I am a 47 year old single man, pretty fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place (a great space for exploring and no roommates) and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. Open to starting slow and see what may blossom. I am experienced and not looking for any players or games. I am seeking someone appreciates what a Daddy Dom is.

I’m a pretty balanced guy, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits, I love biking, soccer, rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and interests, I have a background in public health, teaching, film, and philosophy. I especially love film, jazz, and intellectual curiosity, always learning. I like to cook, and especially bake healthy versions of desserts, and enjoy good communication and conversation.

I have a strong history of being taking on the dominant role in the bedroom, and we can talk more about this in the chat. My style is to focus on the emotional and mental and psychological aspects of ceding control, being vulnerable and exploring boundaries. I especially love strict bondage, some primal play, and o control. I’ve taken classes in shibari, spanking, role-play and other things so I don’t consider myself a newbie, exploring power dynamics is something I greatly enjoy and I do so thoughtfully, safely, and want both parties to feel pleasure. I prefer someone experienced, but if you are new to this feel free to reach out and we can see if there’s a connection.

Having a connection is a prerequisite for me as I don’t do one night stands and only want to spend time with people I enjoy and respect. Ultimately I would want to have a nice ongoing kinky connection, whether it’s play partners or something developing more seriously.

If possible, please include age, location, and some sort of physical description in your message just to weed out all the low effort replies

Hello,

I'm a 47 year old man here in downtown NYC. I'm in pretty decent shape, great career, mentally balanced, healthy, and looking for an ongoing connection that can blossom into something real. I am the type to start a little slow, as our busy schedules allow, and then see what unfolds naturally.

I’m looking for something that has kink as a basis for a relationship but not the entire relationship. Just an important component. That means exploring roles with dominance and submission. I’m very good with rope and consider myself a rigger. I’ve been to numerous rope classes over the years and other kink based workshops. You would never guess because I look quite vanilla, so to keep that part of my self private. People say I have a gentle Dom energy. Consider myself a tender dom but I’m experienced with D/s and DDlg as well. You might say I like the emotional and psychological aspects of trust and vulnerability that comes with sexuality, pleasure, submission.

I feel that I have my life together, and my general disposition has always been to be a happy, curious person. I'm a clean cut, suit and tie kind of guy for work but casual otherwise.

I like to spend my time reading (esp public health, and the impact of social media on human connection), attempting to be health-conscious, pop culture. I like to think I excel at baking healthy snacks, I really like jazz, and I’m a huge film buff, pretty big music fan, like being a foodie, keeping up with current events. I like good conversation, snuggles, laughing. I speak a second language but... am pretty rusty!

Besides the usual hangouts, conversations, and I’d be open to going to events around the city, taking some language or cooking classes, biking, jazz clubs, and I recently started trying tennis and would be open to a tennis partner

You: Single, fairly balanced, intellectually curious, mentally grounded, have a few interesting interests. Open minded. Being pretty drama free is important to me too. Doing something productive. Able to laugh and not take life too seriously is important. For a full partner I prefer someone that has their act together, is intelligent with a career of some kind or academic studies, and is seeking a missing piece.

If you write please be sure to state age, location, a few hobbies or interests (a physical description is very helpful ), and we can start a conversation and see where it leads

thanks

Hello

I am a 47 year old single man, pretty fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place (a great space for exploring and no roommates) and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. Open to starting slow and see what may blossom. I am experienced and not looking for any players or games.

I’m a pretty balanced guy, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits, I love biking, soccer, rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and interests, I have a background in public health, teaching, film, and philosophy. I especially love film, jazz, and intellectual curiosity, always learning. I like to cook, and especially bake healthy versions of desserts, and enjoy good communication and conversation.

I have a strong history of being taking on the dominant role in the bedroom, and we can talk more about this in the chat. My style is to focus on the emotional and mental and psychological aspects of ceding control, being vulnerable and exploring boundaries. I especially love strict bondage, some primal play, and orgasm control. I’ve taken classes in shibari, spanking, role-play and other things so I don’t consider myself a newbie, exploring power dynamics is something I greatly enjoy and I do so thoughtfully, safely, and want both parties to feel pleasure. I prefer someone experienced, but if you are new to this feel free to reach out and we can see if there’s a connection.

Having a connection is a prerequisite for me as I don’t do one night stands and only want to spend time with people I enjoy and respect. Ultimately I would want to have a nice ongoing kinky connection, whether it’s play partners or something developing more seriously.

If possible, please include age, location, and some sort of physical description in your message just to weed out all the spam

I am a 47 year old single man, pretty fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place (a great space for exploring and no roommates) and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. Open to starting slow and see what may blossom. I am experienced and not looking for any players or games.

I’m a pretty balanced guy, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits, I love biking, soccer, rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and interests, I have a background in public health, teaching, film, and philosophy. I especially love film, jazz, and intellectual curiosity, always learning. I like to cook, and especially bake healthy versions of desserts, and enjoy good communication and conversation.

I have a strong history of being taking on the dominant role in the bedroom, and we can talk more about this in the chat. My style is to focus on the emotional and mental and psychological aspects of ceding control, being vulnerable and exploring boundaries. I especially love strict bondage, some primal play, and orgasm control. I’ve taken classes in shibari, spanking, role-play and other things so I don’t consider myself a newbie, exploring power dynamics is something I greatly enjoy and I do so thoughtfully, safely, and want both parties to feel pleasure. I prefer someone experienced, but if you are new to this feel free to reach out and we can see if there’s a connection. I can host and have a big area with overhead beams for more serious play.

Having a connection is a prerequisite for me as I don’t do one night stands and only want to spend time with people I enjoy and respect. Ultimately I would want to have a nice ongoing kinky connection, whether it’s play partners or something developing more seriously.

If possible, please include age, location, and some sort of physical description in your message just to weed out all the spam

Hello,

I'm a 47 year old man here in downtown NYC. I'm in pretty decent shape, great career, mentally balanced, healthy, and looking for an ongoing connection that can blossom into something real. I am the type to start a little slow, as our busy schedules allow, and then see what unfolds naturally.

I’m looking for something that has kink as a basis for a relationship but not the entire relationship. Just an important component. That means exploring roles with dominance and submission. I’m very good with rope and consider myself a rigger. I’ve been to numerous rope classes over the years and other kink based workshops. You would never guess because I look quite vanilla, so to keep that part of my self private. People say I have a gentle Dom energy. Consider myself a tender dom but I’m experienced with D/s and DDlg as well. You might say I like the emotional and psychological aspects of trust and vulnerability that comes with sexuality, pleasure, submission.

I feel that I have my life together, and my general disposition has always been to be a happy, curious person. I'm a clean cut, suit and tie kind of guy for work but casual otherwise.

I like to spend my time reading (esp public health, and the impact of social media on human connection), attempting to be health-conscious, pop culture. I like to think I excel at baking healthy snacks, I really like jazz, and I’m a huge film buff, pretty big music fan, like being a foodie, keeping up with current events. I like good conversation, snuggles, laughing. I speak a second language but... am pretty rusty!

Besides the usual hangouts, conversations, and I’d be open to going to events around the city, taking some language or cooking classes, biking, jazz clubs, and I recently started trying tennis and would be open to a tennis partner

You: Single, fairly balanced, intellectually curious, mentally grounded, have a few interesting interests. Open minded. Being pretty drama free is important to me too. Doing something productive. Able to laugh and not take life too seriously is important. For a full partner I prefer someone that has their act together, is intelligent with a career of some kind or academic studies, and is seeking a missing piece.

If you write please be sure to state age, location, a few hobbies or interests (a physical description is very helpful ), and we can start a conversation and see where it leads

thanks