How do I introduce the idea of chastity to my girlfriend?
I (Danish M23) am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend (Korean F22).
I wonder if any of you have experience with long distance chastity, or have any ideas of how to make it work. We visit each other for 2-4 months per year, and have been together for 2 years.
But my main question is how I should even bring up the idea to her, or what I should watch out for.
I’m her first partner and she is quite inexperienced with sex, but she’s slowly getting interested in doing more and more things.
Though it isn’t really a huge issue, my libido is quite a bit higher than hers. And I thought that maybe giving her full control over my sexual pleasure, could turn the wrong kind of sexual frustration into the right kind of sexual frustration. If you know what I mean ;)
And the thing is, even though she is still a bit timid and new to sex, she *does* really like anal play (on me). And sometimes when she is riding me and I’m about to cum, she teases me by hovering above my dick and staying there, with her pussy just lightly touching my tip. She clearly enjoys seeing me helplessly try to thrust up into her while whimpering, her pulling away just enough so I can’t enter her. The way she smiles at me and says “stay!” As if I was a dog, is insanely hot to me.
But anyways… I know I can just talk to her, and I will tomorrow. I just wanted to bring it by this sub and see if you had any thoughts or ideas.