u/bat_beloved

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How do you feel valid when you don't fit the stereotype?

I have gotten blocked or unfriended so many times once I send a clothed full body picture of myself because I dont fit into the small skinny and petite model that guys like girls to be. I hurt so bad. I just want to be cared for and loved. It makes me feel like I don't deserve to be here.

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u/bat_beloved — 7 hours ago

26[F4M] #Iowa, lost little with a love for all things girly, looking for daddy for comfort and coziness

Hi there and welcome to my post! You can call me Lily for now and I'll tell you my real name once I'm comfortable!🧸

First things first, I'm a little and my favorite thing to do is give oral. That doesn't mean you can message me a picture of your dick as an opener. Please have some more self respect than that. I wont reply to low effort messages either. Try to at least put more thought into than "hey" or "how are you?". 🌼

First off, I actively participate in ddlg and littlespace. I use pacis and sippy cups and like to draw, color, watch cartoons, and play with toys. I just moved into my own place and am able to do this stuff more freely now! I'm looking for someone kind and nurturing and wants to treat me well. Someone I can be my little authentic self around. But anyways.....✨️

I'll start with the most basic questions first🙂

Age: 26

Sex: Cis female

Location: Iowa City, Iowa (it's the closest big town to me but I actually live in a very small town about an hour away)

About me:💖

• Curly haired down to shoulders natural burnette (currently dyed split dye black and pink with bangs)

•Green/blue eyes and glasses

•Thick/BBW/Curvy (on a weightloss journey though and 30lbs down so far!)

•German and Irish ancestry (this means I'm really pale)

•Wonderful with cooking and baking (my grandma taught me how to cook and bake and I have a lot of experience with it, recently made pot roast and chocolate chip banana bread!)

•Educated in mental health

•Very positive outlook on life (will be your number one supporter♡)

Now onto some details🌸

Kids: I have none but would like to have some furbabies, I currently have a kitty (Dont mind if you don't want kids or have them already!)

Car: Currently don't have but working on it

Education: Bachelors degree with two majors and two specializations in my field

Job: Yes, I work full time

Housing: I live by myself in an apartment

Now even MORE details🧸

Long distance: At first yes but I would want to meet fairly soon to see if the connection is there in person.

Distance limit: Please be within the USA, I do have a passport but I can't mentally handle the time differences and the travel it would take to see each other.

Relocation: I have nothing tying me to Iowa so I am all for relocating to wherever my future daddy is!

Age range: Just be older than me please! I am more attracted to men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's than I am in their 20's. Late 20's is ok as well but older is preferred.

Some expectations:✨️

•Please do not call me any nicknames or petnames right away. Lily will do just fine.

•Do not jump into anything inherently sexual right away with me. I am not interested in daddy's who only have sex on the mind.

•Message me more than just "hi", "hey", or "how are you?". Connect with me. Share a little about yourself or tell me what about my ad stood out to you.

•If any of these are broken I will just be deleting your message to me. I'm not one to mess around or waste time when it comes to something as serious as finding my future daddy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I hope you have a lovely night/day and I hope to hear from you soon!

All my love,

Lily💖

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u/bat_beloved — 7 hours ago

26[F4M] #Iowa, lost little with a love for all things girly, looking for daddy for comfort and coziness

Hi there and welcome to my post! You can call me Lily for now and I'll tell you my real name once I'm comfortable!🧸

First things first, I'm a little and my favorite thing to do is give oral. That doesn't mean you can message me a picture of your dick as an opener. Please have some more self respect than that. I wont reply to low effort messages either. Try to at least put more thought into than "hey" or "how are you?". 🌼

First off, I actively participate in ddlg and littlespace. I use pacis and sippy cups and like to draw, color, watch cartoons, and play with toys. I just moved into my own place and am able to do this stuff more freely now! I'm looking for someone kind and nurturing and wants to treat me well. Someone I can be my little authentic self around. But anyways.....✨️

I'll start with the most basic questions first🙂

Age: 26

Sex: Cis female

Location: Iowa City, Iowa (it's the closest big town to me but I actually live in a very small town about an hour away)

About me:💖

• Curly haired down to shoulders natural burnette (currently dyed split dye black and pink with bangs)

•Green/blue eyes and glasses

•Thick/BBW/Curvy (on a weightloss journey though and 30lbs down so far!)

•German and Irish ancestry (this means I'm really pale)

•Wonderful with cooking and baking (my grandma taught me how to cook and bake and I have a lot of experience with it, recently made pot roast and chocolate chip banana bread!)

•Educated in mental health

•Very positive outlook on life (will be your number one supporter♡)

Now onto some details🌸

Kids: I have none but would like to have some furbabies, I currently have a kitty (Dont mind if you don't want kids or have them already!)

Car: Currently don't have but working on it

Education: Bachelors degree with two majors and two specializations in my field

Job: Yes, I work full time

Housing: I live by myself in an apartment

Now even MORE details🧸

Long distance: At first yes but I would want to meet fairly soon to see if the connection is there in person.

Distance limit: Please be within the USA, I do have a passport but I can't mentally handle the time differences and the travel it would take to see each other.

Relocation: I have nothing tying me to Iowa so I am all for relocating to wherever my future daddy is!

Age range: Just be older than me please! I am more attracted to men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's than I am in their 20's. Late 20's is ok as well but older is preferred.

Some expectations:✨️

•Please do not call me any nicknames or petnames right away. Lily will do just fine.

•Do not jump into anything inherently sexual right away with me. I am not interested in daddy's who only have sex on the mind.

•Message me more than just "hi", "hey", or "how are you?". Connect with me. Share a little about yourself or tell me what about my ad stood out to you.

•If any of these are broken I will just be deleting your message to me. I'm not one to mess around or waste time when it comes to something as serious as finding my future daddy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I hope you have a lovely night/day and I hope to hear from you soon!

All my love,

Lily💖

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u/bat_beloved — 2 days ago