r/AskMen_NSFW

I’m asking this cause last night I was so hard it literally woke me out of my sleep. I usually sleep naked which is good but last night even without underwear I still felt it throbbing so hard. Pissed and was still hard for like 10 minutes after. Not complaining cause that means everything works but damn lol

Does this happen to anyone else?

I love the concept and idea of anal play... but it hurts and is too tight for more than the tip of a finger.

I don't have access to toys or lubes (aside from vaseline?), but how can I start my anal play journey?

I work in hotels/hospitality and I really want to subtly integrate some sfw conditioning/behavioral methods to show the working white collar men extra care and appreciation during exchanges with them. I already have been trying to be more attentive and sweet-toned with them, but it's still a hard habit to start (for me at least, considering I despise men).

What are some tips or suggestions I can make use of that are extremely subtle? (I'm a 28 y/o ftm transmasc who works graveyard shift and am know in the workplace for being an outspoken queer feminist) This is a genuine and serious ask!

Hi Guys,

I would like your full honesty on these two questions:

How would you honestly feel if you discovered that a gay man found you attractive? Would you be upset if he told you you were attractive?

I'm in my 40s and I grew up during a time when looking at a straight guy for too long could create a very bad experience.

Also, would you stop being someone's friend if he told you he was gay?

I find it hot that men's balls ache when they get turned on but don't cum, but what does it actually feel like? Does it hurt? How long does it take to start happening?