r/DDlg_IRL_Personals

Hiya! I’m 24F. i live in PA and I’m a server! I’m just looking for someone to talk to and cater to my ddlg/little lifestyle. :3 i draw furries and being a pet. dnd, lord of the rings, and other nerdy things lol. I love metal/rock and emo music. I love a lot of little things too but i will reveal everything once we start talking :3 also yeah i also do have autism and i have some mental health issues. Im 5’8 with dark red/purple ish hair, i have piercings. I love unique makeup and i also wanna have unique tattoos so if you don’t like that then bye :3

I am a 47 year old single man, pretty fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place (a great space for exploring and no roommates) and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. Open to starting slow and see what may blossom. I am experienced and not looking for any players or games. I am seeking someone appreciates what a Daddy Dom is.

I’m a pretty balanced guy, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits, I love biking, soccer, rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and interests, I have a background in public health, teaching, film, and philosophy. I especially love film, jazz, and intellectual curiosity, always learning. I like to cook, and especially bake healthy versions of desserts, and enjoy good communication and conversation.

I have a strong history of being taking on the dominant role in the bedroom, and we can talk more about this in the chat. My style is to focus on the emotional and mental and psychological aspects of ceding control, being vulnerable and exploring boundaries. I especially love strict bondage, some primal play, and o control. I’ve taken classes in shibari, spanking, role-play and other things so I don’t consider myself a newbie, exploring power dynamics is something I greatly enjoy and I do so thoughtfully, safely, and want both parties to feel pleasure. I prefer someone experienced, but if you are new to this feel free to reach out and we can see if there’s a connection.

Having a connection is a prerequisite for me as I don’t do one night stands and only want to spend time with people I enjoy and respect. Ultimately I would want to have a nice ongoing kinky connection, whether it’s play partners or something developing more seriously.

If possible, please include age, location, and some sort of physical description in your message just to weed out all the low effort replies

It's chilly and the fireworks are wrapping up. I'm curled into you under the blanket, nostalgia already setting in. I'd been enraptured all day, not wanting to see anything else, just as much of you as I could. You're stroking my hair, and I squirm against you, knowing what's waiting once we're alone. Your firm hand has been finding the small of my back all day, our secret code that my teasing would catch up with me.

Disneyland would be fine on its own. I enjoy my own company, but I'm craving a partner in crime. Someone who finds my mischief as delicious as I do. A look that can turn me mushy and pliant from across the room, and a tone that makes me antsy to get home. A Daddy I can take care of every bit as much as he takes care of me.

A relationship with me takes engagement, energy, and a lot of communication. I want to know what you're thinking. I want you to ask. I want the kind of back-and-forth where neither of us has to guess. Where we can name our confusion and give it the room it needs.

Hello all! We are a goth couple, 36 white straight male and 28 Mexican bi female, seeking out another goth couple or single goth females to chat with, hang out with, and hopefully more if all goes well. We are both huge into horror movies, Disney, metal music, concerts, conventions, and are looking for people who share these similar interests. We are also an experienced Dom/sub, DD/lg couple, though interest in that is welcomed, it isn't necessary. We are open to chatting with people of any style, we just would like this to be an ongoing thing, and having similar interests would be ideal. Sorry no single men.

Our profile picture shows what we look like, and we are happy to share more pictures with the right person or couple. Send us a message if this sounds like you! 🎃 Stay spooky!

My name is Josh. but you can call me Jay. i am a Blue collar worker and have been for a few years. i am 6'3, bearded, tatted, with large hands and large feet (size difference? 😜). athletic and in decent shape! when im not working, you can find me at the gym or on the football field!

the last few dates ive been on. ive been described as having a very safe and calming vibe. i always get asked "how are you still single??" and my response is always, "i havent found her yet". and thats the truth. ive been in long term relationships. ive been through my whore phase. im tired of chasing. im making this post to see if the one is out there in the subreddits 🤷🏻.

im looking for a Woman who hopefully lives in AZ. im am open to online tho. she is to be as kinky as i am if not more kinky! not everything has to be sexual but sex is very very important. let me worship you and please you. you getting off gets me off. im huge into aftercare and making you feel loved. my love language is touch and praise btw! so expect alot of things like "who is my good girl?." while i grab your ass. (i may do this in public too). lets tease and edge eachother, explore new horizons, send eachother photos and videos, videochat, voicechat. all of it!!

please be decently active. i dont want to go on hikes alone, or feel like im abandoning you when i go play football. lets hit the lakes, go on jogs, take turns cooking, go to the bars with our friends, go to local events! and explore life together!

if you read this far and would like to reach out, please dont be afraid. even if you dont believe you match what im looking for, you never know, my mind is open! keep in mind, i would like to share photos for varification and ensure mutual attraction!

I wanted to say good morning to all the sweet and needy lil ones. im looking for a loving and playful little.

Was it a dream? Or was it something in real life? Either way. Tell daddy about it. You don’t need to be embarrassed, I won’t tell you that it’s dumb or crazy or just a fad. Just close your eyes, rest your head on my chest, and calm yourself by listening to the silent steady beat of my heart.

I’m a soft daddy looking for an IRL sweet little with just a pinch of bratty. Ideally you are:

• Nerdy and have dorky interests like anime, cartoons, books

• Affectionate, can hold a conversation, and don’t play games (video games are a-okay)

• Mostly a homebody but still curious and likes going out sometimes

• Located in NYC or can/do visit often

About me:

• 32M, East Asian, lean and fit, 5’8, active, with a sharp handsome face

• Gentle and quiet, equally comfortable with silence as I am chatting

• Experienced, stable, and independent both professionally and personally

• Love giving advice and guiding my little girl

• Protective, steady, and physically affectionate

I’m open to something that starts off online, but only if there’s a strong chance of it moving to in-person at some point. I believe these connections are only truly real, deep, and secure when they’re in person. A single strong firm hug will make you feel safer than any words or reassurances on a call

If this is you, send me a DM with your age, a physical description, where you’re located (if not NYC), and your favorite thing right now that makes you feel safe and warm.

You are strong, capable, and proud of the life you have built... the kind of woman who leads in the world, handles pressure, and knows her own worth. People see that in you and assume that is the whole picture. It isn’t, though. Somewhere underneath all that strength is a quiet desire... to finally give that strength somewhere it can rest. You do not want to submit out of weakness. You want to submit out of trust, desire, and the deep private relief of yielding to a man who feels steady, grounded, and strong enough to truly take the lead. Out in the world, you are composed, driven, and in control... but at home, with the right man, you ache to soften, to hand him the weight, to feel yourself become more feminine, more open, more... “his,” and to discover that the thing missing was never more independence... it was the right man to kneel for.

This is the woman I am looking for.

About me: I’m a Scandinavian man, 41, 6’1”, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I stay active daily with running, strength training, and a healthy diet and lifestyle in general. I work as a leader in tech, and the same calm leadership I bring to life is also very present in how I love and lead. In my spare time, I play guitar, cook, and garden when the weather allows.

About you: You are a deeply feminine woman. You take care of yourself and enjoy doing so. You yearn to get dolled up and hold on to your partner’s arm in public. You desire to please and be praised for doing a good job. In sum, you want to hear the words “Good girl”...

I hope my post has piqued your interest and stirred something inside you. If it has, please reach out. I hope to hear from you soon... crosses fingers.

Little girl looking for my forever Daddy 🥹

I’m looking for someone who feels that pull, the kind you don’t quite talk about out loud, but it’s always there under the surface. The one that makes you curious about what it means to give up control, to be guided, shaped, and understood in a way most people never experience.

I’m not interested in games or pretending. Training, to me, is a process, slow, deliberate, and built on trust. It’s about learning each other’s boundaries, pushing them carefully, and building something that feels real every step of the way. Control isn’t taken here, it’s given…and earned.

I value consistency, honesty, and communication. If you’re the type who disappears, who wants instant intensity without foundation, we won’t be a good fit. But if you’re patient, curious, and willing to be challenged, mentally and emotionally as much as anything else, then we might have something worth exploring.

You don’t need to have experience. In fact, sometimes it’s better if you don’t. What matters is mindset. Respect, openness, and the willingness to grow.

For transparency, I'm partnered, and they’re aware of and supportive of this dynamic. That foundation of honesty matters to me, and it should to you too.

This isn’t about fantasy alone. It’s about connection, structure, and discovering how far you can go when you trust someone to lead.

If that resonates with you, reach out. Tell me what draws you to this, not what you think I want to hear.

Why hello there! What a title, huh??

I've tried to be coy about my kinks or to leave some ambiguity in the margins, but I want to just put this out there - I have always, will ALWAYS love anal sex. giving rimjobs, casually relaxing by rubbing my little girl's puffy, stinky little puckered asshole while we snuggle or kiss or spend leisure time together. It isn't that I want to neglect your pussy - I want to make you cum harder than you ever have before, day after day after day. I want to explore new heights together, to blend and blur what it truly means to be a couple and how we can distinguish where one of us ends and the other begins.

SO, when you love anal play as much as I do....sometimes, it's gonna get messy. And I know all the squeamish people out there are thinking "ewwwww, wtf??" but let's be honest here, between me and the one other person still here reading this - you have nothing to be ashamed about. You want the same thing that I do - to feel Daddy as deep as possible inside your colon, to the point where you feel like he's fucking your stomach just as much as I'm cumming as deep inside your pussy as I can so we can start a family together. AND, shouldn't a Daddy really be there to make EVERYTHING better?? Why should potty time be one of those things where you're expected to suddenly step out of the dynamic and pretend like you aren't into something?

Think about the kind of once-in-a-lifetime intimacy it would take to have deep, sloppy, drool dripping off your chin tongue kisses while you're straddling your partner's lap, feeling my fingers slowly rolling in tight little circles around your urethra, a fingertip nuzzled against your throbbing clit while I pump two fingers in and out of your shitty asshole. How would it feel to know that you've found someone that wants you so desperately that he can't get enough of your literal waste? and I don't want to be some unrequited simp, I'm not a pay pig, I'm the man you end up giving everything to because you've always wanted to know that **all** of you is perfect, even the messy, confusing, scary parts. I want to hear all of those anxious thoughts that keeps you from getting the restful sleep you've always deserved.

I'm a healthcare worker, I look like a nerdy white guy - mustache, glasses, a big goofy smile, 5'6 because I'm not allowed to have it all. I want to have kids some day sooner rather than later, and I want to be able to carry my baby around everywhere we go in private so smaller is better, think 150 lbs or lower but that doesn't mean this post isn't for you if you are at or above this number. I'm happy to share LOTS more about myself privately, but I hope this is enough to catch the right person's eyes. I know I spent most of this post talking about incredibly obscene sexual things, but that is simply because I want to know that we crave the same things sexually. I want to put AS MUCH effort if not more into ensuring we are also compatible emotionally, intellectually, in our lifestyle choices and preferences, etc.

PLEASE be open to regular, consistent (read: daily, even hourly if possible/enjoyed) communication - I'm a yapper and would love someone to play slay the spire 2 with online while we get to know each other. be safe out there, reddit weirdos!

Heyyyyyyy I'm Chris I'm 34 Im 6 foot 2 nerdy with glasses im tattooed and a gamer daddy dom from near Brighton west Sussex UK I work in sales and in a yard my hands arms and neck are covered in tattoos i have about 25 so hopefully that's not an issue i like to class myself as viking as my dad's native to Denmark 😉I play ps5 and cosy games on the Nintendo switch I love cod the fallout games Skyrim arc raiders is my main game now anddddd anything open world soooo if you game then maybe we could play stuff together? I love horrors both films and books my favourite author is hp Lovecraft fav horror is ghost ship I know it's cheesy I love to read cook greek mexican and Italian and bake mainly cakes and cupcakes do make a good banofee pie I love travelling and seeing new places my favourite so far is Denmark but I do like visiting the states huge Disney fan too my favourite is and will always be Hercules i love late night phone calls and video calls

My kinks are Breeding

Choking

Cnc

Spanking

Underwear to the side

Forced orgasms

orgasm denial

Impact play

Sleep sex

creampies

Breath play

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Hello, all. I just want to say first that I know I am terrible at talking about myself and describing what I want in a partner.

Myself: I am 31 years old. I turn 32 in July. I stand five feet ten inches tall and have a bit of a dad bod. I am on a weight loss journey and looking for a partner who sees me for who I am and not just what's on the outside. I feel that what I want in life is a family at some point. I also would love to travel because I enjoy it. And a trip to Disney now and again wouldn't be the worst. I love to read bedtime stories and will always make sure your safe and protected at all times.

Princess: I envision my princess to be sweet and caring. Maybe a little clumsy here and there, but she'll always do her best and never give up. I do admit that I prefer to be taller than my partner, thank you so much. And I would hope my partner is either on the road to a healthy lifestyle or lives one already.

Kinks: i don't feel this should be discussed in public.We can talk in private.

I hope to talk and find my person real soon.

I am looking for a girl who longs for an intimate dominant submissive dynamic. Someone drawn to DDlg, dollmaking, tasks and rituals, closeness and devotion.

I want to meet someone soft, sincere and interested in building something real. Someone who wants to be seen deeply and who feels drawn to intimacy, structure and belonging. I am open to something real and long term, whether it remains online or grows into something in person.

I am an artist, and I have spent years exploring intimacy, presence and the way two people slowly build a dynamic together. I am drawn to softness, vulnerability, tenderness and the kind of intensity that grows through trust.

I feel especially drawn to girls with creative interests, whether that is fashion, writing, painting, music, or simply an alive inner world. I am drawn to someone who enjoys feeling held, seen, admired and gently guided.

I want to get to know all of you. Your thoughts, your inner world, the things you have carried alone.

I am 50, 189 cm and European. I work with sculpture, installation, painting, photography and text. I love travel, nature, animals and building worlds. In the language of BDSM, I would say that I am an Artist, a Maker and a Daddy looking for a Doll and a Girl. I am also open to your own particular flavor. A little deer, a bunny girl.

If this speaks to you, write to me and say hi.

We begin slowly and get to know each other.

Hey lovely folks! I recognize I'm the odd one out here being so young. But I know deep down I want to have someone in my life for the long haul that I can dote on throughout the day. About me: I am 5'11, blond shoulder length hair, very pretty blue/hazel eyes, and a slim-fit runner body. I'm such a nerd. But I have a successful career and a wide range of interests and hobbies because of it. I am currently in Ohio but am open to moving in the future.

I want someone I can dote on throughout the days and weeks, massages at the end of the day, playing with your hair and head scratches, cuddling up with our favorite shows. I want to be a stable presence in your life and give you the stability so that you can succeed. I want you to be able to turn your brain off entirely around me. I generally tend to praise rather than punish, unless you ask nicely. We can discuss exact kinks after we get to know each other a little, I'm very open and flexible though. My only soft limit would be ABDL, with a specific hard limit for messing.

Ideally this arrangement would be local, or online with the goal of meeting in the future. I don't have a lot of experience in an online format but I'd be willing to learn. If this interests you please feel free to send me a message with your age and roughly where you are so I know what timezone to expect. I hope to hear from you soon cuties!

I'm a 46 year old dom daddy and I have over 20 years kink experience. Originally from Scotland, I've lived in England for the past 15 years.

Very much started off as dom/sub type arrangements but veered into DDLG mostly. A lot of my time then has been spent mentoring LGs, whether they be new to the scene or more experienced and just looking for a Daddy or Sir.

My basic structure with LGs or subs is the following:

Fan

I will support you in every way possible or needed. I will be your number 1 fan, your biggest supporter. I will be excited to speak to you when we can and will be proud of you and what you achieve, with all the help and support you need from me. None of us are perfect and I will celebrate all of your best bits and also accept and recognise that there are things that some people do better than others.

Confidant

Whilst you may share things with certain people, you will be able to share everything with me, without fear of judgement. If you need me just to listen, then I will do that. If you need my advice, I will give you well thought out and reasoned advice. I've been about a few years now and have seen a lot of things.

Protector.

I vow to keep you safe from the threat of the outside world. Whether they be here, in kink circles or elsewhere, I will be there for you. Even if it's just somewhere to hide from the world, my arms are a pretty good place for that. I have had people who I've been their protector and nothing else, only because they've needed a port in a storm, a refuge, and I've provided it to them, no questions asked

Mentor.

I don't wish you to stagnate. You may age regress and regardless of how young your little is, they need to grow and prosper. They don't have to age, but they do need to flourish. I will provide space for that to happen along with encouragement, with patience, and help you become the best you. You will be nurtured and helped to prosper. I want to provide you with new experiences and see the curiosity (it's odd that this is one of the most mis-spelled words in the English language, isn't it just curious!) in her eyes and delight on her face when those new things have been sampled.

Navigator

I will be there to answer your questions, allay fears and address your insecurities, hopefully to extent we can eradicate them completely. Again, I've been about a lot of years. It's given me a lot of knowledge and a lot of things not to do. I want to use that to map your path in the world, avoiding the hazards.

Rock

I won't be moved and you will be something for you to cling to when the the tides are rough. I will be steadfast for you and will harbour you if needed, or simply will be solid enough for you to lean on until you can get your bearings.

Authoritarian

I've had LGs who've needed no punishment. I've had others who require it (or perhaps crave it) on a daily basis. I am comfortable either way.

Despite how much I care for my girl, if she misbehaves, then she is dealt with appropriately. Punishments should always feel uncomfortable, otherwise what's the point in them.

There are many other things to consider when coming into this dynamic. Do you just want some of the above or even one?

Where does sadism, masochism rank on your scale?

Do you wish to be the little lamb to a wolf or lion?

Do you wish to have other partners outside your Daddy? Are you comfortable with Daddy having other LGs?

It is said a Top is for tonight, a Dominant is for as long as she is submissive, a Master is there until she is no longer a slave, but a Daddy is forever.

I do get attached to my LGs, I think it's hard to give all of the above and not do. So it's important that you're in this for the long haul. If you're only here for a cheap quick thrill, well you're looking for a top. We can discuss that but it's not on my list for a LTR.

There is a journey to be had before I expect you to call me Daddy.

To outline, it usually takes a process of about 3-4 weeks. It can be quicker. It has been less in exceptional circumstances. I have a 'get to know' you period. Think of it like dating. We take the time to get to know each other. There may be sexual activity, or there may not. There will certainly be some discussion of preferences. There will be safety systems put in place and agreed.

It should always be remembered though that the most important word in DDLG is the second D, Dom.

Looking for girls only. No disrespect intended.

If all of the above sounds of interest, come and chat to me and let's learn all about each other.

Telelegram: manxgaelic

Snapchat: manxscot

I am looking for you.

The girl who carries a longing to be truly held.

To be known in the places she has always kept hidden.

The girl who deeply wants to be owned.

To finally feel safe enough to be small, needy, messy and still deeply wanted.

You may feel out of place in the ordinary world. Too much or not enough. Carrying something alone.

There is a part of you that longs for someone who can see all of it. The innocent girl and the one who feels everything intensely. The one who wants to let go completely.

I want to build a space where you can lay down the weight you have carried by yourself. Where surrender feels safe. Where you can be soft, open and fully seen.

I am searching for that unusual girl who craves closeness and love just as fiercely as I do, and who feels a deep wish to devote herself completely, the same way I long to devote myself to her. Someone who is not looking for scenes or play, but for a profound, ongoing bond where being owned is an expression of trust, belonging and mutual care. Just like me, you probably do not fit neatly into the ordinary world, and that is exactly what interests me.

Dollmaking, DDlg, 24/7, closeness, devotion. These are simply the forms we might give to that deeper need. To belong completely. To be free.

I am a creative. An artist. Tall and handsome. Well educated, with a bohemian spirit. What matters most to me is real connection. A life built around closeness, presence, devotion and creativity.

I want to create a shared world with you, one filled with intimate rituals, creative exploration, intense intimacy and everyday tenderness. I want to travel to beautiful places, inside the security of having found each other. To be inside the dream, not chasing it.

You do not need to have it all figured out. You only need to know the longing in your heart. The wish to finally rest in someone who truly knows you.

We will go slowly.

I will meet you there.

If this speaks to what you have carried for so long, and you are ready for something real and rare, tell me a little about the longing you feel and what being owned truly means to you.