u/J-someone

47 white male, 5’7”, 185lbs fit, decent looking or so I’m told, full head of hair, beard neatly trimmed. I’m here to connect with someone who’s looking for something similar and is married or in a relationship that’s lacking. You’ve lost that spark, the feeling of being desired and wanted. Seeking—A connection, mentally and emotionally, FWB-NSA relationship. Built on mutual respect, honesty, and clear expectations. I’m looking for meaningful conversation, chemistry, and then regular meet ups. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation or my own. I believe attraction and compatibility matter, so chatting first and meeting in person (when comfortable) is important to me. I’m not opposed to single women, but it has been my experience most are scammers. No offense. I also won’t be your SD or financer.

I’m down-to-earth with a great sense of humor and a straightforward communication style. I’m married and value discretion. I enjoy staying active—exercise, watching sports, and spending time outdoors. Camping, hiking, and working with my hands are some of my favorite ways to unwind. I like building and fixing things and take pride in being practical and capable.

I’m open-minded and appreciate confidence in all forms. Age is just a number, and personality matters more than anything else. I love thicker women but I’m not picky. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can be direct and forward at times, but I value kindness and transparency—no games, no drama.

Please be within about 90-120 minutes of the B-ham area, as it keeps travel reasonable on both sides. I’m not a scammer and again I have no interest in scams or financial exchanges. Sorry but I won’t be buying you an apple gift card, or sending you money for groceries.

When it’s time for meet up? Could you be able to split the cost of a hotel? If not no worries, but let’s be honest we’re both here for a reason. I cannot host not sure if you want to host. But I believe a hotel would be better for discretion. Daytime availability works best for me.

Discretion is an absolute must—no exceptions. If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I look forward to connecting. Stay safe.

I’m here to connect with someone who’s looking for something similar and is married or in a relationship that’s lacking. You’ve lost that spark, the feeling of being desired and wanted. Seeking—A connection, mentally and emotionally, FWB-NSA relationship. Built on mutual respect, honesty, and clear expectations. I’m looking for meaningful conversation, chemistry, and then regular meet ups. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation or my own. I believe attraction and compatibility matter, so chatting first and meeting in person (when comfortable) is important to me. I’m not opposed to single women, but it has been my experience most are scammers. No offense. I also won’t be your SD or financer.

I’m down-to-earth with a great sense of humor and a straightforward communication style. I’m married and value discretion. I enjoy staying active—exercise, watching sports, and spending time outdoors. Camping, hiking, and working with my hands are some of my favorite ways to unwind. I like building and fixing things and take pride in being practical and capable.

I’m open-minded and appreciate confidence in all forms. Age is just a number, and personality matters more than anything else. I love thicker women but I’m not picky. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can be direct and forward at times, but I value kindness and transparency—no games, no drama.

Please be within about 90-120 minutes of the B-ham area, as it keeps travel reasonable on both sides. I’m not a scammer and again I have no interest in scams or financial exchanges. Sorry but I won’t be buying you an apple gift card, or sending you money for groceries.

When it’s time for meet up? Could you be able to split the cost of a hotel? If not no worries, but let’s be honest we’re both here for a reason. I cannot host not sure if you want to host. But I believe a hotel would be better for discretion. Daytime availability works best for me.

Discretion is an absolute must—no exceptions. If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I look forward to connecting. Stay safe.

I’m here to connect with someone who’s looking for something similar and is married or in a relationship that’s lacking. You’ve lost that spark, the feeling of being desired and wanted. Seeking—A connection, mentally and emotionally, FWB-NSA relationship. Built on mutual respect, honesty, and clear expectations. I’m looking for meaningful conversation, chemistry, and then regular meet ups. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation or my own. I believe attraction and compatibility matter, so chatting first and meeting in person (when comfortable) is important to me. I’m not opposed to single women, but it has been my experience most are scammers. No offense. I also won’t be your SD or financer.

I’m down-to-earth with a great sense of humor and a straightforward communication style. I’m married and value discretion. I enjoy staying active—exercise, watching sports, and spending time outdoors. Camping, hiking, and working with my hands are some of my favorite ways to unwind. I like building and fixing things and take pride in being practical and capable.

I’m open-minded and appreciate confidence in all forms. Age is just a number, and personality matters more than anything else. I love thicker women but I’m not picky. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can be direct and forward at times, but I value kindness and transparency—no games, no drama.

Please be within about 90-120 minutes of the B-ham area, as it keeps travel reasonable on both sides. I’m not a scammer and again I have no interest in scams or financial exchanges. Sorry but I won’t be buying you an apple gift card, or sending you money for groceries.

When it’s time for meet up? Could you be able to split the cost of a hotel? If not no worries, but let’s be honest we’re both here for a reason. I cannot host not sure if you want to host. But I believe a hotel would be better for discretion. Daytime availability works best for me.

Discretion is an absolute must—no exceptions. If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I look forward to connecting. Stay safe.

I’m here to connect with someone who’s looking for something similar and is married or in a relationship that’s lacking. You’ve lost that spark, the feeling of being desired and wanted. Seeking—A connection, mentally and emotionally, FWB-NSA relationship. Built on mutual respect, honesty, and clear expectations. I’m looking for meaningful conversation, chemistry, and then regular meet ups. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation or my own. I believe attraction and compatibility matter, so chatting first and meeting in person (when comfortable) is important to me. I’m not opposed to single women, but it has been my experience most are scammers. No offense. I also won’t be your SD or financer.

I’m down-to-earth with a great sense of humor and a straightforward communication style. I’m married and value discretion. I enjoy staying active—exercise, watching sports, and spending time outdoors. Camping, hiking, and working with my hands are some of my favorite ways to unwind. I like building and fixing things and take pride in being practical and capable.

I’m open-minded and appreciate confidence in all forms. Age is just a number, and personality matters more than anything else. I love thicker women but I’m not picky. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can be direct and forward at times, but I value kindness and transparency—no games, no drama.

Please be within about 90-120 minutes of the B-ham area, as it keeps travel reasonable on both sides. I’m not a scammer and again I have no interest in scams or financial exchanges. Sorry but I won’t be buying you an apple gift card, or sending you money for groceries.

When it’s time for meet up? Could you be able to split the cost of a hotel? If not no worries, but let’s be honest we’re both here for a reason. I cannot host not sure if you want to host. But I believe a hotel would be better for discretion. Daytime availability works best for me.

Discretion is an absolute must—no exceptions. If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I look forward to connecting. Stay safe.

I’m here to connect with someone who’s looking for something similar and is married or in a relationship that’s lacking. You’ve lost that spark, the feeling of being desired and wanted. Seeking—A connection, mentally and emotionally, FWB-NSA relationship. Built on mutual respect, honesty, and clear expectations. I’m looking for meaningful conversation, chemistry, and then regular meet ups. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation or my own. I believe attraction and compatibility matter, so chatting first and meeting in person (when comfortable) is important to me. I’m not opposed to single women, but it has been my experience most are scammers. No offense. I also won’t be your SD or financer.

I’m down-to-earth with a great sense of humor and a straightforward communication style. I’m married and value discretion. I enjoy staying active—exercise, watching sports, and spending time outdoors. Camping, hiking, and working with my hands are some of my favorite ways to unwind. I like building and fixing things and take pride in being practical and capable.

I’m open-minded and appreciate confidence in all forms. Age is just a number, and personality matters more than anything else. I love thicker women but I’m not picky. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can be direct and forward at times, but I value kindness and transparency—no games, no drama.

Please be within about 90-120 minutes of the B-ham area, as it keeps travel reasonable on both sides. I’m not a scammer and again I have no interest in scams or financial exchanges. Sorry but I won’t be buying you an apple gift card, or sending you money for groceries.

When it’s time for meet up? Could you be able to split the cost of a hotel? If not no worries, but let’s be honest we’re both here for a reason. I cannot host not sure if you want to host. But I believe a hotel would be better for discretion. Daytime availability works best for me.

Discretion is an absolute must—no exceptions. If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I look forward to connecting. Stay safe.

I’m here to connect with someone who’s looking for something similar and is married or in a relationship that’s lacking. You’ve lost that spark, the feeling of being desired and wanted. Seeking—A connection, mentally and emotionally, FWB-NSA relationship. Built on mutual respect, honesty, and clear expectations. I’m looking for meaningful conversation, chemistry, and then regular meet ups. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation or my own. I believe attraction and compatibility matter, so chatting first and meeting in person (when comfortable) is important to me. I’m not opposed to single women, but it has been my experience most are scammers. No offense. I also won’t be your SD or financer.

I’m down-to-earth with a great sense of humor and a straightforward communication style. I’m married and value discretion. I enjoy staying active—exercise, watching sports, and spending time outdoors. Camping, hiking, and working with my hands are some of my favorite ways to unwind. I like building and fixing things and take pride in being practical and capable.

I’m open-minded and appreciate confidence in all forms. Age is just a number, and personality matters more than anything else. I love thicker women but I’m not picky. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can be direct and forward at times, but I value kindness and transparency—no games, no drama.

Please be within about 90-120 minutes of the B-ham area, as it keeps travel reasonable on both sides. I’m not a scammer and again I have no interest in scams or financial exchanges. Sorry but I won’t be buying you an apple gift card, or sending you money for groceries.

When it’s time for meet up? Could you be able to split the cost of a hotel? If not no worries, but let’s be honest we’re both here for a reason. I cannot host not sure if you want to host. But I believe a hotel would be better for discretion. Daytime availability works best for me.

Discretion is an absolute must—no exceptions. If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I look forward to connecting. Stay safe.