r/BDSMpersonals

19f petite skinny Korean ethnicity currently living in the US but can relocate. Last summer I was at a party and fell off a deck and landed on my spine on a brick wall below that made me paralvzed below the waist. Because of that over time all my friends ditched me, while at the same time I aged out of the foster care system and now live in a group home. My life has become empty with no family or friends, and now I just live day by day empty. Before the accident I had friends, FWB partners that really got me into being submissive and really enjoying earning the grunts of men when they cum. Now as a cripple l'm untouchable and they don't even want me. I've considered suicide but a few people on Reddit convinced me it would be a waste of a decent body to waste like that and told me to find a master that could put my body to use where I'm just a soul that's squatting the body that's his property. If this resonates with you and you can take me in, I will earn my keep and do your bidding to keep you happy. 

Hi. I’m 24 years old, 5’6, 120-ish pounds, glasses, bangs. I love joy and positivity.

I am incredibly affectionate. I want to follow you around your home and hug and kiss. I want to lay my head in your lap while we talk. I want to be completely obsessed with you in the best way!

I’d like you to desire me whole heartedly. Put in the effort. Want to watch my favorite shows, or spoil me with affection and caresses. Be incredibly kind in our day to day.

On the other end of things, in the bedroom, I want you to completely dominate me. Throw me around, pull my hair, choke me, overwhelm me with pleasure. I want to be licked and have toys used on me for hours. I want you to want me to feel so good that you have turned me entirely feral and needy. Say dirty mean things to me. I am willing to try anything once. I have a fantasy of being peed on because it’s so humiliating. (eek). I have a very high libido.

If you have time to see me often, call every other day or so, and just be affectionate, maybe we can try?

Hello. I'm from Europe and I'm F18. I want a master or mistress who will degrade me every day in a variety of ways. I really enjoy submitting, brutal humiliation, and control (clothes, orgasm, etc.). There aren't many restrictions, but things like scat and everything permanent are out of reach. I have a few plugs and dildos, clamps, whip, gag, wand, bullet and egg vibrators, and clamps.

I require a strict and determined master. Please provide more information than simply your age and sex in your initial reply!

Needing daddy dom over 35. I’m a great sub, I like to laugh, I’ll make you laugh, and I love to overstim. No punishment, okay with rituals and tasks. Looking for emotional safety, nurturing, and some routine :) open to just chatting first, then playing online as we get to know each other.

Seeking a submissive simp who specializes in adoration. Someone who is dying to be on their knees pleasing and spoiling their Goddess😇 I am seeking something genuine and long-term. Must be discreet. Text/audio only. Please message me your age, timezone, personal interests, desires and limits if this resonates with you!💕 And please make it worth my while...🥰😘

Hi everyone 👋, but especially my little edging and gooning sluts. 😘 I have been here before, and I have had some terrible fun with a few of you, but then, like little waves going out to sea, we unfortunately lost touch. I am craving it again. That raw energy that you and I might make together that builds up, because I give you tasks every day that push you to the very edge of your sexuality and your orgasms, over and over, wherein you will be a drooling, grooling, moist and compliant pet for me. And I will eventually give you a very hard orgasm, of course, but it must be earned, and done in a way that I describe.

I want you brain-dead for me, where all you are thinking about is us fucking throughout the day, and all the good and nasty things you want me to do to you and with you. Maybe I will have you cream your cute little panties, or maybe I will train you to cum by saying a secret trigger word, and I trained you so very well that you will start to tremble and shake uncontrollably for me when I do. That is when I know you are all mine, when I can mould you like a tiny, perfect pet for me, and you, being you, will want it. However, it really depends on you, what you allow, and the vibe I get from you when I ask you certain questions, so that I can tell what in particular will make you tingle. But I am already getting ahead of myself.

🖤💘About me: I'm a busy 40-year-old-ish man, in grad school, and I work in my office off and on throughout the day. I love to read, do psychology and philosophy, listen to music, watch strange movies, and I love dark romance a little. That is the lighter side of my life, but I do have a darker side, and I am intrigued by the idea of secretly exploring it with someone special—possibly long-term play.

🖤💘My kinks include multitudes. First, I would prefer it if you called me Daddy or Sir, since I am dominant, but I have explored the sub side, so I know how it feels and the trust you put in me. As I said, I like to edge you, tease you, and bring you right to the edge of orgasm, before I tell you to stop and relax, and then begin again. My favourite position is to have you on your knees, naked or wearing something sexy, feeling very vulnerable for me. Before I get you naked, though, I often like to get your panties very wet. Then I might ask you to stick your panties in your mouth so that you can taste your wetness. I do like to bend you over, where your face is all the way to the floor, so your ass and pussy are exposed to the world. I like to spank you with my knowledgeable hands, where I know how to spank you in the right spot, and how hard to do it, to make you even wetter. Control over my subs is something I am interested in, and therefore, I like to pick out your underwear for the day. I love it when I can grab your waist and lower you down onto my cock, with my hands gently on your throat, so even though you are on top, I control what is happening, how fast you go, and how deep my cock enters you. I dream of entering you raw and pumping my seed deeply inside of you, where our juices will mix and randomly will dribble out of you during the day. There are other kinks, and you will find out about them as we talk, but that gives you a little taste.

Still reading 📖? Good. Then you already know we might be dangerous together, but possibly the good kind. Don't overthink it. Message me. Be honest, be real, and tell me exactly what about this profile made you reach out. Sometimes a little bit of confidence is attractive. Directness is even more so. Let's see what kind of trouble we can get into. If I reply to you, it is a good sign....my slut.

I’m 21, 5’7, a bit chubby, chronically ill. I do not have a lot of energy most days, so I hope to find someone patient and understanding. I’m not interested in orgasms or having sex (unless it’s mindfucking with cables or tentacles). I enjoy the feeling of letting go of my thoughts and worries. I have experience with hypnosis (receiving, not giving, although I’d be interested in trying to hypnotize someone). Hypnosis is a must (preferably if you have experience in hypnotizing people and being hypnotized). I love submitting but resisting is a fun game. I’d love to be ordered to do tasks.

I want to be your pet, your thrall, your test subject. I’ve been in a hypnokink server for a little over a year now, but otherwise I do not have experience with dom/sub relationships. Not looking for TPE, I don’t feel like I have enough experience for that just yet.

I want us both to write about our experiences together and then we share them with each other. I write what I feel and you write your observations about me and how I react. I want to be known inside and out.

I’m a bit shy and I need time to myself on occasion. Communication is kind of hard for me, so it may take me a bit to word things in the way I mean. I love dressing up, embroidery, crafting, baking, ren faires, dnd, gaming, thrifting, decorating, and dancing.

My favorite shows are True Blood, The Following, Prodigal Son, Black Butler, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Charmed, Supernatural, and Hannibal.

Looking for more of a friend than a lover. Age range: 21-33 Kinks: vampire, hypnosis, mechsploitation, drones, mind control/brainwashing, being experimented on, tentacles, transformation, cnc, intox play, role playing. Limits: hucow, daddy/mommy kinks, Bambi, anything to do with the occult, nun/priest, pain (unless it’s biting), spanking, choking, bodily fluids (unless it’s blood). Feel free to message me with some tidbits about yourself and what you’re looking for as well.

I just turned 18 and I have been hiding how filthy and needy I really am for so long. On the outside I am the classic good girl, polite, ambitious, doing maths at uni with big plans for the future and trying so hard to be a strong independent girl. But inside my head it is nonstop fantasies about an older experienced man taking me over completely and turning me into his personal drooling little slut and submissive dumb hucow.

I do not want quick nudes or silly roleplay at all. I want someone patient and twisted who loves the slow game, someone who will gently push me every single time we talk until I am confessing things that make me blush and leak and beg. I want to be trained step by step into a complete nympho until I cannot even think straight anymore and all I can do is moo and leak for him like the stupid hucow I was always meant to be.

My experience is basically nothing, just boring missionary a couple times with my ex. But the thoughts that get me so wet are so much darker and needier: being slowly mind broken, trained to drool and leak like a brainless nympho, public play where I am scared of getting caught, lots of spit play, using my stupidly strong oral fixation until my throat is sore, pet play with collars and crawling, light bondage, and anything that puts me deep in that helpless submissive fog where I stop being smart and independent and just become a dumb leaking hucow. I melt when a man mixes real soft praise with mean degradation and honestly I am shamelessly obsessed with the idea of a much bigger dick stretching and ruining me so I cannot enjoy normal sex ever again. I keep fantasizing about being forced to edge for hours until my brain melts, about having my tits slapped and squeezed until they are red and sensitive, about being made to wear a plug all day while I try to focus on uni work, about being slowly conditioned to only cum when I am called a pathetic little hucow, about free use whenever he wants even if I am studying or sleeping, about being bred over and over until I swell up and leak milk for real, and about losing every last bit of my intelligence until all I can do is moo and beg for cock like a brainless breeding toy.

Outside of this I still look like the smart put together maths girl with a good reputation. I love reading and the gym. I know how stupid and risky this is for my future but the thought of slowly throwing all of that away because I cannot stop getting soaked over becoming a submissive dumb hucow just makes my pussy throb harder and harder.

If you are an older confident guy who knows how to be sweet one second and cruel the next and you want to take a curious 2008 maths girl and slowly stop her from being strong and independent until she is your secret broken needy hucow project please message me.

Be serious, able to verify, and tell me your age. The more honest and tempting your message the more likely I will reply because I am aching so badly to start falling.

I am nervous as hell but so ready to stop pretending and finally become the submissive dumb hucow I keep dreaming about.

hello! 25F online based in mountain time zone (USA) - would prefer someone else in the usa or similar time zones

looking for a longer term dynamic if we click, i love orgasm denial and teasing and edging and having to work to earn my orgasms, i want a woman who will keep me desperate and needy and dripping and give me tasks and rules to follow to earn a chance to even potentially maybe cum. i also like humiliation, anal, pain, bladder control, bondage, and more i can’t think of now. i’m willing to try most things. my limits are scat, ass to mouth/ass to vag, vomit, blood, and public (ok with discreet public tasks)

hope to see you in my dms :)

I'm an inexperienced 18-year-old looking for submissive men who crave structure, discipline, and the thrill of being put in their place. This will be an online dynamic, so l expect effort, creativity, and consistent communication.

About Me:

I thrive in the role of a commanding presence, blending teasing, control, and discipline with a hint of playfulness. My kinks include pegging, humiliation, and power exchange, and I particularly enjoy men who are eager to present themselves fully — especially if they take pride in their backside ;). Outside of kink, I enjoy fitness, reading, and gaming. I value effort, dedication, and progress while providing structure and clear expectations.

About You:

Whether you're experienced or brand new to submission, I'm open to exploring and guiding you at your pace, as long as you're willing to listen, learn, and put in the effort. You should enjoy surrendering control, showing off, obeying orders, and being teased or put in your place. Confidence in your submission and a willingness to showcase your assets (yes, I'm talking about your butt) is nonnegotiable. This is an online dynamic, so you should be good with words, attentive, and open to exploring your desires virtually.

If this resonates with you, send me a detailed message introducing yourself. Let me know your age, location, body type, and why you’d be perfect for me.

So, I am in a bit of a strange situation and looking for the right Man to accommodate it.

I am an MWF. My husband was physically/intellectually disabled in 2019 due to a vehicular accident. He encourages me to find someone local.

I am looking for regular encounters with a local Man that would be discreet. This would be encounters after 9 PM, when my husband is sedated.

It would take place in the living room, another room, pool/hot tub.

If you could accommodate this situation, let’s chat and get to know each other.

I am 36 yo wf 5’7” 134# blonde hair/blue eyes, thin. Typically dress casually in cut-off blue-jean shorts and tee shirts but can get dressed up.

whether I ever decide to try again, I've been wondering whether there are any very experienced mentors who are knowledgable about a variety of dynamics and who could be willing to assist me navigate future dynamics or simply broaden my understanding. Attending munches is challenging for me because I'm a rather introverted person, but I'm making an effort to go. Additionally, the majority of the educational programs in my area typically take place on days or times that conflict with my schedule. Someone in the Est time zone, preferably in person if they're in Texas. I might only stay in Czech for a few more months.

In summary, I would much benefit from some advice.

My name is Maya. But really I wouldn’t be called that. I don’t mind what I’m referred to all I know is that I’m just a toy. A toy made with three holes.

I know my place in this world. What I’m made for. I love being put in my place.

I love the pain, nipple torture, anal and degradation. I love to be made to feel small.

Limits: scat, pee and anything illegal.

I want a dom to use me. Tie me up and ruin me. I am also open to couples as I am bi however I wish to be the submissive in the couple situation. I also love women. I love women who can control me too.

idk i just wanna be cuddled and hugged, a reassurance that everything is gonna be ok...

i feel so lonely and sad, i don't have anyone rn to give the love i was used to even if it was so little

ya i can do nsfw stuff if you make me feel happy and put me in the mood lol (pls be 35y+)

I have an unfortunately huge rape kink.. I'm hoping to find a partner that loves to hear about it and encourage me to embrace it! I'm thinking about getting too drunk or too high, letting you pressure me into giving in, having you simply overpower me.

I'm open to any other cnc scenarios, tell me your favorites! My limits are anal, public, breeding, anything illegal or bathroom related. I'm also not always a fan of being told exactly how to touch myself or strict orgasm control. And yes, really, no anal.

I love rules, instructions and giving up control. I am looking for a total power exchange relationship ranging anything from makeup and clothing control to denial, edging and bladder control (if interested)

I’m 23 and have experience submitting in the bedroom but looking at moving towards something for my everyday life as well. I’m keep to learn and very obedient.

Hi there, here are some things about me that may be deal breakers.

First I am strictly monogamous, I am currently overweight but working on it, I want to be married, and I never want kids. I am in the process of getting myself sterilized actually (Im scheduled for it next week).

So some things about me, I work Monday to Friday from 7am to 3:30pm. I usually have availability on the weekends. My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing, and playing video games. My favorite TV show is South Park, I rewatch it all the time. Im a bit of a homebody, I do want to be more outgoing but I dont know of a lot to do in my area so I just stay home lol.

Kink wise I am looking for a Dom who is respectful of my limits, prioritizes aftercare, likes setting daily rules and tasks, and who would like to call and text often

Some of my kinks are

Bondage

DDLG

Pet play

Light pain

Overstimulation

Cock warming

Breeding

Limits

Scat

Blood

Severe pain

Weapons

Anything illegal

I do struggle a bit with depression, I'm not diagnosed but I share a lot of the signs and am currently unable to find a therapist to get proper treatment. Im not in danger of self harming, and it just often leads me to shutting down and not feeling good enough for my partner.

I hope we get along and I look forward to meeting you ☺️

Hi! What I'm looking for is a bit specific, so if nothing works out, that's alright. I am also new to this, so if I'm doing anything wrong, just lmk!

What I am looking for is someone (18-25) willing to start with a foundation relationship (not necessarily romantic) and then build a dynamic off of it. I value connection most of all, and if we don't connect, then building something more will be difficult. In the end, I would love for it to stem into a romantic/long-term relationship, but I am willing to explore a bit.

I want to start solely online, but if we end up developing a deeper relationship, I would be willing to meet and continue building. I live on the east coast, but long distance isn't a big deal for me.

The main thing I desire is a soft dom. This is very important for me. But also someone willing to switch between dom and sub, I believe power should be shared!

A little info on me, I am 5'10 and chubby, have brown shoulder-length hair and grey/blue eyes, I have a unique style and love getting to dress up with some light makeup! I'm enamored with bondage and restriction, am interested in DD/lg dynamics, and have a slight oral fixation. I'm willing to try new things in safe environments though!

If any of this interests you, don't be scared to dm! I can show my kinklist or answer any questions on what dynamic I am searching for! Thanks for reading and I hope to talk soon :D <3

helloooo everyone! i am back looking again and see if there is one. i can either go casual or long term. i have experience on both. i would appreciate if you're honest with your intentions because i dont really mind rather than just you leaving abruptly, blocking, and just ghosting. i am just really here for fun. im leaning very much on the gentle side. i like making someone feel love, cared for, and appreciated. i dont like being too harsh although i definitely know what i want and who i want so in that sense i can be strict. i will be honest im not into deep humiliation or degradation play. i truly believe it has long term effect on someone's self-esteem and the last thing i wanna do is cause someone any negativity on himself. bottomline is - i understand you have your own life so i respect that. we all have do.

my favorite kinks are all femdom kinks

- i like joi - i love giving instructions on how to stroke and edge

- be ready to be edged bc i love orgasm control

- i am sometimes in the mood for cum denial and ruin orgasm - i love those

- i like anal play and pegging - i know this is not for everyone so it is ok if you are not into this

- use of toys if you have and pet play

- my harsh side includes slight cbt, bb, and chastity

- lots of edging, know that i could go on for hours when in the right mood

- i am definitely open to a lot of kinks so please communicate that well in your message. i wont respond to just one liners like "hey". send me a background of you. would love a pic but i heard some cannot due to the update so if thats the case then include that on the message. i would appreciate if you use those website imgur stuff but saying it in the intro would suffice. i pretty much read all requests so let me know. if it doesnt hit, then sorry i wont open it really and move onto the next one.

what im looking for:

1. ⁠age wise: 18- 25 unless ur very cute (sorry)

2. ⁠preferably can cam bc thats my preferred session

3. ⁠someone who is respectful and not arrogant

4. ⁠someone who is polite enough to greet me and have a nice conversation - bare minimum cmon now

5. ⁠wontt treat me like a disposable robot

6. ⁠someone who aligns with my interests

i think thats all if you wanna ask anything message me. i dont know anymore if i'll keep this account nor ill keep this post up and running because baby its getting tiring and i dont know anymore if this is for me. but i miss the fun and excitement and feeling loved and owning someone. if u reached this part, then im proud of u. i can verify and cam as well so lucky you. i know this is poorly written but atleast i dont use ai. talk to u soon!

hello! first of all, if you're looking for someone experienced who knows exactly what they want, that's not me. I'm here because I'm curious and want to try something new

all my experience has been as a sub. however, I've had moments when i wanted to see my dom on his knees, begging me or acting needy and desperate. maybe it was just the brat in me talking, who knows?

in any case, I'd be glad to find a kinky friend who i can easily talk to about whatever we want, and naughty stuff too <3

work takes up most of my time. so when I'm free i like playing games, reading books/manga or just scrolling tiktok. physically I'm 178cm and on the very skinny side, you can see some pictures on my profile anyway

I'm definitely not a mommy and not into feminization. about everything else we can talk in private or try to figure out if we like something or not

open to pictures and audio/video calls when we feel comfortable

thank you for reading this, have a good day!