i realised that i like both. i want someone who is obsessed with me but also understands that sends are the only way to get my attention. is it too much to ask for a sub who is actually a consistent pig? lol
Saying you’re a finsub and then saying you cant afford to pay is hilarious… just stop.
Hi everybody! I’m Luna 21f and I’ve lurked all across findom Reddit for longer than I want to admit, but this is my first post here. I always felt greedy and wrong for getting so excited for an out of the blue deposit, no matter the amount, but now I know it’s nothing to be ashamed of. I was lucky enough to meet a domme irl, and it was like everything clicked. The world started to make so much more sense. I started making so much more sense.
My insatiable desire to be worshipped like the pyramids, to offer my precious time and content, to tease the control out of my partners and dangle it inches in front of their face. The things that once felt confusing and embarrassing, now fill my body with bliss. I’m new to posting here, but I already feel right at home. ❤️
The amount of subs who have bad experiences because of Dommes who enter the community without research or empathy is literally insane. Many Dommes will complain about the low amount of subs in recent days yet a lot of them are the same reason so many may leave the community.
the following is just my opinion.
if you're a Domme into blackmail you should not actually get upset and use the info against them. people who do not consent to participate in the kink should not be involved and many revenge Dommes target outside parties of the subs life.
If a sub makes you aware they aren't able to send more or it would affect their actual life such as job,home,or family you should not keep draining them I get that some of them are highly into it but some of them just like the fantasy this is why safe words are so important.
I'm not sure how many Dommes do irl sessions but if it's a bondage session and you're not properly knowledgeable on the bdms equipment you may seriously hurt someone. I bring this up because of the amount of new Dommes who would like to do irl meets. Just because a sub says they want to be dominated and give you money doesn't mean that's the intention as well there was a Domme who was jumped by a group of men while doing a meet with a sub whom she frequently worked with.
Dommes you are Goddess and you do deserve a lot but if your a new Domme or a Domme who had been around for awhile and didn't do your research properly please just take some time and do a deep dive. You may see subs as below you and a lot of you may see subs as mer objects however they are still human and they do have needs and emotions. The male suicide rate is high. a very large amount of homeless is the result of addiction and findom is also an addiction.
and if that's not enough to convince some
If your sub doesn't have gas for work how will he continue to spoil you?
if your sub isn't able to eat for weeks how would he have the strength or brain function to work?
kinks and fetishes are fun but they should be indulged in responsibility don't be the reason you or anyone else come to real harm. I hope your all having a good day 🩵
If a “sub” responds to you telling them to send tribute with, “Blackmail it out of me”
You are NOT getting that send baby, do not do it. Just block. I can’t believe they still try this “trick” on us. Do they think we’re dumb?
No matter how much money I already have in my account, shopping with a submissive’s money always feels so much more pleasurable 😭🎀 there’s just something about it that hits differently. It made me wonder if submissives feel the same way, just from the opposite side? Like does serving and spending on someone give you that same addictive feeling? It’s honestly starting to feel like a bit of an addiction hehe 🤍
Thinking about whether it is best for me to find a domme my age or one whos a little / a lot older
Dommes I hope your day is beautiful and your accounts are full. Piggies I hope you're working hard for your beautiful goddesses today. just overall positive vibes while I'm stuck in a "not so positive" travel day.
What's the most creative thing you ever smoked out of?
My favorite is making a pumpkin bong. It's a fall tradition my friends and I started back in high-school and continued into adulthood.
Also, what's your top 3 favorite strains?
what if it was possible for people to act differently in different situations?
what if it was actually totally normal for people to not be in kink headspace all the time?
what if it's actually super weird for you to talk to me like i'm some inferior being when we haven't even said as much as 'hello'?
april fools
if it was about money they would just donate to charity and get the same feeling. they dont. its specifically about who receives it and whether she cares that they did. that detail changes everything.
in your opinion what are the best time for reddit drain games ?
I've only dabbled myself into sessions but i was curious how it looks like a long term dynamic with a findomme.
If someone wants to share their story, my DM are open
Subs, whats the most unique punishment youve gotten.
Dommes what have you given
I think a lot of people in the femdom community often disagree with this, but when I was an active finsub I could never resist when a domme would approach me and demand my submission.
It felt like being a helpless gazelle being hunted by a lioness in the wild. I don’t know what it was but I just caved every single time. Never found out if there was a name for this kinda thing or if it was more common than I believed but I just wanted to share. Still have fond memories of my time as a finsub and enjoy talking about it from time to time.
Anyone else feel this way? Domme or sub
I wondered how all this could have changed in such a short time. The paypigs were obedient but not anymore.
getting really into the idea of incorporating chastity into a dynamic. I just think it'd be so frustrating and disempowering to be locked up like that, in the best possible way.
I cant say things i dont mean, its a struggle 😭😭 i love domination but if u ask me to call your cock big when its not, i just cant
I‘d love if some experienced (and inexperienced) dommes could share how they feel abt it and if there‘s anything i should add/improve<3