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35M4MF - Experienced Bull – 6’3” Tall, Gym-Fit I Sydney CBD
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35M4MF - Experienced Bull – 6’3” Tall, Gym-Fit I Sydney CBD

Hey couples,

I’m a 35-year-old bull — 6’3”, gym-fit, easy-going with a cheeky, playful side and a dry sense of humour. I’m experienced enough to know how to read the vibe and make sure everyone has a great time.

Looking for a relaxed, secure couple who’s keen to bring in a third for some fun no-strings MFM play. Whether you want light flirty teasing, full-on energy, or anything in between — I’m down. Good banter, laughter, and chilled vibes are what I’m all about.

I can host for the right couple in a private, comfortable, and very discreet apartment right near the CBD. Clean, relaxed setting with space to unwind and let things flow naturally.

I’m clean (regularly tested), fully discreet, respectful of all boundaries, and never pushy. Consent, safety, and mutual enjoyment always come first.

If you’re a secure couple who likes the idea of a tall, confident guy joining your play, hit me up. Tell me a bit about the two of you, what you’re looking for, any boundaries or fantasies you have in mind.

Let’s start with some chat and see if the chemistry clicks. No pressure, no rush.

Looking forward to hearing from you 😉

u/JRemus69 — 5 days ago
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29 [M4F] #Australia #Online Seeking a genuine FLR and long-term partner. Let me focus on you

Hello everyone,

I’m jumping back into the dating pool after a previous long-term dynamic ended a few months ago. By day, I do sciency stuff in the lab, which means I’m patient, detail-oriented, and used to working hard for results. Funny how it can translate pretty well to being a supportive partner and submissive.

Outside that, I’m usually lost in a fantasy novel or gaming, if not binge-watching the new show. Recently, I took up photography, and there’s something magical about finding the perfect composition or waiting for the right light.

So, if you have any good books to read, shows to watch, or games to play, I’d love to hear your recommendations. If you’re a fan of photography, let’s talk about that too.

I attached a photo of myself, and I’m happy to share more!

My Approach to Submission & FLR

I am looking for a girlfriend and a leader, not just a scene partner. I want a dynamic based on D/s principles. Specifically, I am open to and interested in a FLR (hence this sub). My submission is a conscious gift I want to give to the right woman. I know what I want and who I am, so you won’t find me trying to top from the bottom or negotiate my way out of instructions. I want a partner who leads, and I find peace in following that lead in our daily lives. I’d love to discuss the details further, but I think you get the gist of it. I’m somewhat experienced as a sub, but I love learning more about you, and I’m flexible enough to be molded into the best sub for you!

What We Could Do

Now, about some kinky stuff. Apart from orgasm control, I like chastity, CBT, and anal training, to name a few. I’m interested in TPE but haven’t tried it yet, so if you are, maybe we can try it together. Also, I love to be helpful to you in your day-to-day stuff. Do you need someone to help you research your new hobby? Do you need someone to take care of your schedule? That’s me.

It’s not about the play all the time. I’m a good listener and love to know how you spent your day. Tell me about your work drama—let’s gossip. Let’s be lazy together. Just being normal is fun too.

Who I'm Looking For

I’m looking for a partner (approx. 24–35) who values the person behind the submissive. I want someone who understands that kinky fun and intellectual chemistry aren't mutually exclusive. I’m open to discussing limits and other kinks, but chemistry comes first. If you are looking for a devoted partner to build a life (and a dynamic) with, send me a message with a book recommendation or just say hi.

https://imgur.com/a/tNgfH90

u/Curious_Assistant — 1 day ago

32 [M4F] # Sydney, Australia. Geeky, kind, compassionate and kinky man seeking kinky woman to annoy and shower with affection.

About me: 32-year-old male, health professional who is into fitness, fantasy, sci-fi, history and other geeky nerdy interests.

Appearance: 5’5 (165cm), 70kg (stocky build but trying to get shredded), Australian of Vietnamese descent. I have photos of myself in my post history for reference.

Personality: Easy going, patient, open minded, financially savvy, gentle, kind, extremely self-aware, high levels of empathy and emotional intelligence.

Looking for: Genuine long-term vanilla relationship and kinky partner. So, vanilla in the streets but extremely spicy in the sheets where we can live out our most twisted and darkest fantasies. Outside of that I want someone to share my life with, grow together and a genuine intimate connection.

Kinks: anal (I'm an ass man looking for a self-proclaimed 'anal whore'), CNC, butt plugs (hopefully worn on a cute date or just going out), abduction, captivity, hair pulling, choking, spanking, caging, collar and leash, wardrobe control, schoolgirl/school uniforms, master/slave, dd/lg, role play, bondage and humiliation/degradation. Am also a fan of aftercare, affection and cuddles. Open to your suggestions and personal favorite kinks.

Limits: inflicting hard pain, leaving permanent scars/marks, urine, scat (see too much of that at work already), needles, knives/weapons, mutilation, gore, animals, anything illegal. Will respect all your limits along with safe words.

About you: Sydney or NSW local. Twenties to thirties. Height irrelevant, I’ve been into petite and tall women.

Given the nature of some of my kinks and also the fact that I want a LTR too I’m willing to take it slow and get to know you a as a whole person before we even get into the kinky side. Hoping to hear from you soon.

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u/ButchersAssistant93 — 1 hour ago

27 [M4F] #Melbourne / Sydney Australia | Corporate boy looking to spice up his days and nights

Hi :)

I’m 27, Melbourne-based, tall, broad, mixed background tanned, beardy. I would like embody the " lumberjack in a boring corporate job” kind of vibe.

On the outside Im calm, composed, articulate … almost stoic....but with a very deliberate, commanding streak once I find the right vibe. After hours im a completely different person to the typical corporate and always need an outlet to blow of alllll that pent up steam.

I am kinda experienced in BDSM (more in theory than practise) and always curious to explore further, especially with someone who understands the appeal of having two parallel lives: the professional exterior and the private, unfiltered space behind it.

Aspects im interested in exploring more

- Domming you (soft and rough mixed)

- Somewhat rough oral play (both ways)

- heavy Making out + groping (idk..this is super important haha)

- Risky public play.

- more stuff if you have ideas?

I’m hoping to connect with someone who’s looking to explore like me...similar minded or at least familiar with the double lifestyle...the coworkers and family who have only seen a certain side of you ... the polished facade. Someone who gets why a risky mid-day voice notes and quick calls in the meeting room, followed by a meet up after the workday .. to relieve the day-to-day stress ;)

If you’re playful, confident, a little bratty or quietly shy, and you enjoy a dynamic that moves between controlled, soft, rough, and utterly filthy, we’ll get along very well. I like partners who can match energy, challenge it, or let me take the lead depending on the moment. I write a fair bit of erotic content and used to record audios, so voice, tone, and intentional communication matter a lot to me (maybe we can create some inspiration?)

Melbourne or Sydney - based only pls.. coffee and a chat would be awesome.... maybe something more if we click. Pls be someone who understand how to build a connection with words, voice, and innuendos. I hate to be the only chatty one

18+ only.

And put a 🥭 in your intro so I know you actually made it here ... i love ...juicy stuff 🙃

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u/AzrisMentalAsylum — 2 hours ago

21 (F4A) #Australian Domme | Sub applications open! Come to mee

Hi there, I'm Mistress M.

I'm a psychological domme who enjoys a wide range of kinks, such as JOI, blackmail, praise, denial, findomme, TPE, etc. I'm the type of domme who's domination depends on my mood. I lean towards soft domme majority of the time, however, I enjoy the occasional consensual abuse.

I enjoy subs who push their limits for their dommes. I cannot stand brats, so do not message me if you are one. As a domme, I enjoy subs who can engage in normal and intellectual conversation outside of scenes.

Outside of being a domme, I'm a total nerd. I love anime, music, poetry and gaming. I'm a massive fan of pokemon. I love napping and business, and am a huge workaholic.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you pretties x

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u/ProfessionalLie7901 — 24 hours ago
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42 [M4F] #AUSTRALIA Dom/daddy seeking LTR sub/babygirl

hi im a 42 M dom/daddy from QLD Australia, im looking gor a submissive babygirl who's seeking a ltr before anything else must be willing to consider relocation, im 5"11 blue eyes, Tattoos and a beard, im kind caring, protective, can be strict when needed, very open minded "kink" non judgemental, id would expect the same from my submissive "open minded to a switch" im happy to start online, but must be okay with sending and recipient pics, doing video calls once a connection and trust is built.

age [18-30's] prefered, slim-curvy, clingy is a bonus, id like someone thats comfortable being open and honest, and wants a ltr with marriage. if you wish to get to know more and see if we click please reach out. best of luck all in your search for a true connection

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u/nedsback83 — 10 hours ago

20 (m4f/tf) looking for a femdom or a trans woman in the Newcastle area

looking for my first domination experience or my first experience with a trans woman.

please message with your age and something about you in your first message

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u/Is_that_a_supra1010 — 22 hours ago
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