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23F [F4M] today was my first time shopping in diapers🫣

Just picked up my first pack of diapers today and I’m still not sure if I’m more excited or nervous about it lol. I’ve been wanting to try them for ages but chickened out at the store the first time. Going with something cute and pastel this time because why not make it fun? Hoping to find someone patient who doesn’t mind explaining all the diaper stuff to me - I’m kinda clueless but eager to learn!

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u/envyxglint — 5 hours ago

52 M4F Winder, Ga diaper lover seeks girlfriend to wear with.

Hello,

The good, I’m kind, caring and loyal.

The bad, I’m shy and not good at small talk.

The ugly, due to bullying and abuse I have no self confidence.

Still reading, thank you.

I’m an easy going person. In my free time I enjoy playing video games or watching tv.

I’m looking for someone I can settle down with.

I want the relationship first diapers second.

I’m not picky about the girl. I judge more based on her personality. Does she treat people kindly.

I just want someone willing to wear with me and we change each other. I’m not a dom but I’m willing to do things like bottle feed, spank or do other things you want to add.

I’m not submissive but I do enjoy laying my head in your lap. I’m also willing to allow you to do some mommy things.

Just not into being punished.

To give you an idea of what I want.

We both have the day off tomorrow. We get home.

I put you in a diaper, you put one on me. Then we enjoy the rest of the day and tomorrow in diapers.

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u/darthlore74 — 23 minutes ago

24NB4A emo diapered puppy looking for friends and or cg!

Alternative Diaper puppy, age 24 in Illinois! Looking for caregiver/friends switch, prefer he/they pronouns but use any, agender.

Really into humilation, degradation, diapers, soiling/wetting, puppy play, etc !! Not into vomit, blood, and gore of that sort!!

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u/Long_Ambassador_8739 — 4 hours ago

19F [F4F or F4M] Seeking to Dominate Littles & Discover ABDL

19F here, little in spirit and eager to explore the ABDL world with someone who likes to take charge. I'm all about that comfy diaper life and cuddles with my favorite stuffy - if you're a caring and playful caregiver who knows how to make little moments feel big, let’s see where this goes. I’m down for either F4F or F4M, just no ick or weirdness. If you like soft voices, messy giggles, and a girl who knows her worth, we might be a match made in diaper heaven.

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u/hippydaisy — 6 hours ago

37 mtf seeking mommy, daddy, or friends

Hi my name is Christine or Chrissy for short I’m 37 years old and looking for someone in or around Kingston ny to keep me as a baby girl I’m also open to relocating my big age is 37 but I prefer to say 3.7. I can’t host or drive but if you are interested in getting to know me better message me here or as chrissythecutie on telegram . (Due to being stuck living with my extremely transphobic parents I still look male and have all my male bits looking for someone to help me be the baby girl I am inside) thank you for reading

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u/ponyoluv — 2 hours ago

20 [F4M] Little in need of Daddy

Hello, r/ABDLPersonals!

My name is Isabella! I'm a second-year university student (technically a junior based on my credit hours, I guess, but I don't think many of them transfer to my degree).

I have been looking for a Daddy for quite some time now, to little success. I'm hoping you can be the remedy to that!

Firstly, I want to make it clear that I won't be around 24/7. As I said, I'm a university student, but on top of that, I have jobs (plural), extracurriculars, social obligations, and more. I'd be happy to chat and play as often as possible, primarily on weekends, but I want to be upfront and say my real life comes before this dynamic.

And secondly, I want to tell you what, or rather who, I'm looking for!

Obviously, I want a Daddy! Someone kind, caring, compassionate, and someone with just the right amount of evil sadism to make our playtime more fun!

I need rules, structure, and discipline. Someone to keep me on track and accountable not only for our more 'fun' things, but also for things like homework and eating properly. That means Daddy must know when to say 'no,' y'know?

Those more 'fun' rules can be a range of things, things we can discuss at the start of our dynamic, but I would like them all to have some sort of justification, even if they're really to entertain your sadistic side... "Yes it's embarrassing, but it's for your own good!"

One thing I was planning on being a huge part of this dynamic was denial, but the more I think about it, I don't know if my 'permanent denial and anal-only' fantasy is super realistic. Not only does it really limit playing potential, but it also seems like it might have adverse effects when I'm super stressed out.

I think a better route to go is keeping orgasms as a rare treat, a reward that Daddy gives his Little to destress and relax. Most of the time, long-term denial is fun, but when I'm stressed about an upcoming exam or something, taking some time to 'relieve' myself might be a good idea.

We can talk about everything, of course. If this interests you at all, please don't hesitate to reach out! I need a Daddy to take care of me, so I'm looking forward to it!

Kinks - DDlg, Orgasm Denial, Watersports, Bladder Control, Mild Masochism, ABDL, Spanking, Being Talked Down To, Misogyny, Games, Petplay, Rules, Punishment, Spanking, Humiliation, Embarrassment, Cuckquean, etc.

Limits - Exhibition, Pictures/Videos, Severe Degradation, Scat, Vomit, etc.

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u/IsThatABellUh — 7 hours ago

26[F4M] #Iowa, lost little with a love for all things girly, looking for daddy for comfort and coziness

Hi there and welcome to my post! You can call me Lily for now and I'll tell you my real name once I'm comfortable!🧸

First things first, I'm a little and my favorite thing to do is give oral. That doesn't mean you can message me a picture of your dick as an opener. Please have some more self respect than that. I wont reply to low effort messages either. Try to at least put more thought into than "hey" or "how are you?". 🌼

First off, I actively participate in ddlg and littlespace. I use pacis and sippy cups and like to draw, color, watch cartoons, and play with toys. I just moved into my own place and am able to do this stuff more freely now! I'm looking for someone kind and nurturing and wants to treat me well. Someone I can be my little authentic self around. But anyways.....✨️

I'll start with the most basic questions first🙂

Age: 26

Sex: Cis female

Location: Iowa City, Iowa (it's the closest big town to me but I actually live in a very small town about an hour away)

About me:💖

• Curly haired down to shoulders natural burnette (currently dyed split dye black and pink with bangs)

•Green/blue eyes and glasses

•Thick/BBW/Curvy (on a weightloss journey though and 30lbs down so far!)

•German and Irish ancestry (this means I'm really pale)

•Wonderful with cooking and baking (my grandma taught me how to cook and bake and I have a lot of experience with it, recently made pot roast and chocolate chip banana bread!)

•Educated in mental health

•Very positive outlook on life (will be your number one supporter♡)

Now onto some details🌸

Kids: I have none but would like to have some furbabies, I currently have a kitty (Dont mind if you don't want kids or have them already!)

Car: Currently don't have but working on it

Education: Bachelors degree with two majors and two specializations in my field

Job: Yes, I work full time

Housing: I live by myself in an apartment

Now even MORE details🧸

Long distance: At first yes but I would want to meet fairly soon to see if the connection is there in person.

Distance limit: Please be within the USA, I do have a passport but I can't mentally handle the time differences and the travel it would take to see each other.

Relocation: I have nothing tying me to Iowa so I am all for relocating to wherever my future daddy is!

Age range: Just be older than me please! I am more attracted to men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's than I am in their 20's. Late 20's is ok as well but older is preferred.

Some expectations:✨️

•Please do not call me any nicknames or petnames right away. Lily will do just fine.

•Do not jump into anything inherently sexual right away with me. I am not interested in daddy's who only have sex on the mind.

•Message me more than just "hi", "hey", or "how are you?". Connect with me. Share a little about yourself or tell me what about my ad stood out to you.

•If any of these are broken I will just be deleting your message to me. I'm not one to mess around or waste time when it comes to something as serious as finding my future daddy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I hope you have a lovely night/day and I hope to hear from you soon!

All my love,

Lily💖

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u/bat_beloved — 6 hours ago
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[F4A] 27F ABDL Baby Girl Mary feeling so naughty without my thick diaper while I’m driving… I’m right by a toy shop and I need a sweet CG to make me buy an app-controlled toy for my princess parts and control me until I make cummies in the car like a good girl 💕

Hiii~ 💕🍼

I'm Mary, 27 (she/her), and right now I'm driving with nothing on under my skirt... no diaper, just bare. Every bump makes me squirm and blush.

I'm parked right next to a toy shop that sells app-controlled vibrators. I'm getting all fluttery thinking about it.

Looking for a gentle, yet bit dommy teasing caregiver (or padded friend) to take control.

I'd go in, buy a toy, put it in, and give you the link so you can play with me while I drive.

Please use the "Good Girl" protocol: ask permission before every change ("Mary, can I turn it up a little?") and wait for my shy yes~

Only sweet, gentle teasing please. No mean stuff.

If you're a patient CG who wants to edge and tease a squirmy diaperless baby girl in her car, message me!

Tell me your age and exactly how you'd start teasing me.

Waiting like a good girl... come control me? 🍼💕

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u/Femme_123 — 13 hours ago

f19 playing rdrd2 while diapered and hung over

And i have to go nr1 and maybe nr2 later :3

Make me your little diaper Baby and give me tasks.

I have pull ups and ABDL diapys.

My family is also at Home so we have to be sneaky if you give me Crazy tasks 🤭

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u/diapygirl — 17 hours ago

23 [F4M] #Hawaii - petite Little seeking long term relationship

Hello there,

Preference is for men 26-44, from here in Hawaii, California, Washington State, Oregon, British Columbia/Montreal/Vancouver (PNW), New Zealand, Costa Rica, Colorado, London, Manhattan. Those locations specifically. (Open to visiting Florida, Texas, Wisconsin, Arizona,).

I'm not into ABDL but I'm open to it if you want to discuss it, since I never truly tried it.
As for me I'm both a little and a middle, Love playtime and being cute and dressing cute.

Looking to voice chat today, now or later.

Aloha,

I'm skinny fit weight around 99 lbs could be less, very petite woman from Hawaii, Hawaiian/Polynesian Mixed White.

I'm hoping to meet a guy whos okay with women into CGL (Care giver little, dynamics), it's something I prefer you look up rather than explain. I love toys, dolls, little shows.

Tan and long wavy hair (hair color on the lighter side, and light brown hazel eyes)

looking for a relationship with an older guy who likes long term relationships.

I love it here in Hawaii and can talk about the islands if you want.

Please dont ask for pics right away. a full physical description of yourself eyes, hair, weight, height is acceptable and I'll do the same if you're curious.

Physical preference: Child free men, from those locations listed above, 5'6 or taller, full head of hair.

Please no sadistic men, I only like gentle Care givers.

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u/Realistic_Baby_8883 — 2 hours ago

25M4A] Make me Your little submissive to do anything you want to

hey everyone I am John 25 year old submissive male who will do whatever you want to make this a reality. I currently work remotely and live alone so you can use me whenever you want or feel like it. I am big and curvy person. feel free to reach out in any way you would like.

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u/Handsome_Ca — 2 hours ago

F24 Little from SW #Ohio ISO CG or Padded Play dates! 💕

Hi ~ 💕

You can call me Sinny 🤭

I’m a 24yo little/ABDL located in SW Ohio!

After some experiences and reflecting, I am reaching back out there for what the world has to offer! Friendships & dynamics - just people who care and want to be around me as I do them.

Seeking genuine and preferably SFW connections ✨

Would love some new padded play dates nearby! 💕

… and hopefully score a Daddydom to change this diapered butt in the process 🙈

Looking for people who don’t mind to text all day, go to munches & events, and just have fun! 🤭 Diaper changes too ofc 😝

Feel free to message me.. I don’t bite - too hard!

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u/BabySinny_xx — 10 hours ago
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18 [M4A] Riverside/IE looking to be made a diapered sissy and regressed

hey I’m a 18y/o submissive boi in college and I’m looking for someone near me who can host a bd provide to make me cross dress, put me in diapers and regress me when I’m not in class. I’m new to this and want someone to teach and push me in deep.

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u/SeaGrand67 — 3 hours ago

[F4A] 23F Bi age regressor for cg

i’m into all things abdl, looking for a cg. Little space is sexual for me, but doesn’t revolve around it. I’d like to have a highly sexual, tpe relationship with the right person, but also be able to partake in little space as a lifestyle/mindset.

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u/ApplicationAgile1751 — 6 hours ago

19 F Little looking for other littles to play with >~< (I need to poop so baddd)

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About me:

I'm chubby

Embarrassed about being a baby

Very shy

I love gross stuff

I just binged some taco bell...

Love being forced to eat food

Addicted to food

Kinda airheaded

Love affection especially physical

I'm easily regressed(others being regressed with me makes me regress so badddd)

Nothing grosses me out

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u/Optimal_Bag9000 — 11 hours ago

26[M4A] [edmonton] kinky femboy for owner willing to move :3

Hiya I’m a kinky nerdy stoner gamer femboy from Edmonton Canada I’m 26 I only dress like a sissy sometimes mostly masc when not at home and I’m looking for a kinky owner. I’m into Abdl, petplay, bondage, furry, cosplay, femization and bad dragons outside of kink huge gamer love anime and big into doing stuff outdoors looking for someone to vibe and chill with play game or build some LEGO :3 kik FempupBelle

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u/FemBabyBelle420 — 2 hours ago

23 M4M Little Looking For Daddy

Hi, I am a 23M Little looking for a Daddy. At the moment I am looking for something online, but not opposed to this one day becoming an IRL dynamic. I am very kinky and enjoy all ABDL topics, but I also appreciate if we have shared interests to talk about too!

I am in shape, a bit under 6' and blonde.

About little me: My little age is about 1.5-2. I really enjoy all cutesy stuff, which includes babyish outfits, diapers (and their use, mentioning because I prefer you are comfortable with that), babytalk, cartoons, naptime, and much more! I can go into much more detail, so feel free to ask me about anything about little me.

My big boy hobbies: hiking, fitness/gym, travelling (not a super regular thing ofc, but I like visiting new places), tech, also like to play videogames from time to time (Some of my favorite games are TLoU, RE 4, WoW, God of War, Elden Ring). Also a big history buff. I am into cars and Formula 1 as well.

Some of my preferences in a Daddy (None of these things are a dealbreaker, just a rough outline of what I am looking for): In good shape, Taller than me, Between 21-35 though up to 40ish is okay, Dominant and sometimes pushy but still respectful.

If any of this sounds interesting and you want to get to know me, feel free to DM and tell me more about yourself. I appreciate a small intro. Looking forward to hearing from you! :)

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u/PadButt4 — 9 hours ago

M26 4F Anyone looking for a daddy to keep them diapered and cage dm is open read caption first please

Looking for a little or baby who wants to be forced to stay diapered 24/7 and cage well also using plugs and toys dm is open

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u/Killswich1998 — 6 hours ago
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