r/chastitytraining

My gf has confessed that she wants to lock me up and maybe cuck me. We have been together for around 2 years and she has complained lots of times that i can’t pleasure her because of my size, i have never once in our relationship been able to make her orgasm and now she wants me to get locked up in chastity. I have watched a couple of videos involving chastity and cuckolding and im kind of into it but i feel like i need some advice for it!.

I found this one locked up tight after a weekend-long "no release" rule-strictly enforced, no exceptions. The worst part? I caught him trying to sneak a quick rub against the bedpost, and all I could do was laugh while he whined about how much worse it'd be next time. Now he's insists he's learned his lesson, but I'm not buying it. What's the cruelest way you've let them come-or more importantly, the cruelest way you've *made them wait*? I need fresh ideas for next time his self-control cracks.

long story short, there's 2 reasons I wanna get in a cage.

1. I think its hot to let your wife control you like that. I wouldn't want anyone else to know or to be a cuck or anything.

2. I'm a gooner. To the point its almost like an addiction. My wife doesn't know, i'm a gooner. I think this will help me get out of that habit.

My wife is pretty vanilla, we do have an amazing sex life, when I don't fuck it up. Sometimes I can't preform (not finish) due to my gooning addiction.

also, can you wear it while working out? i'm a bit of a gym rat.

I assume like normal activities are ok? I work in a office so it shouldn't be to bad once I get used to it.

Any advice?

So my trans friend has been low-key obsessed with chastity for a while now, and in typical friend fashion, she randomly brought it up again the other day and basically said "I want to put you in chastity." Thing is, I’m already kinda curious about it after seeing some of the posts here, but I’m also pretty hesitant about the idea of someone else controlling something that personal. Plus, she’s the type to turn everything into a power play if she gets the chance. Anyone here ever been convinced by a friend to give this a shot, or is this just a bad idea? I don’t want to mess up a friendship over something like this.

I’m talking about like wearing a cycling kit and trying to be bent forward to be aerodynamic. I want to but I feel like the bottom of my ring lines up with where I’d normally rest my bottom if that makes sense

Looking to buy my first chastity cage. When soft I am around 4 inches in length (around 100mm.) would you reccomend me go for a 72mm cage or 90mm in length??

I recently bought a new chastity device that attaches to the head of the penis, without any rings around the base of the penis and testicles.

Anyone have experience with this style.

I have had difficulties with testicle ring devices , with my testicles always retracting back away from the ring. This has occurred repeatedly, even with larger or smaller rings.

Love to hear mid and long term experience from others.

Just got locked up for the first time today - fingers crossed my partner keeps me this way! I was nervous about the adjustment, but honestly, the mental shift is already insane. Anyone else find that the first few hours are the weirdest? Kinda weirdly proud of myself though, haha.

I (Danish M23) am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend (Korean F22).

I wonder if any of you have experience with long distance chastity, or have any ideas of how to make it work. We visit each other for 2-4 months per year, and have been together for 2 years.

But my main question is how I should even bring up the idea to her, or what I should watch out for.

I’m her first partner and she is quite inexperienced with sex, but she’s slowly getting interested in doing more and more things.

Though it isn’t really a huge issue, my libido is quite a bit higher than hers. And I thought that maybe giving her full control over my sexual pleasure, could turn the wrong kind of sexual frustration into the right kind of sexual frustration. If you know what I mean ;)

And the thing is, even though she is still a bit timid and new to sex, she *does* really like anal play (on me). And sometimes when she is riding me and I’m about to cum, she teases me by hovering above my dick and staying there, with her pussy just lightly touching my tip. She clearly enjoys seeing me helplessly try to thrust up into her while whimpering, her pulling away just enough so I can’t enter her. The way she smiles at me and says “stay!” As if I was a dog, is insanely hot to m

I'm currently locked for 2 days 1 day without and then 2 days on again.

I have a really inexpensive one like 60$ or so and now I'm looking for a better one for longer wear that doesn't create as much skin irritation.

I bought a chastity cage training set off Amazon to start with and try to determine my proper size. I am about 4 - 5 inches hard but I am overweight and my gut puts pressure on my penis causing it to retract inside me while soft. Because of this, no matter what size I use I am still able to escape from the bottom of the cage.

Would you recommend I try getting a flat cage so it will keep my penis compressed against me?

Would that solve the problem?

Some back round I have been into chastity for a few years now and my longest lock time was about 4 weeks with no issues. I have a stainless steel good fitting cage I can still squeeze out of it if I need to. But recently I had to take a break because I would get a terrible itch then would lead to bleeding. Do I need to use different time of lubricant? I usually use lotion, but have used coconut oil, have used baby oil before. Or do I need a smaller fitting ring? I want to do longer lock times but can’t because of the itching.

Any advice would be amazing!!

so I have a cage with one of the bent rings. I use the 1.8" ring cause if I go to then 1.7" it is way to tight. my balls keep popping up between the cage and ring is there something I can do too help prevent that?

Has anyone got any recommendations for a belt please? To keep the ring nice and close to the body. Preferably UK available.

Thanks.

Hola a todos, bueno en resumen, pareja con 24 años juntos (tenemos 40, iniciamos a los 16). Una buena vida sexual, poca experiencia con otras parejas, casi nada, hemos ido a bares Swinger pero sin intercambio, es decir hemos sido muy soft.

Personalmente (yo soy el hombre) me han atraído varias cosas

1. un trío (fmf).
2. Trío. (mfm).
3. Intercambio.
4. Soft swinging.
5. Cuckolding.

Pero jamás hemos hecho nada.

Hoy en día, y desde hace varios meses me ha itersedado la castidad y que ella sea mi keyholder, ella es muy dominante en la relación, y me gusta mucho la idea de darle ese poder de ser mi dueña en ese sentido.

Pero no se bien de que va esto, como deberíamos empezar, como se usa (todo el tiempo, solo en ocaciones, etc).

Gracias, me encanta el erotismo de estas relaciones, ver los reddit de las parejas, como usan sus llaves en público, etc, me encantaría vivir algo así.

Gracias por leerme y gracias por sus consejos.

I have been self locking for nearly 20 years now, ever since the cb2000 hit the market and chastity became affordable. I have tried dozens of devices over the years, but have never found a cage which prevents pull out.

Ive never lived with a keyholder, and I have never been able to last more than a couple of weeks without pulling out the back.

Even if the cage is still locked onto my balls, and I resist masterbating, just the freedom of being able to sleep a night where I can get hard has always been too tempting.

I don't have a keyholder at the moment, but still play using a lockbox and chaster. However it seems pointless to attempt longer than a couple of weeks when I can't resist cheating.

A piercing would be the solution, but it seems strange to consider when I don't a keyholder, or any sort of relationship at all at the moment.

Has anyone else considered a piercing purely for their own piece of mind rather than for a dominant?

I have never had any body modifications or even tattoos and not really sure if I can work up the courage to walk into a parlour and ask for a chastity piercing just out of the blue without any encouragement or support. It just seems like it would be a strange and weird thing to do.

Hi, i am M28. I would say i am more or less vanilla and i don’t have a lot of experience with chastity. The fact that i am single now gives me al lot of opportunity to experiment a bit. So i want to do a chastity challenge and see what is happening. Interesting for me would be the impact of chastity on behaviour or sexual preferences. Today is day 1, last time of orgasm was yesterday. Wish me luck

Hello all! I have been doing chastity off and on for some time now, but I problem I have yet to solve is keeping it in place when I get hard. If I go soft case like silicone, I just push my way out, if I go hard like plastic, then it gets pain very quickly. Complicating this is the fact that I am quite the grower (big difference between soft and hard). If I go large enough to fit when hard, it means the other 99% of the time I have other issues. Any advice on practices or types to use to help me with this?

Wish me good luck 🤗 Just started to go in to chastity for 5 full days. My girl likes it to safe my cum just for her. ❤️

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