u/DocRo3

hey there!

as I stated above, I'm 37M, and looking for a Redittor (F/T/NB) to guide me through this process.

so, I'm 37, living in Belgium with my partner, we've been dating for 4,5 years, living together as well. She's wonderful, and I couldn't be happier with her.

The reason I'm looking for something extra is because she is submissive, and not at all into Dominating, which she knows about and encourages me to find for myself.

I love music, movies (especially horror), series (supernatural, firefly, american horror story), video games, dungeons and dragons.

Sometimes a long walk is good to clear my head, other times some subbing does the trick better 😇.

In my personal life I'm quite busy, so would expect respect for that.

mostly quiet and with random hyperfixations because of adhd, I get distracted easily, so could use guidance there as well.

My physique is: average guy with glasses, tattoos, a beard, and about 5'6 (168cm), so a pretty short king 😋

i am also a very queer, pansexual, sex positive, fat positive, leftist, feminist by proxy(my partner is one of the biggest feminists on the planet, so i kind of have to be, but i wouldn't have it any other way), open-minded, try anything at least twice kind of person. i would love to meet a like-minded person if possible. definitely not a right wing person, because that would be a big red flag for me, sorry.

If you love pop-punk/punk rock/metal, that's a BIG bonus! I'm still stuck in the 90's/2000's pop punk scene, so don't hate me when i quote sum 41 or blink 182 lyrics on the daily haha.

More about me, the better stuff:

subby person, developping their sub side more and more.

kinks include but are not limited to:

chastity, humiliation, degradation, sph, orgasm control(everything about it), soft pain, anal play, bondage, water sports, bladder control, public play, forced chastity and sexual favours.

All in all, I'm looking for someone to be kind to me, help me discover new things, push my limits in a caring way.

I want to build a lasting connection, and make sure both of us are satisfied with everything.

also the person guiding me needs to take my adhd in account, and be patient with me. i get distracted sometimes, but a good ruling system or guidelines might help tonnes with that. it's not something deal breaking, but could help us both out tremendously.

i would love to hear from you, and a little introduction. I don't really care what you look like, since the connection will be the most important part.

other than that, i would love if the person is in the EU timezone

if you read this far, please send me a dm with your favourite dinosaur, no sellers please.

I hope this peaked your interest :))

kind regards,

Doc

hey there!

as I stated above, I'm 37M, and looking for a Redittor (F/T/NB) to guide me through this process.

so, I'm 37, living in Belgium with my partner, we've been dating for 4,5 years, living together as well. She's wonderful, and I couldn't be happier with her.

The reason I'm looking for something extra is because she is submissive, and not at all into Dominating, which she knows about and encourages me to find for myself.

I love music, movies (especially horror), series (supernatural, firefly, american horror story), video games, dungeons and dragons.

Sometimes a long walk is good to clear my head, other times some subbing does the trick better 😇.

In my personal life I'm quite busy, so would expect respect for that.

mostly quiet and with random hyperfixations because of adhd, I get distracted easily, so could use guidance there as well.

My physique is: average guy with glasses, tattoos, a beard, and about 5'6 (168cm), so a pretty short king 😋

i am also a very queer, pansexual, sex positive, fat positive, leftist, feminist by proxy(my partner is one of the biggest feminists on the planet, so i kind of have to be, but i wouldn't have it any other way), open-minded, try anything at least twice kind of person. i would love to meet a like-minded person if possible. definitely not a right wing person, because that would be a big red flag for me, sorry.

If you love pop-punk/punk rock/metal, that's a BIG bonus! I'm still stuck in the 90's/2000's pop punk scene, so don't hate me when i quote sum 41 or blink 182 lyrics on the daily haha.

More about me, the better stuff:

subby person, developping their sub side more and more.

kinks include but are not limited to:

chastity, humiliation, degradation, sph, orgasm control(everything about it), soft pain, anal play, bondage, water sports, bladder control, public play, forced chastity and sexual favours.

All in all, I'm looking for someone to be kind to me, help me discover new things, push my limits in a caring way.

I want to build a lasting connection, and make sure both of us are satisfied with everything.

also the person guiding me needs to take my adhd in account, and be patient with me. i get distracted sometimes, but a good ruling system or guidelines might help tonnes with that. it's not something deal breaking, but could help us both out tremendously.

i would love to hear from you, and a little introduction. I don't really care what you look like, since the connection will be the most important part.

other than that, i would love if the person is in the EU timezone

if you read this far, please send me a dm with your favourite dinosaur, no sellers please.

I hope this peaked your interest :))

kind regards,

Doc