r/SexToys

I live with roommates and I have an Evolova Electric Sex Doll. I really enjoy the sucking function on it, feels amazing. The only downside is it makes some noise. It’s not super loud, but if it’s quiet you can definitely hear it.

When I use it, I usually leave the door open a bit and I can still hear the doll sucking on my cock from the hallway. So I always put on headphones and play porn to cover the sound.

I put the doll on the bed and just go to town on it. My balls are slapping against it, her wet pussy lips are squeezing out lube everywhere. I’m enjoying the hell out of it, but at the same time I’m constantly listening for any sounds outside the room. It’s super exciting but also kinda scary .

So I decided to get a dildo because every time I masturbate I feel a sort of lack and not truly satisfied. I’ve had my vibrator, my first toy ever, for two years and it’s just not cutting it anymore (maybe it did for very briefly in the beginning).

But I’m not very good at inserting anything, I can barely fit two fingers and it always feels weird, momentarily good but most times weird.

I’m just wondering if there’s any tips on how to properly use a toy like that? Ik that virginity is a construct but I’m so afraid of my hymen breaking (if I have one) and bleeding a lot. I’m also wondering if there’s a website where I can get informed/get actual guides on how to use a dildo for the first time ever since I’m so nervous. I have lube and I have my vibrator but honestly I’m so scared (excited too)

I’m all over the place, hope I’m making sense!

Hello Iv spent tons of money on different toys and hated them however I always end up buying the nu bullets however after like 7-8 years it’s just not cutting it no more plus these newer ones don’t last long at all. And even tho THEY sell them on Amazon they refuse to honor their warranty unless it’s from their website now. My original lasted 6 years…. I bought 7 since that one broke because they keep breaking or just stop working plus the price keeps going up even tho quality is going down. So I’m looking for something similar to the shape and size of that. But with more power please. I’m not really a fan of the pulsing I like the straight through setting. Must be rechargeable 😩bonus points for being pretty and under 50 lol

As a women I love a good anal session but haven’t ever experienced an anal orgasm without manual stimulation. I’m intrigued to hear whether anyone has achieved this level and whether there are some toys that might help?

Hello I was looking for peoples opinion on the milk it v2s. I’m interested in it but I’m not too comfortable with the firm on the milk it v2 as it’s only in the firmest option. I have tried the regular milk it and the kidney but warming up to a plug was just too much for me. I just wanted one I can put in without a warm up. I am open to suggestions but I can only handle 1.3-1.7cm diameter. Thank you

I’m looking for everyone’s favorite nipple toys. Any type any size any price etc I want to know everyone’s favorites and recommendations pls

I (M 21) am buying my first toy. I am really nervous about the process. I have some cash and I am going to buy a prepaid visa to get a decent dildo and some lube from online. I know the packaging is discreet, but I am struggling with finishing the process. If the package arrives before I am able to be home, some problems could arise.

I still live with my family, and I am worried about them finding out. My dad orders general packages all the time, so there may be a chance he could just see a package and open it. If that happens I would have some awkward explaining to do. He would also probably not approve of my purchase due to him be kinda old. Same with my mom. Add on top of the fact that I dont order a lot of packages in the first place, and that could trigger a lot of questions I don't really want to confront.

I'm an introvert and would prefer the online purchase over the in-person one. I am just curious to see what anyone else would do? Should I just say fuck it and watch for the delivery truck like a hawk and lie my ass off, or is there something else better I can do.

I appreciate any and all advice.👍

I'm looking to loosen my ass up and I've got my eyes on a trio set of Nexus anal training plugs

I'm looking around and they say they're made from silicone, which is good but they don't mention what kind of silicone its made from.

How do I know these are safe before I buy? Is Nexus plugs safe at all?

So I am heading out for six months for a contract job and my partner is staying behind. We are trying to keep things alive but honestly phone sex is starting to feel like a bad rerun. It is fine for a bit but after a few weeks you kind of run out of things to say you know?

We are thinking about grabbing some long distance toys to mix it up. I have seen a few things from Bellesa that have remote control features and the designs actually look nice. Does anyone know if those actually work over long distances or does the app crash every five minutes? Because the last thing I want is to be all worked up and then spend ten minutes trying to fix a connection issue. Aside from Bellesa I also looked at We Vibe which has some app enabled options. But I have seen pretty mixed reviews about connectivity dropping out and that worries me.

What I really need is something that just works. We are going to be in different time zones so when we finally find a window to connect I do not want to waste it fighting with technology. Also good battery life would be great because nothing kills the mood like a toy dying halfway through.

Would love to hear what has actually worked for other couples doing long distance. Which brands have the most stable apps and which ones should I just avoid altogether? Just trying to get this right before I pack my bags.

I’m trying to find a stroker that for the life of me I can’t find used by someone in a video on Twitter which sub would be good for trying to find it? (Asking because of rule against nudity)

hey all, looking for some advice on what i might be doing wrong 😅

i bought a satisfyer pro 2 gen 3 a couple weeks ago, exchanged a standard bullet vibrator for it, and since then i've tried it about 4 times.

i've looked up all the advice people give (i.e. make sure youre super in the mood, use lube, start lowest and slowly increase, hold it perfectly still etc.) and i must be doing something wrong, or its my anatomy (my kitty's on the larger side) because not only are the O's not that good, it takes me a whiiile, it took me nearly an hour today 😭 people keep saying it takes less than 5 minutes, even seconds!

the main thing is my previous vibrator worked like a charm, i only exchanged it since it stopped charging. i heard the rave reviews for the satisfyer and it hasnt met the bar my vibrator set so far! i did have *one* O with it that was really great, but it was overwhelming so i immediately moved the toy, which made the O very brief. the couple tries ive had since left me with average O's.

i don't wanna buy a new one since i'm saving my money for driving lessons right now, so any advice as to how i can make this thing work wonders is greatly appreciated! 🫶

I’m a 21(F) year old virgin and have never used one before. I’ve been interested in maybe trying one for a while now but just don’t know what to buy or how to use it. I have been interested in sex for a few years even though I’ve decided to wait for marriage but I don’t want to go into it not knowing about my body and needs and whatnot. I would love all your thoughts, advice, opinions, etc.!

My girlfriend likes metal plugs (the feel and easier to clean) but the wider circular bases they come with suck. She likes the curved base that silicon plugs have, but we can’t find any metal ones that have that curved base. Does anyone know of any, preferable from reputable companies?

Hey there! After one-too-many bruised cervixes with regular straps, I got my partner The Squire to try out, and its become my FAVORITE thing. As much as I love it, though, I can already tell that the STP makes it much more fragile than a traditional toy even with the rod. While we obviously clean and sanitize it thouroughly before and after, I very much don't like the idea of the opening from a health and safety standpoint. So, I'm looking for another toy to replace it in the bedroom.

-Length: Ideally between 3.5 and 4.5 inches, with 4 around the sweet spot.

-Width: 1.5 to 2 inches diameter, or about 4.75 to about 6.25 inches in circumference. I'd honestly love to know about any thicker ones, if they exist, as well.

-Firmness: Soft. Besides its size, The Squire is the softest toy I've tried, and its so so lovely. I'm curious about dual density, as it sounds kind of like the same effect of the rigid rod and super soft silicone.

-Shape: Not especially curved.

-No preference at all for texture, realism, color, or price range. I'd prefer ready-to-ship over custom order because I'm impatient, but if you have any custom ones you'd suggest, I'm all ears.

-Shopping from the US (with easy access to Canada)

Looking for a great 1,5-2inch diameter dildo with a cum tube that I can use for anal play and replicate an anal creampie (ideally fits on a fuck machine). Any recommendations? Thank you!

I (M20) have planned a full "adventure" day for my girlfriend, and I’d love to hear what you guys think of the itinerary. It’s all about building tension and keeping her on the edge in public.

The Setup

I’ve made her a custom box. The top layer is filled with candy, but the bottom layer contains the real "game."

The First Mission: She’ll find a voucher for a new pair of panties. We’ll head to a shop where she has to pick them out herself—the only rule is they must be light grey. She isn't allowed to show me which ones she chose yet.

The Gear: For the drive there, the box also contains a new Lovense Ferri and her Lush 4. She gets to decide if she wants to wear just the Ferri or both at the same time.

The Change: Once she buys the panties, she has to put them on immediately. That’s when she gets the next clue: we’re heading to the cinema.

The Cinema Tasks

Once we are settled in the theater, I’ll take control of the toys for a bit. Then, the tasks begin:

The Proof: She has to go to the restroom, take some spicy photos, and tease herself. When she returns, she has to let me smell her fingers at our seats as proof.

The Taste Test: Later in the movie, she has to use her fingers while sitting next to me, followed by a "taste test" right there in the dark.

Her Turn: To keep it interesting, I’ll let her set a task for me.

The Documentation: Before leaving, she heads back to the restroom to take photos of herself holding the grey panties in her hand—but she puts them back on for now.

The Grand Finale & Commando Twist

We’ll take a walk through the city where she’ll have to find a spot to let me quickly lick her pussy.

Then, we head back to the car. This is where she has a choice: give me a blowjob or masturbate me using her panties. After this, the panties stay off. She’ll be commando for the rest of the night, including when we go out for dinner.

The night ends back at home for "Round 2" in bed.

What do you think? Any tips on how to handle the "taste test" in the cinema without getting caught?

Recently purchased my first sex machine. I ended up decent on the Cyclops XL from Orgasm Alley. I got the strap system since none of my toys are VACULOCK - straps done hold anything at all. I’m pretty disappointed because I really didn’t want to get specific attachments for the machine but I may. I have a feeling VACULOCK is the only way to go. Has anyone had luck with straps?

Has anyone traveled with toys to GCC countries and had the item confiscated or searched. I’m from there and I’m going to travel with my dad so I really don’t want my toys to be confiscated or at least searched in front of him. And how should I pack it if I bought a new one and kept it in its Amazon box if the open my bags they would open it? It’s not going to be in my carry on or anything like that but I haven’t been to GCC in long time so I don’t remember the process