u/Vahaniaz

Hello,

I hope you are having a great day so far! I am writing this message because am looking for an online dynamic to help me control myself. I have always fantasized about a dynamic like this  and I hope that I will get to have this experience. 

What I am looking for: Someone who could be older but not passing the age of 30. They could be a little strict but also nurturing as I am looking for a semi-rigid structure. Likes to give commands and expects obedience and will punish if necessary. I’m definitely a switch but I can be controlled very easily so don’t worry about brat taming unless you like that. We can always discuss dynamics more in chats. I’m okay with videocalling or messaging but I’d rather not show my face. Any way of communication works for me. 

I am a 21 year old male who goes to school in the US but frequently spends my summers in Belgium/Europe. Describing myself I would say I am a quiet guy who often has a lot of pressure on him and wants to have ways to release it. Being controlled and dominated is a good release on that. Regarding my kinks, being edged, dominated, light degradation, mommy, legs, ass, feet, socks, shoeplay, bondage, predicaments, and all stuff around those veins of kinky materials have been effective at one stage of my day or another. 

Limits usually are: Toilet play, sissification, huge amounts of pain bondage, (lighter forms are okay) blood and knives, and I suppose more extreme forms of things like that. Also toys that are available for you to use. I own several cock rings, and a fleshlight with a vibrator that sticks inside. It isn’t much but I could pick something up before traveling to Europe. 

Speaking of my travels I want to really respect your time and say I’d be more than willing to spend 4 months learning and serving under you but after that school sort of takes over and my days become really busy. I hope this could be satisfactory as I am really excited yet apprehensive. I’d be available for most of the summer barring occasional trips or other things that I have to do. 

Regarding why I want this. I aim to please people around me and want to be impactful in some way in someone’s life. It just so happens these acts also help me relieve stress. I’m more of an introvert with nerdy activities who wants to train himself more on his base urges because they have been getting out of hand at school and I believe some structure may be the solution to that which I hope someone would be gracious enough to provide. Finally as it would be my first experience I would be eager and ready to do any and all tasks set to me within defined boundaries.

Enjoy yourself!

Hello all

I hope you are having a great day so far! I am writing this message because am looking for an online dynamic to help me control myself. I have always fantasized about a dynamic like this  and I hope that I will get to have this experience. 

What I am looking for: Someone who could be older but not passing the age of 30. They could be a little strict but also nurturing as I am looking for a semi-rigid structure. Likes to give commands and expects obedience and will punish if necessary. I’m definitely a switch but I can be controlled very easily so don’t worry about brat taming unless you like that. We can always discuss dynamics more in chats. I’m okay with videocalling or messaging but I’d rather not show my face. Any way of communication works for me. 

I am a 21 year old male who goes to school in the US but frequently spends my summers in Belgium/Europe. Describing myself I would say I am a quiet guy who often has a lot of pressure on him and wants to have ways to release it. Being controlled and dominated is a good release on that. Regarding my kinks, being edged, dominated, light degradation, mommy, legs, ass, feet, socks, shoeplay, bondage, predicaments, and all stuff around those veins of kinky materials have been effective at one stage of my day or another. 

Limits usually are: Toilet play, sissification, huge amounts of pain bondage, (lighter forms are okay) blood and knives, and I suppose more extreme forms of things like that. Also toys that are available for you to use. I own several cock rings, and a fleshlight with a vibrator that sticks inside. It isn’t much but I could pick something up before traveling to Europe. 

Speaking of my travels I want to really respect your time and say I’d be more than willing to spend 4 months learning and serving under you but after that school sort of takes over and my days become really busy. I hope this could be satisfactory as I am really excited yet apprehensive. I’d be available for most of the summer barring occasional trips or other things that I have to do. 

Regarding why I want this. I aim to please people around me and want to be impactful in some way in someone’s life. It just so happens these acts also help me relieve stress. I’m more of an introvert with nerdy activities who wants to train himself more on his base urges because they have been getting out of hand at school and I believe some structure may be the solution to that which I hope someone would be gracious enough to provide. Finally as it would be my first experience I would be eager and ready to do any and all tasks set to me within defined boundaries. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if I sound like someone you would like to talk to

Enjoy yourself!