u/naughty_seccubus

The amount of subs who have bad experiences because of Dommes who enter the community without research or empathy is literally insane. Many Dommes will complain about the low amount of subs in recent days yet a lot of them are the same reason so many may leave the community.

the following is just my opinion.

if you're a Domme into blackmail you should not actually get upset and use the info against them. people who do not consent to participate in the kink should not be involved and many revenge Dommes target outside parties of the subs life.

If a sub makes you aware they aren't able to send more or it would affect their actual life such as job,home,or family you should not keep draining them I get that some of them are highly into it but some of them just like the fantasy this is why safe words are so important.

I'm not sure how many Dommes do irl sessions but if it's a bondage session and you're not properly knowledgeable on the bdms equipment you may seriously hurt someone. I bring this up because of the amount of new Dommes who would like to do irl meets. Just because a sub says they want to be dominated and give you money doesn't mean that's the intention as well there was a Domme who was jumped by a group of men while doing a meet with a sub whom she frequently worked with.

Dommes you are Goddess and you do deserve a lot but if your a new Domme or a Domme who had been around for awhile and didn't do your research properly please just take some time and do a deep dive. You may see subs as below you and a lot of you may see subs as mer objects however they are still human and they do have needs and emotions. The male suicide rate is high. a very large amount of homeless is the result of addiction and findom is also an addiction.

and if that's not enough to convince some

If your sub doesn't have gas for work how will he continue to spoil you?

if your sub isn't able to eat for weeks how would he have the strength or brain function to work?

kinks and fetishes are fun but they should be indulged in responsibility don't be the reason you or anyone else come to real harm. I hope your all having a good day 🩵

Genuine question about throne posted in paypigs but didn't get many replies as I hopped just looking for some insight

what do you prefer to send/receive on throne and is it easier for you to send cash or gifts?

I have been absent from my social media presence for a bit as I focus on my main subs and do drains here and there. I took a small break and on my return I got a few new subs whom use throne more then my other subs since they are closer to me I allow them to have my personal payment methods.

I highly appreciate gifts but a very very common issue I have been coming across is subs and the extra shipping fee that throne ads I try to stay within my subs budget since I'm the type that doesn't want them going hungry just to send me a gift. I have them set on a findom/personal needs/saving type of thing and I feel very bad when I add cash gifts to my throne and on my end it says maybe 30 for lunch but they pay more. cash gifts also take very long to pay out sometimes and sometimes faster but I like showing my subs they gifts they give me and sometimes this is inconvenient for timing.

I had also had many "drain" subs contact me and complain about the higher prices of throne however I can't control that it adds extra if we have an agreement for how much I receive and I receive less I feel as if it's not fair. but I also don't know when it's over charging them to send and that may also not be fair. I'm a bit more experienced with irl dynamics and I try my hardest to make the online ones just as healthy and organized pls Dommes give me your insight and I'd appreciate knowing how your subs feel about it as well.

what do you prefer to send on throne and is it easier for you to send cash or gifts?

I have been absent from my social media presence for a bit as I focus on my main subs and do drains here and there. I took a small break and on my return I got a few new subs whom use throne more then my other subs since they are closer to me I allow them to have my personal payment methods.

I highly appreciate gifts but a very very common issue I have been coming across is subs and the extra shipping fee that throne ads I try to stay within my subs budget since I'm the type that doesn't want them going hungry just to send me a gift. I have them set on a findom/personal needs/saving type of thing and I feel very bad when I add cash gifts to my throne and on my end it says maybe 30 for lunch but they pay more. cash gifts also take very long to pay out sometimes and sometimes faster but I like showing my subs they gifts they give me and sometimes this is inconvenient for timing.

I had also had many "drain" subs contact me and complain about the higher prices of throne however I can't control that it adds extra if we have an agreement for how much I receive and I receive less I feel as if it's not fair. but I also don't know when it's over charging them to send and that may also not be fair.