r/hotpast

I really try not to be nosey about my girlfriend's sexual history, I'll start with that. Not because I was scared to hear about it, but out of mutual respect. I have my own history and she has hers, but when I found out about hers and one obsession that she had I couldn't help but see it all.

This started when we were grabbing an ice cream treat on a sunny day after being outside with our friends all day. Most of the girls were sitting at a different table from the guys, but we were close enough to hear some of each others conversation. Most of the guys talk was about our plans to take a trip to a friend's cabin that month and what we planned to do. Similar to that the girls were talking to our "friend" Liz and her recent dates.

Liz was not my favorite person, I'll be honest about that. She was loud and had a tendency to drink too much and talk about things that made most people uncomfortable. While she was eating and talking I overheard her talk about her most recent hookup, but more specifically how it ended. "He pulled out while I was ass up, flipped me over and came on my face. It was so much I couldn't open my eyes."

At first I thought most of the girls would be thrown off by how crass and loud she was talking, but I was surprised to hear a general "Hot" from them. Me and my girlfriend had done this early in dating, but recently and mainly I had only been cumming inside her. Because of this I was surprised to hear that she off all the girls thought this was the hottest thing Liz has said.

After leaving our friends and heading home I couldn't get the thought of her loving the idea of Liz having her faced covered. After a few minutes of silence I folded and asked her about it. She at first was shocked I even heard, but after thinking about it understood how loud Liz was. I asked her why she thought it was so hot and why we never did it. After a minute of contemplating her response she asked if I was ready to really hear that answer.

My heart dropped at first. Not in a bad way, but also not in a good way. After thinking about it I said yes. She told me "Do you remember my ex?" which is what you never want to hear. I said yes and she then told me that he would only cum on her face or in her mouth. On top of that it was always a lot, to the point that she couldn't finish it in one go.

At first I was horrified hearing this. My girl was used like that by someone else is never easy to hear at first. Based on my silence she immediately started to backtrack and apologized. I told her I asked and wasn't hurt by it and not to apologize. Her response was "don't worry he was a bad guy and would record it which I hated."

I blew it off and started talking about what to have for dinner. After a few hours, dinner and a few glasses of wine she went to bed. I couldn't stop thinking about it and it started to eat me up, I had to know. In a moment of weakness I opened her laptop which we used to watch tv on when the tv was in use. All I looked up was "Cum" and after scrolling past our own texts I saw what I knew was there. "Look how pretty you look with my cum on you" and I saw multiple pictures and videos of my girlfriend with her ex's cum covering her face.

On top of that were videos of her begging for it while sucking him. At first I was horrified and didn't know what to think or feel. Then I knew I had to bring it up to her, so the next day I opened up about what happened and apologized. She wasn't angry, but more confused asking me why and how I felt. I didn't know how to answer at first, but told her I thought it was hot to know that she was someone else's slut before mine.

To this day we still talk about our previous relationships and even watch old videos together.

I was helping my girlfriend clean her place and came across her old journal from the 2 years before we met. I read the following entries:

While on a girl's trip:

"I showed (her friends) a picture of (her ex)'s dick and they couldn't believe how massive it was. TBH I never thought of that but I guess it's huge."

About a different ex:

"I dreamed I had sex with (her other ex) last night and EW I can't believe I dated him, his dick is so small, can't believe I dated him for that long EWWW."

Lots more in it too. She also went to a nude beach a few times with friends and showed me pics + told me about it.

I gotta get her to talk about her past more!! I know she'd be down too!

A few weeks ago my laptop completely died, so I started using my wife’s (36F) old one. While cleaning it up because it was painfully slow, I dug into the recycle bin and recovered some “deleted” videos and pictures.

They were of her sucking and fucking her ex FWB, the one she was seeing right when we first met. She’s told me detailed stories about how he would use her and fuck her brains out, but she never once mentioned there were videos.

Now I have them. I’ve been watching them in secret, and it’s hitting me in ways I didn’t expect. Part of me feels like a creep for not saying anything, but another part doesn’t want to ruin the thrill.

Should I confess I found them, or just keep enjoying them quietly?

Advice needed.

In recent months my wife has been less willing to share hot past stories, claiming she’s told me everything. Lately, I’ve discovered a new strategy to get her to open up. Once she’s warmed up during lovemaking I’ll start to go down on her or tease her with a vibrator, and suggest that she imagine something specific from her past while I pleasure her.

Last time, I suggested she imagine the largest cock that has ever filled her pussy. I whispered suggestively that she try to remember how she felt when she sucked it and fondled his balls. I invited her to imagine the feeling of it entering her, stretching her inch by inch, and how her body responded. This brought her to a quick climax.

I repositioned myself and slid into her. Then I said, “You don’t have to tell me, but it would be hot to know the details.” I learned that it belonged to a hook-up, not a boyfriend. She admitted it was a ONS (which she previously denied having). She also said she came almost immediately upon penetration.

I think the success is due to not asking her for the story directly, but prompting her memory while she was aroused. It then became easier to share it without feeling pressured. Does anyone have similar success stories?

My wife was very submissive and slutty on bed. She said one of her ex, very dom, trained her well.

All her craziest stories are from him: licking toes on the floor, drunk sex in an alley, pool sex, public toilet sex, hanged on the door being pounded, begging him to take the condom off and creampie her.

The way she acts in bed with me now, like licking my toes or getting on all fours begging me to rim her ass, that’s all stuff he trained her to do. It turns me on like crazy knowing that.

We married and have kids now, but he’s still around on her IG. He likes her posts and they message sometimes.

A couple weeks ago she wore this really slutty one-piece swimsuit to the beach (sides cut way out, barely any fabric on her ass, same one as Bonnie Blue in Miami). She was shy when she was out and she knew that one was too sexy and revealing, maybe even slutty. But still she asked me to take pics of her and she posted them. Just thinking about him seeing those and stroking to my wife gets me so worked up. He might think what a good girl she still is by posting hot pics. Ah and he liked that post too for sure.

I’ve started encouraging her to buy more revealing ones like that for new IG photos and she ok with that idea.

What do you think of my wife? similar stories?

When I asked my wife, she first danced around and it and refused to answer (in a cute way) and eventually said we are “about the same size.” Does this mean what I think it does?

Two parts …

First, what is the most memorable facial you’ve given? What made it memorable? Do you still think about it from time to time?

Second, what is the most memorable facial your wife or gf has received - the one that sticks in your mind the most? What about that experience for her makes it memorable for you?

My wife would indulge me with stories from time to time, they are mostly vanilla but quite sexy to me.

A bit of a backstory, the wife was married for a very brief period. We met at work while she was still married. I had absolutely no intentions with anything else but befriending her since it’s at work and she was 100% out of my league.

She is hot, she knows it herself and enjoys many privileges when she is out.

We got along pretty well as friends and we would hang out once in a while. I enjoyed clubbing and dining out so she was pretty much my wing woman when we did go. Now, she was probably the best at it. She would naturally talk to girls whom she knows I liked and would introduce me. She pretty much got me laid a few times, I would imagine girls thought I was more attractive since I hanged out with a 10.

Here is the kicker. Her ex-husband never joined us since he disliked crowds. On valentines day this year, I asked her to tell me something sexy.

She goes on to ask me if I remembered all those times we hanged out. I said yes and then she went to on telling me that every time we were planned to hang out, her ex would have sex with her a few hours before she met up with me.

He would ask her to describe how she was going to tease me and whether she was going to stay over at my place.

She also tells me that he would cum in her at least twice because he would be so turned on. At the same time, she said he didn’t want her to cum so that she’s extra horny.

She also told me that at all our hang outs, she didn’t wear any underwear or bra. I actually did remember because she accidentally flashed me. I told her I immediately looked away because I didn’t want to be known as the pervert at work.

She then said she actually wanted me to flirt with her and get more physical with her but I didn’t.

At the end of the night when she got home, she describes how she was so turned on that she would wake her ex up and she would ride him and cum a few times herself.

This was just one story that made me go “oh, that makes sense now. How she kept wanting me to dance with her and placed my hands on her thighs “

It’s unfortunate but some of the hottest stories for me, she considers traumatic for herself. I wonder why she even scratches the surface and brings it up sometimes if it’s not something she’s truly trying to delve into. Stories of her on several occasions getting used by two guys at a time drive me fucking wild. What id give to be a fly on the wall and see her be slutted out by two cocks back in her prime.

‎Hello, This was a story not long ago. Don't know where to start but let me just keep it simple.

‎I was badly need a phone to replace my work phone and planning to buy a new one. But my wife told me that she still had her old phone that is still working and im okay with it.

‎After i charged the phone, my wife told me maybe there are still undeleted nudes and vids in that phone. i know all about her past before we decided to be a couple when we first met so even if i found her old stuff, i wouldn't be that shocked/jealous.

‎We scrolled through the gallery because she also want to transfer some of her old pics to her phone. While scrolling, we came across this row of videos. When we opened it, it was her videos getting fucked by her ex. All of the videos are from her ex's pov tho.

‎I didn't know why i felt turned on by it. Not because of watching her fucked by other man, but more of turned on because how innocent her younger self are in the videos.

‎We proceed to watch the videos while she jerk me off. After i cum, we deleted the videos and just talk about how innocent she look in the videos and how an innocent looking girl have that naughty secret

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…that was what my wife said to me after we ran into a guy she “went on a few dates with”. This event occured 4yrs ago and just rocked me.

After yrs of being parents, I had kinda settled into this idea of my wife as a super pretty but chaste, suburban mom. Once or twice a month we’d have good but very vanilla lights off missionary and I just thought that was that.

But when we ran into this friend of a friend at a BBQ, and my wife squeezed my hand and whispered “omg I kinda dated that guy” my mind reeled.

He was not an alpha, he wasn’t a looser either. He was just a guy who my wife’s friends boyfriend knew and set them up. But he was also a guy who bought wife dinner, brought her back to his apartment, ran his meaty hands across my wife’s 23 yr old stomach and jammed 2 fingers into her freshly shaved pussy.

I realized in that moment my wife wasn’t JUST a mom and my spouse. I remembered that she was not so long ago a girl who was excited and nervous to get a 9:00 text.

She was someone who painted her nails before wrapping two manicured hands around a cock thicker than mine. She asked her roommate opinions on her outfit…a cute top that ended up in a heap on the floor of a strange guys apartment and she struggled to suck an unwieldy dick while looking cute.

He may have been a bad kisser, but that blatantly wasn’t a deal breaker when she was feeling lonely and, while pinned under his heavy body as he thrusted into her, shaking the bed rhythmically, asking if she liked that dick…well they weren’t kidding much anyway

Wife and one of her friends who just got out of a relationship went out on Friday for dinner. They had a few drinks and met some guys at the bar. Some drinks led to them going for more drinks. She ended up dancing on one of the guys. She claims nothing happened but said she could feel his cock getting excited while she grinding her butt on him. She came home very horny that night and I know she was very turned on by this

After being in relationships back to back and having a relatively low sexual partner count, she was single and living in the city, she was working in a talent agency and attending events alongside being a party girl. Specifically her recent break up knocked her confidence, and all of a sudden she was getting SO MUCH attention.

She's hot, she's 6'4, skinny with curvy hips, tight abs, big tits and stunning blue eyes. Always self conscious of her height, she suddenly she had hot tall guys taking shots at her. When previously she'd be self-conscious, she leant into it and actually took her partner number from low single digits to over 25 in a year.

She was on tinder, and I've heard about a lot. But this story got me off a lot. She had been chatting to a guy, who said he was a football player, and his photos supported this. A lean guy, pretty cut and a nice looking cock. She was out and horny one night, messaging him amongst other men on tinder, and asked if he wanted a visit.

She caught a taxi to his place, arrived and a much bigger, out-of-shape guy answered the door. He still looked handsome, but she was taken back and almost left. I don't know why, and she told me she was still really horny and just wanted some release and she was already there. So she sat him on his couch... went down on him (it was indeed still a really nice cock) and rode him in the lounge. He had flatmates, so he was trying to be quiet and this turned her on. She was grinding on his cock and asked him to help with her zip, and took her big tits out of her dress, bouncing on it he was literally grabbing pillows to moan into. With the angle she said his gut rubbed her clit so well that she arched back and and bounced harder and faster arching her tits and came on his cock. He couldn't handle that view and feeling and came as well.

I always get off thinking it was a pity fuck that turned out to be pretty hot, and she told me that she didn't see it that way, they did have great chats and while she was considered hot she enjoyed the connection. She had an orgasm and he got to enjoy her. They chatted for a while and then she left.

She told me she pretty much fucked every guy she met on Tinder, either that night or eventually.

In 2005, fresh off a breakup, my wife (early 20s, mid-length dirty blonde hair, killer legs, first name is Suzanne), went to a hotel bar and met a group of guys that chatted them up and started buying their drinks. At the end of the night, she went back to a guy's room and spent an unforgettable, passion-filled six hours. (Her friend, R, hooked up with one of his friends that night too.) She describes him as tall and very good looking, dressed like a cowboy (and as thick as a Coke can). She thinks he was in his 30s, worked in the oilfield and was from SoTex. He was the biggest she's ever had and still thinks about that night to this day! She had to leave in a hurry the next morning. They talked one time after this but lost contact. If I could find him, it would be super hot to hear any hot details from his perspective! If anyone knew the name of this bar that was frequented by many of the local hunting ranch guides, that would be helpful too!

This happened when my wife and I was 26 and she was 25. We had been together for just about 3 years. We where in an awkward part in both of our lives, I had to move for about a year for my job, I knew I was able to transfer back around then. She was transitioning to a new career, she started out as a teacher and was transitioning to an admin role. And it was that time where we had to decide if we wanted to settle down and get serious or not. Throw in your usual immaturity that 25 year olds have and we both decided we could use that opportunity as a break. We look back on this and laugh at this time now. We are in our early 30's now and married happily. 

I didn't find out about this until like a year after I came back, we moved in and got engaged. Mind you, we kept in contact this entire time texting, snapchating, and occasional call. A few months into this break she was out with a girlfriend one night. They ran into a guy that her girlfriend knew. This guy was in his early 30's, black, handsome. He immediately took a liking to my wife. Which isn't surprising since my wife has natural DD's on a semi-curvy body, she's 5"3, brunette, and has that innocent look. They exchanged numbers. Her girlfriend went on to tell her that she had hooked up with him a few months back, and met him through tinder. And that he was great in bed and packing.

He started hitting her up almost immediately. At first she didn't really know what to do according to her. Do I engage him? Flirt? Shut him down? She has always said he seemed really out of her league but she admitted that she liked that he was obviously into her. Finally after going back and forth for a while, she doesn't remember the time frame but has always said it was at least a few weeks or month, she agreed to go out with him. She had a fun night out with him, had a few drinks, chatted, flirted, and kissed him. Probably about a week after that she invited him over to her apartment for dinner.

After having food and hanging out for a bit they fucked on her couch. Started out with making out next to each other. Then he took her top and bra off and played with her tits for a while. That led to her undressing him. She has always said he was definitely packing and was by far the biggest and thickest she has seen or had. Not like some monster cock big, but significant. She blew him for a bit. He tittyfucked her and ate her out. She said she then rode him for a bit before bending over on the couch. He pulled out and finished on her butt. She cleaned up and he left.

She has always said that afterwards she felt really awkward and weird. On one hand, she really enjoyed the sex. This was only her 4th guy she had ever been with and the first she fucked that wasn't a boyfriend or in a committed relationship with. But on the other she said she felt kinda slutty, ashamed and wrong obviously because of me. She went a few days without texting him back. She went on to eventually respond to him and told him the reason why she was ghosting for a bit. Neither of us remember if our communication was weird at this time. Like I said earlier, our texting and snapchatting we a lot during this whole "break". 

Again, she doesn't remember the time-frame, but a few weeks later she was texting with him quite regularly. On a spur of the moment thing he invited her over one Saturday night and she went. I have asked if she knew that this was going to lead to sex and she has always said that she did. They ordered food and yea, hooked up again. This time she stayed the night. They fucked again in the morning. Only thing different is they did missionary and her sideways. He liked this because he liked watching her big tits. He said they were the best he's ever seen, which he isn't wrong. 

After this time he started to get kind of serious with her. She made it clear she didn't want any sort of relationship. I guess he pressed hard and she said no. By this time I knew when I was moving back, she knew that too. 

After this they slowly stopped talking. They did hook up one more time. They ran into each other at a local late night bar that's popular in our part of the city. Both were there with groups of friends. They ubered back to his place together, she has always said she was really drunk. Immediately back, like right in the doorway, they started at it. She did not stay the night afterwards even though he was trying to get her. After that she said they slowly stopped talking. 

We got back together officially like a week or so after that. I came back and we started looking at places. She has said he still hit her up for a few months. And she would trade pleasantries but never more. 

I forgot to mention, outside of me, he is the only guy that's fucked her without a condom. She got an IUD about a year into us together. So lucky him.

Ever since she told me about this she has always been forthcoming and honest with it all. She doesn't mind me asking now, she knows I find it hot.

Feel free to message about anything, more details or about her. I know I left a lot out, but already is a long post. 

Is there that one ex that gave her the best sex of her life or an “only” like only time she squirt, only time she came x number of times etc.

do you feel like you’re competing with him for her? He keeps her gold medal and the imprint in her memory but is now off ruining other women for their future husbands while you've signed away your right to even touch another woman so just so that you can give your all to get his sloppy seconds.

This is all fantasy and marriage is about much more than this, but god damn, hot to think about.

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I used to work in a different city and was living a shared hostel apartment . My wife then gf who is 36-30-48 used to visit me time to time . One day she came we had our regular session and slept off , suddenly during the middle of night I woke to the sound of my roommate coming home. I got up and went to the balcony to smoke my girl was completely asleep with her naked big butt faced upside to the door . She was lying butt naked , when I was coming back I saw him stand rite over and watching her . I let him watch take his own sweet time . In morning I confronted him about this , but I was cool about it. He confessed that it's not the first time it happened and surely won't be the last.

Any thought on whether I should have waited it out ? To see where it's heading ?

What info did it contain? What info should my partner put in hers?