r/BullPsychology

Bulls, what are some of the nastiest things you love saying or hearing when dicking down another man's woman?

Edit: wow. 1 comment and like 10 chat requests with “advice”/offers in 10 minutes. Im asking for advice, and i would love to get it. Here. Not in DM, that Im def. not going to answer…

After a year of discussing this, we (I) have my very first vibe-check with a bull tomorrow. Although I have the blessing from hubby to take things further, I doubt I will on the first meeting.

Hubby wants me to be 100% present and not focus on texting updates or pictures constantly, and I like that, although I appreciate that the wait might be hard for him.

My question: From a bulls perspective, is there a good way to update/involve hubby that doesn’t leave awkward interruptions or removes focus? What would be your preferred way of communicating (or not communicating) with hubby on a first meeting, assuming it doesn’t lead to more that day and that you dont have a direct line of communication to the hubby as a bull?

Ok so this is a weird one. I just have no one or place to say this to really say this to.

Basically for as long as I can remember I have loved cuckold/NTR porn. There’s a joke in the hentai community about how everyone hates NTR because people typically imagine themselves as the cuck. I’m the exact opposite, have always love loved loved that porn because I’ve always imagined myself as the bull. The idea of stealing someone’s girl (in fantasies) or IRL having her sexually prioritize me over her partner, the person that she loves, because I can just give her something so primal that her husband can’t so she’s willing to break convention/tradition (monogamy) to be with me. The idea gets me so hard/turn off. Even in my sex life I am into very degrading, and cruel stuff; psychological humiliating is one of my favorite kinks.

All of this sounds great, until I realize that I will never be one because I don’t exactly match the physical description for a bull. I used to think being a bull was psychological and I’m sure it is but there also seems to be certain physical requirements that just come along with the territory, like height and size. As someone who is neither (5’7 with an average size) it’s hard to imagine anyone taking me seriously as a bull. Especially since size superiority/comparison/humiliation is one of the cornerstones of bulling. And in pretty sure the height also helps reinforce that. So I guess unless I find a midget couple with a micro, but other than that I just don’t see how this would ever work for someone who was genetically “gifted” certain qualities.

I’m not asking for advice on how to find a couple or anything like that. I know this isn’t a looking for sub. (Although if you had any tips or suggestion for my situation I wouldn’t say no, even if that advice is just “tough luck, try to get whatever satisfaction from porn you can and try to be happy” lmao.) And I honestly have never tried given what I mentioned. IDK I just felt like this would be one of the few place that would at least somewhat understand what I’m feeling.

To all the bulls, are you worried about getting the wife pregnant? Or does that make it even hotter for you? Or would it put you off if you know the wife wants babies and is not on the pill?

online, safe, easy to talk to bulls

title, how to find them..and also hung like bbc bwc.. and photogenic and pleasant to talk to.. ?

why is it so hard to find... just curious to experiment a bit..

Edit: I forgot to mention she has a limit to 20 to 35 yo only around our age. and yeah feel free to text if u like.

I recently wrote to this subreddit about my growing infatuation with our bull and his amazing cock. You can find the post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/BullPsychology/s/udym7fAnAW

My wife encouraged me to ask our bull and then actually beg to suck his cock. He indulged me for a few minutes but he’s not bi and really not into it. My wife loves getting fucked by him and I don’t want to make her break off an arrangement that works really well for us besides the cock sucking issue.

We discussed me finding a bull to serve on my own. My question is would bulls be into a dynamic with just a cuck? My wife wants to remain loyal to our current bull so she would likely never be involved. I’m imagining serving a bull as his oral slut/slave and possibly more but not sure a true bull would be open to this kind of arrangement.

Hello everyone! I would like to ask about your experience. When did you have a cuckold session, did husbands smoke weed? What is your attitude to this and how would you react to it?

My girlfriend and I discussed this moment. I really want to smoke weed during her sex with a bull to relax and enjoy even more. He prefers to be sober or slightly drunk during this. Am I interested in your experience? And what consequences can there be for lifestyle?

1. You're single. you're just a dude obsessed with Bulls and wasting Bull's time.

2. You're girl isn't fucking bulls. You're just a dude obsessed with Bulls and wasting Bull's time.

Also, don't make this about you. Sit back and enjoy the show if you're allowed to watch. You're not owed anything. I'm there for your wife's pussy, not to placate your ego dude.

Think of it like a baseball game. Grab a seat, enjoy some popcorn and if you're lucky we'll go extra innings.

While I’m with my cuckold couple, we usually have music playing in the background—it helps set the tone before anything even begins. I’m South Indian, they’re Punjabi, so our tastes don’t always match—but one night, while I was playing a few tracks, one song caught her attention. She kept asking for it, replaying it… clearly something about it was getting to her.
I didn’t think much of it then—until a few days later, in the middle of a workday, she texted me out of nowhere, insisting I come over that afternoon. It wasn’t planned, and I hesitated, but after checking with her husband, I went.
When things started building, she played that same song again, so I asked her why that one—and she didn’t answer right away. She paused, like she was reliving it, and told me that earlier that day it had come on while she was working. The moment it started, she said something just shifted—her focus slipped, that familiar feeling came back, and she didn’t really try to stop it. She just sat with it… and eventually it became too much to ignore, which is why she texted me right then.
We had that song on loop the entire time, and she seemed unusually drawn into it—more absorbed in the rhythm than anything else, like the music had taken on its own role in the moment. Later, when her husband got back and heard it, he paused for a moment—you could tell he understood exactly what it meant. Even now, every time I hear that track, it takes me straight back to that moment… funny how a single song can condition desire like that. Maybe Pavlov really knew what he was talking about.
Due to platform guidelines, I can’t post the link to the song here. It’s a Telugu track with a mix of Telugu and English lyrics, built on a very sensual beats that fits the whole memory I described. If you’re curious enough, hit me up in DMs and I’ll share the YouTube link with you. And I’m genuinely curious—do you have a song that instantly takes you back to a moment like this?