u/cplcpl1234

Questions after our last visit

Questions after our last visit

Curious what people’s perspective is on this.

We’re a young couple and have been to Haulover a few times now, but the first times we went without really reading much about it. After reading a bit more, a few questions came up for me.

This past weekend was the first time we actually took a walk down the beach, and we didn’t realize how big the nude section was, which was a nice surprise. But I also read that people sometimes take pictures of you while you’re walking. Is that actually true?

Also, one guy came and laid down pretty close to us and was basically staring at us the whole time. We didn’t feel unsafe, but definitely uncomfortable. What are you supposed to do in that situation?

And last, there were a bunch of guys constantly walking around and moving from place to place. I saw people mention β€œguys with gold chains” before. Is that the same type of thing? What’s the story with that?

u/cplcpl1234 β€” 1 hour ago

Is this too early in our relationship or at our age to try a threesome?

Hey everyone,

My wife and I have been together 3.5 years, married for a year. We’re 27 and 25, have a really strong relationship, and an amazing sex life.

I’ve had experience with this kind of dynamic before, but for her this would be completely new. Recently we started talking about it more seriously and feel ready to explore it together.

For me, it’s always been about the dynamic of more than two people, not replacing anything. At the same time, I’m aware she’s younger and new to this, so I want to make sure we approach it the right way.

It will be MFM. Plan is to meet someone for drinks first and just go based on the vibe. If it feels right, maybe take it further.

Main question is whether this feels too early in a relationship or at our age?

Also, for those who’ve done this before, what boundaries or rules did you set early on? We’ve talked more about the idea than specifics because we want it to feel natural, but I’m wondering if that’s a mistake.

Would really appreciate advice from people with experience.

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u/cplcpl1234 β€” 4 hours ago

Struggling more with my role than jealousy

Hey everyone, curious if anyone else has felt this.

In the past I joined couples a few times, and it always felt natural. It was basically a normal threesome, but I definitely felt more dominant in that role since I was the one coming in and leading the energy.

Now with my girl, we’ve talked a lot about bringing another guy in. I honestly don’t think jealousy is the issue. I like the idea of seeing her desired, enjoying herself, and even sharing/showing her off a bit.

What I’m struggling with more is my role in it. I don’t want to suddenly feel like I’m not the main guy in the situation.

Curious especially from guys who used to join couples and then switched to bringing someone into their own relationship. Did you struggle with that shift too?

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u/cplcpl1234 β€” 1 day ago
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Overlap with other kinks

Hey everyone, curious what kinks you see overlapping with hotpast or having similar elements to it?

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u/cplcpl1234 β€” 1 day ago