r/Married_R4R

31M, Bi, Married to a woman, but with a dead bedroom. We've been married for a couple of years now, but are more like roommates than lovers. I'm looking for someone to have a passionate, flirty, and kinky relationship with. I'm bi, but naturally gravitate towards a much more supportive/submissive role when talking to men. This is from a sexual (dom/sub relationship) perspective, but also from a supportive, follow/cheerlead vs lead role. I would like to potentially explore this side of me more with you. I'm kink friendly, and would love to help try and explore our fantasies together.

Physically, I'm Chubby, Brown (Indian Origin), 5'9", 230 Ibs, and have a small cock.

I work in tech, and l'm into casual gaming, reading, sci-fi, and love learning new things. I want to provide you with some of that submissive and supportive energy, so that you can be the confident, dominant leader you are.

Looking for a longer term partner - and not completely averse to an eventual meetup in the future if continue to click over time 🩷 If this sounds like something you may be interested in exploring DM me!

43 year old Married dad straight . 6’3. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink or smoke. I know how to make a woman feel desired.

I play badminton and go out for walks when the weather is nice. Great listener and have a good sense of humor. Pet friendly except for pets that bite.

What I am looking for is that one person that is interested to share her day as I share mine. I want to give her the attention that she wants. I am not juggle with 3 others at the same time. I want a conversation that means something to both of us and is not just words.

I want her to be kind and honest with me the same way I would be with her. I want a long term companionship with meaning, emotional connection , trust and honesty ( as ironical as it sounds us being here).

I want warmth , the spark and butterflies. I want both of us to be the reason why we check our phones. Let's be genuinely interested in knowing more about each other. Most importantly let's respect each others time and not judge quickly or ghost.

What I would offer you in return is exactly the same that i ask for. I offer you my time, attention, respect and kindness. Most of all I would treat you as a human being with a ticking heart and not an object behind the screen of letters

I prefer mom bods and curvy women. I find women who are smart and educated attractive. I prefer quality over quantity. Good vibes only.

Not here to change anyone’s situation whether single or taken. If you feel neglected or miss physical affection you can send me a message.

I live in Toronto, Canada and prefer someone online, for now. Can be very discreet if needed.

Horny couple seeking sexy chat with couples or any strangers.

Hello, you lovely people.

So this isn't my first time on here, but it has been quite a while, which is always fun.

I figured I'd just jump straight into the awkward part first before I scare you away with the fun personality bits. 38, 6'1, bigger chunkier guy, tattoos, beard game. Business owner/working, car, home, crazy dog, the usual life stuff.

The big one, I am in a relationship, and it's not open. I know this isn't for everyone.

I've been described as weirdly professional and randomly weird. When I'm not working, I embrace the inner geek and do some gaming, visiting comedy clubs or spending time with friends and family. Once you get to know me, the dark, somewhat sarcastic humour starts popping out. There is more, but let's see how this pans out.

What am I looking for? Well, at the top is local, but if the connection is there, then happy to travel. Apart from this, someone who doesn't mind chatting crap and ripping each other.

Anyway, let's chat and see what happens. if I don't get back to you tonight, I will tomorrow.

Studies have revealed that 10% or less of married couples under 50 have not had sex in the past year, while some data suggests 15-20% of all married couples fall into the "sexless" category.

Roughly 15% of marriages are considered sexless, meaning the couple hasn't had sex in the last 6–12 months.: In a study of adults aged 18–89, 15.2% of men and 26.7% of women reported not having sex in the previous year

You've always wanted much older because you know they're more attentive in bed and you prefer an older married male because he won't interfere with your life and you'd only meet when you are free.

My situation is this. Due to back and nerve issues in her neck, my wife stopped having sex because it became painful but she is ok if I meet as long as I'm discreet, which means during the mornings or afternoons, whether weekdays or weekends, Obviously I cannot host but I can get a motel or travel if you can host. To let you know more, I've had 3 ongoing relationships because I am not a one night stand person. The last one ended because she moved out of town so I am seeking to meet a new woman. At this point in my life we can meet every few weeks or whenever. It depends on your availability and geography. Of course for ongoing there has to be chemistry and until we start chatting and if it results in meeting, who knows.

I am white, 6', 210, clean shaven, dad type body, educated, non smoker, very thick and cut plus I last. I can still get it up 3X and am very oral. I am also wide open sexually. 

We can meet first in public to talk and get to know one another and then see where things lead. If going to be makes sense eventually it will happen and if not I get it, This cannot be forced,

I am on Long Island but can travel into Manhattan or Queens. I can host at places in LI or Queens. Manhattan is a bit more difficult to be honest and I can explain if we start chatting. 

Hopefully there is some interest because I know many woman are lacking in the bedroom during to very selfish men or men who just have lost interest. With me, my interest has never waned.

Hello, I'm a 36F married for 13 years, with two kiddos and a dog! So yes, most of us are all here hoping to find whatever it is were either lacking or wanting more of. I'm currently in need of friends and an AP! Not going to lie attraction is a key factor but not the most important. But I do like to verify early on with pics and preferably switching to snap or telegram!

You: Great conversationlist, can bounce from serious, to banter, and aren't like talking to a rock or give one worded line responses. Preferably a good sense of humor, laid back, and open minded. Age isn't a huge deal breaker so I'll leave that open.

Me: I won't tell it all here, but I am a great conversation partner, I love meeting and learning new people. I am bubbly, yet night come off as shy at first or tentative, but I'm really a firecracker! I love humor. And yes, even the dark side haha

If you made it this far, I am bi sexual so I'm looking for either or. Just want that connecting to someone I can enjoy talking to, voice notes, pics, and all the fun that can come along with this. So tell me, what's your favorite go to guilty treat....

If you’re a woman who finds the thrill of getting caught interesting I’d love to talk to you.

I am going to keep this short. I live in the W suburbs of chicago and work in the city. I am looking for someone closer but I am open to traveling, if we are a good match.

I am a tall (6 ft), fit, good looking/good smelling married dork seeking a married or a single chubby, thicc gal for friendship and monogamous fun.

This is who I am:

I like Chubbier, bustier, big booty body types

Fun, funny, spontaneous, responsive and a very good communicator

Intelligence and kindness are my turn-ons

love being a neat freak, and I love philosophy, history, arts

a fitness enthusiast (not a freak) but I don't require this from you

passionate kisser, good conversationalist

A foodie - love various ethnic food

I love to give attention and make you feel wanted

Highly kinky and dominant in bed.

Have a very high sex drive

This is who you are ideally:

Mature, Intelligent loving and kind to everyone

Flirty, chatty, fun/peppy and will talk my ears off - Trust me, I love it when a gal gets excited and is chatty!

A foodie like me loving various ethnic cuisines

Your sex drive is on over-drive and optionally your are open to kinks

a passionate kisser

You are looking to meet with someone decent, someone sensible, someone that will provide the emotional support you need, the sex, and someone you can call as a friend and we talk about our day via chat or phone in between our meets. Lastly, you have the time to meet once or twice a month.

If this made sense to you, I would love to hear from you. Maybe we can meet in the city or suburbs casually for coffee or lunch one of these days?

Ironically, I’m a low/ no pressure dude who goes with the 37 M4F #MO#midwest: Just another dark and handsome dad trying to find a cutie with a booty to vibe with and share some moments… sounds easy on paper but reality is not as kind 😆

Who am I? Im a Black father(sorry, quite literally can’t be your WHITE knight 😂), Married, not in ANY WAY miserable nor do I want that energy. Im no Bill from accounting that assumes after asking you what your favorite color is or your dream vacation that I get to ask you to show me your nipples. Nor am i Jack Mehoff from here who thinks Hey, DM me, is enticing. lastly im not chad from school pick up, who thinks that by regurgitating things he reads in every Lady’s post is somehow attempting to connect. I feel everyone leaves some sort of physical descriptions, I’ll leave past descriptions of myself from others… Some Past chats have described me as a 14.6/10 ( on the reddit scale),Hot football dad, Super not ugly, great value Tyrese, “ you dont look like you belong here” and the most humble brag of all….a catfish!! So, come on down and see you can give me a new nickname 😂

You- A cutie with a booty, baddie with a fatty, draggin a wagon, you get it 😂maybe you’re the sexy, HWP (no hate to bbw gang, just generally not my preference😊), soccer mom still gets double takes at the gym or store, loves to laugh, can get lost in conversation about the silliest things or the deepest things. Can deal with and ENJOY dark humor and constant sarcasm ( If you are politically correct, this aint you stop) OK with the fact that if we form a lasting connection, I’m gonna make it my sole mission to make you laugh, daily. We can figure out the rest as we go along.

Ps: just so I know you read this, please understand my app of preference is 👻 one Apparently I’m not allowed to mention( if you were just an absolute fantasy dream of a woman MAYBE I consider telegram but probably not ) 😂 Tell me your favorite beverage to drink while watching sports!? If you don’t answer this question, Pixar moms to the front of the line!😂

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wanting to chat with some married wife's that is tired of their marriage, always found that hot.

Horny couple seeking sexy chat with couples or any strangers.

Most folks say I’ve got a great sense of humor, a laugh that’s hard to forget, and a brain that’s always buzzing with new ideas. I enjoy exploring the city—trying new restaurants, grabbing drinks at new bars, or strolling through parks and trails—and I like to keep things interesting, both inside and out.

For a perfect day off or happy hour, let’s skip working out and grab couple of cocktails—whiskey and rum are my go-tos. I’m told I’m a good listener, so if you need someone to talk to, I’m all ears.

I’m discreet, open-minded, and value honesty. If you’re the right woman for me, I hope you’re the same. Age-wise, I tend to connect best with women between 25 and 40, and I’m pretty relaxed about appearances. Chemistry is far more important, but I am most attracted to slender to average builds.

You don’t need to also be in a relationship\\\\\\\*, but I am certainly open to being your escape too. I am happy with mine; I’m just looking for a little extra fun and companionship when the mood and opportunity strikes. Think of us as friends with a little more spice—sharing drinks, swapping stories, and exploring fantasies when the moment feels right.

A quick intro: I’m brown-eyes, white, and just under 6 feet tall. I have a long beard and longer brown hair. I have a degree, work in an office, and I’m striving to get in better shape (I’d describe myself as in average shape right now).

If I sound like someone you’d enjoy chatting with, don’t hesitate to reach out. Let’s keep it light, fun, and see where the conversation takes us.

\\\\\\\*While I am primarily looking for straight one-with-one encounters with someone who identifies as a woman, I am open to, and have experience with, other dynamics. I’m happy to discuss if you’re interested.

Looking to get what I’m not getting in the bedroom. Not looking to change my situation so looking for someone that isn’t trying to change theirs. Not looking for virtual chats or sexts.

I require a recent test and have one to share.

I'm 30, 5'10, 180 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age, location and stats and a little bit about yourself and what you are looking for.