned and giving up control, and the little mindfucks that comes with the power exchange. I believe that every dynamic is different, and I prefer to see what things we are comfortable exploring, the things we would like to try, and see how those mutual interests shape up the dynamic.

What I prefer to talk upfront are limits, which I think is much more important and can be deal-breakers. The following are non-negotiable hard limits that I would not include in a dynamic.

• Scat, vomit, gore/vore.
• Inflicting hard or long-lasting pain.
• Medical play, especially needles.
• Public play with non-consenting participants.

Also, important to note, I understand that life and its circumstances will always take priority. A dynamic should grow around our realities, adapting to what is possible to do, and respecting the balance between commitment to one another and real life.

When it comes to communication, I take privacy seriously and believe in moving at a pace that feels safe for both of us. I like a more personal approach than texts after a while, exchanging audios and calls as it helps to create a more personal connection. For pictures or video calls, I’m comfortable sharing once mutual trust is established. The same from you would be welcomed, but never expected.

Anyway, that's a bit about me! If you want to reach out tell me what piqued your interest about this post, what you are seeking, and something fun or interesting that happened to you recently!

Hope you have a nice weekend :)