u/scotsdaddydom

I'm a 46 year old dom daddy and I have over 20 years kink experience. Originally from Scotland, I've lived in England for the past 15 years.

Very much started off as dom/sub type arrangements but veered into DDLG mostly. A lot of my time then has been spent mentoring LGs, whether they be new to the scene or more experienced and just looking for a Daddy or Sir.

My basic structure with LGs or subs is the following:

Fan

I will support you in every way possible or needed. I will be your number 1 fan, your biggest supporter. I will be excited to speak to you when we can and will be proud of you and what you achieve, with all the help and support you need from me. None of us are perfect and I will celebrate all of your best bits and also accept and recognise that there are things that some people do better than others.

Confidant

Whilst you may share things with certain people, you will be able to share everything with me, without fear of judgement. If you need me just to listen, then I will do that. If you need my advice, I will give you well thought out and reasoned advice. I've been about a few years now and have seen a lot of things.

Protector.

I vow to keep you safe from the threat of the outside world. Whether they be here, in kink circles or elsewhere, I will be there for you. Even if it's just somewhere to hide from the world, my arms are a pretty good place for that. I have had people who I've been their protector and nothing else, only because they've needed a port in a storm, a refuge, and I've provided it to them, no questions asked

Mentor.

I don't wish you to stagnate. You may age regress and regardless of how young your little is, they need to grow and prosper. They don't have to age, but they do need to flourish. I will provide space for that to happen along with encouragement, with patience, and help you become the best you. You will be nurtured and helped to prosper. I want to provide you with new experiences and see the curiosity (it's odd that this is one of the most mis-spelled words in the English language, isn't it just curious!) in her eyes and delight on her face when those new things have been sampled.

Navigator

I will be there to answer your questions, allay fears and address your insecurities, hopefully to extent we can eradicate them completely. Again, I've been about a lot of years. It's given me a lot of knowledge and a lot of things not to do. I want to use that to map your path in the world, avoiding the hazards.

Rock

I won't be moved and you will be something for you to cling to when the the tides are rough. I will be steadfast for you and will harbour you if needed, or simply will be solid enough for you to lean on until you can get your bearings.

Authoritarian

I've had LGs who've needed no punishment. I've had others who require it (or perhaps crave it) on a daily basis. I am comfortable either way.

Despite how much I care for my girl, if she misbehaves, then she is dealt with appropriately. Punishments should always feel uncomfortable, otherwise what's the point in them.

There are many other things to consider when coming into this dynamic. Do you just want some of the above or even one?

Where does sadism, masochism rank on your scale?

Do you wish to be the little lamb to a wolf or lion?

Do you wish to have other partners outside your Daddy? Are you comfortable with Daddy having other LGs?

It is said a Top is for tonight, a Dominant is for as long as she is submissive, a Master is there until she is no longer a slave, but a Daddy is forever.

I do get attached to my LGs, I think it's hard to give all of the above and not do. So it's important that you're in this for the long haul. If you're only here for a cheap quick thrill, well you're looking for a top. We can discuss that but it's not on my list for a LTR.

There is a journey to be had before I expect you to call me Daddy.

To outline, it usually takes a process of about 3-4 weeks. It can be quicker. It has been less in exceptional circumstances. I have a 'get to know' you period. Think of it like dating. We take the time to get to know each other. There may be sexual activity, or there may not. There will certainly be some discussion of preferences. There will be safety systems put in place and agreed.

It should always be remembered though that the most important word in DDLG is the second D, Dom.

Looking for girls only. No disrespect intended.

If all of the above sounds of interest, come and chat to me and let's learn all about each other.

Telelegram: manxgaelic

Snapchat: manxscot

I'm a 46 year old dom daddy and I have over 20 years kink experience. Originally from Scotland, I've lived in England for the past 15 years.

Very much started off as dom/sub type arrangements but veered into DDLG mostly. A lot of my time then has been spent mentoring LGs, whether they be new to the scene or more experienced and just looking for a Daddy or Sir.

My basic structure with LGs or subs is the following:

Fan

I will support you in every way possible or needed. I will be your number 1 fan, your biggest supporter. I will be excited to speak to you when we can and will be proud of you and what you achieve, with all the help and support you need from me. None of us are perfect and I will celebrate all of your best bits and also accept and recognise that there are things that some people do better than others.

Confidant

Whilst you may share things with certain people, you will be able to share everything with me, without fear of judgement. If you need me just to listen, then I will do that. If you need my advice, I will give you well thought out and reasoned advice. I've been about a few years now and have seen a lot of things.

Protector.

I vow to keep you safe from the threat of the outside world. Whether they be here, in kink circles or elsewhere, I will be there for you. Even if it's just somewhere to hide from the world, my arms are a pretty good place for that. I have had people who I've been their protector and nothing else, only because they've needed a port in a storm, a refuge, and I've provided it to them, no questions asked

Mentor.

I don't wish you to stagnate. You may age regress and regardless of how young your little is, they need to grow and prosper. They don't have to age, but they do need to flourish. I will provide space for that to happen along with encouragement, with patience, and help you become the best you. You will be nurtured and helped to prosper. I want to provide you with new experiences and see the curiosity (it's odd that this is one of the most mis-spelled words in the English language, isn't it just curious!) in her eyes and delight on her face when those new things have been sampled.

Navigator

I will be there to answer your questions, allay fears and address your insecurities, hopefully to extent we can eradicate them completely. Again, I've been about a lot of years. It's given me a lot of knowledge and a lot of things not to do. I want to use that to map your path in the world, avoiding the hazards.

Rock

I won't be moved and you will be something for you to cling to when the the tides are rough. I will be steadfast for you and will harbour you if needed, or simply will be solid enough for you to lean on until you can get your bearings.

Authoritarian

I've had LGs who've needed no punishment. I've had others who require it (or perhaps crave it) on a daily basis. I am comfortable either way.

Despite how much I care for my girl, if she misbehaves, then she is dealt with appropriately. Punishments should always feel uncomfortable, otherwise what's the point in them.

There are many other things to consider when coming into this dynamic. Do you just want some of the above or even one?

Where does sadism, masochism rank on your scale?

Do you wish to be the little lamb to a wolf or lion?

Do you wish to have other partners outside your Daddy? Are you comfortable with Daddy having other LGs?

It is said a Top is for tonight, a Dominant is for as long as she is submissive, a Master is there until she is no longer a slave, but a Daddy is forever.

I do get attached to my LGs, I think it's hard to give all of the above and not do. So it's important that you're in this for the long haul. If you're only here for a cheap quick thrill, well you're looking for a top. We can discuss that but it's not on my list for a LTR.

There is a journey to be had before I expect you to call me Daddy.

To outline, it usually takes a process of about 3-4 weeks. It can be quicker. It has been less in exceptional circumstances. I have a 'get to know' you period. Think of it like dating. We take the time to get to know each other. There may be sexual activity, or there may not. There will certainly be some discussion of preferences. There will be safety systems put in place and agreed.

It should always be remembered though that the most important word in DDLG is the second D, Dom.

Looking for girls only. No disrespect intended.

If all of the above sounds of interest, come and chat to me and let's learn all about each other.

Telelegram: manxgaelic

Snapchat: manxscot