Hello there.

We are a german couple looking for a mistress to dominate us. We are both ratger submissive and love to be controlled.

Details can be discussed in Chat. But we love bondage, edging, orgasm control and chastity.

please contact us if you are interested. German as language would be very nice!

Hi,

I am a 38 year old Dom from the UK seeking an online only submissive. I'm 6 ft. 2 with short brown hair, brown eyes and clean shaven. I don't claim to have a six pack but do attend the gym regularly and try to look after myself.

I am married and she doesn't know if that is not for you I understand and thank you for your time.

I will be upfront because of my situation I will not be sharing photos I will however expect photos as proof of completion of tasks.

I am looking for a submissive who is happy to chat about everyday life as well as kink. I like to get to know people and what makes them tick.

I am not available 24 hours a day at the drop of a hat and do not expect a submissive for be either we both have lives outside or any dynamic.

My kinks include degradation, orgasm control, watersports and public play among others.

My limits are blood, knives, anything illegal and age play.

If you have any questions or just want to chat drop me a message.

J

If you want to be owned and trained to be a good obedient toyboy then you should definitely consider messaging me ;)

I am looking for athletic guys willing to make sure that i will always be pleased happy and wet whenever and however I want it and you would happily comply just to make sure I'm satisfied like the good sub you are! I will make sure to train you so that you eventually will fit all my needs!

I prefer experienced toys but don't mind training serious newbies as well Kinks include joi/cumcontrol, edging, tease and denial, cbt etc Limits are mostly the obvious ones

Don't be shy and hit me up if you want to be that sub for me soon and maybe we can make it work for both of us;)

Hello! I’m a soft Dom based in the UK, looking for a submissive partner to build a caring D/s dynamic with.

I’m passionate about creating structure through consistent routines, gentle discipline when needed, and plenty of rewards for good behaviour. I particularly enjoy exploring this through DDLG or ABDL elements (I’m happy to go either way).

I already have a high chair for feedings with or without added restraints and I’m more than happy to provide diapers, a changing mat, fresh bottles, and anything else needed to help you feel safe and cared for. Bring your colouring books and crayons. We can cuddle up and watch cartoons together.

I believe in taking things slow, a proper slow burn, so we can build real trust and emotional connection before moving into deeper surrender and regression. While this is a D/s dynamic with very few limits, my priority right now is developing a genuine, caring relationship first. We can explore other kinks together naturally once that foundation is strong.

No prior experience is necessary, just genuine curiosity and a sincere desire to submit.

**What I am looking for:**

* I am looking for a girl that is chatty, likes to talk daily.

* A girl that isn't overly jealous as I do talk to other girls aswell.

* A girl that actually wants a connection and not just a quick fix.

* As for figure, it's not as important, but please don't lie about it to my face, honesty will get you further.

**About me**

I'm Slade, 27yo guy from Sweden, I was previously a baker, education took 3 years but it wasn’t for me. So now I'm studying again, this time to become a 3d artist to hopefully one day make video games.

And my main hobby revolves around gaming, I spend most of my free time playing games, and since not everyone is interested in that, ask me what games I like.

I am slim 6'1 built but still fit, but no massive gym dude. I have brown hair, goatee and blue eyes.

As for what I like sexually, here are some of my kinks, not listed in any particular order.

Bdsm, bondage, BBW, blowjob, sloppy, deepthroating, spanking, praise, dirty talk, obedience, petplay, roleplay, control, overstimulation, denial, degrading, objectifying, among others

And if you managed to get this far in the post and I haven't scared you off yet and feel like shooting a message, start it with 98 so I know how far you read, thank you.

Do you crave the feeling of belonging to someone? the type where you can be in your most depraved state without any limitations or judgement, just full acceptance from both sides.
Submitting yourself to that man emotionally and physically and make him happy by pleasing him and him only, knowing that he'd take care of your needs without it being actually transactional.

I am looking for someone that is trustworthy and willing to work towards absolutely loyalty towards me (which I will do to in return), and work towards an unique relationship where you'll be tied up, spanked (too hard) and experience intense forms of submission (ofcourse with safewords) emotionally and physically in the bedroom (or wherever else you crave), and once we have served each others purpose and lay on the bed with post nut clarity, you'll receive the sweetest forms of aftercare through forehead kisses and praise if you've been a very good girl.

I purposely did not put in any titles such as 'masters/daddy/king' because everybody likes something else, so lets talk about it.

Must haves:
- Strong communicatively
- Takes care of herself
- Open minded and considerate enough.
- Really craves that D/s power dynamic
- Is a real pleaser (this way we will try to outdo each other regarding pleasing, because I'm also a pleaser)
- Determined, and does not only wants put effort when she craves it.
- Knows what she wants and communicates it

Bonus:
- Loves audio & voice messages (I love to tell you what to do & and can send the most seductive voicemessages that you can listen to at inappropriate places so you will always be reminded that you're hooked to me)
- Knows how to want space and give space when needed (we are adults with our own lives)
- Animal lover
- Wants to cook & bake delicious things together
- Wants to have cozy gaming nights where we can start our own BG3 campaign, or whatever else (got a giant steam library)
- Would like to go work towards something beautiful together irl

About me:
I'm a 30 year old guy from The Netherlands, I'm born and raised here but I do have a Mediterranean background and come from a warm and welcoming culture.

I'm 182cm tall, tanned a bit, have wavey brown hair and piercingly dark brown eyes, I have a pretty active lifestyle and love to hike and to gym and am pretty muscular/slim and am manly looking in general. Some people perceive me as a assertive & authoritative person, but that's just because of how I look and how I can come over. But I'm actually very playfully goofy and have a sarcastic humor, but I do have a serious dominant side that doesn't take shit from people so you'll have best of both worlds.
I do have quite some experience with BDSM and other kinky relationships, and know how to actually build.
It is something that takes time, exploration and tons of communication which is sometimes the tricky part, but I'm a very communicative and a descriptive person in general. I've kinda explored a lot of my sexuality so I have an idea of what I want and the things I still want to explore more.
I'm a lowkey a people pleaser (regardless of how bossy I can be sometimes), so I'm more of a pleasure dom and can be very intimate and caring besides being very rough and boundary pushing.
I enjoy doing things my own way, so my approach can sometimes be perceived as orthodox, regardless of how depraved and intense our sessions will be, I will ALWAYS make sure that there is gentle and cozy aftercare. (with the sweetest kisses on the forehead if you've been a good girl)
But before I can embrace this, there needs to be some type of click between us.

I'm a calm, respectful and emotionally developed dude with deep rooted sexually depravities.
So feel free to dm me if you're interested in going on a serious dopamine filled adventure.

ps; consent is always king.

Hello, I'm a 29yo french guy, usually a Dom but I am willing to try the sub side for a while now. I am experienced as a Dom but quite new to being a sub.

I will obey everything you tell me, open to bladder/piss play, anal, edging, food play, light choke/spank/slaps and more. Feel free to ask me if you have other kinks you would like to try ;) I want to be turned mindless from all the edging and be a bit filthy. I am open to buy things if I need to. I really want it to be praise and respect based, it is really important for me. I am open to send pics without my face. I love to worship as well and have a sweet spot for feets.

It would be really great if you agree to have a voice call and make me beg as well.

Let me know if you want to play with me 🥰

I’m a total airhead that luv 2 serve men. Men r so smart and always no what’s best 4 me. My head hurts 2 much wen I trys 2 thinx.

I luv cock and pleasing men and want 2 b the prettiest sexiest fuckdoll there is 2 best pls men and 2 b porn 4 men

Willing 2 relocate and willing 2 change my body 2 make cocks hard and b so pretty

Hello!

i Hope this post finds you well And you are having a great Easter weekend;)

i am an intelligent, educated, attractive mature man, On the dominant side of the BDSM scale.

Ideally I’d like a connection, friendship plus, a connection.

I am also open for online - long distance.

A bit about me

Cute face, beautiful blue eyes, decently tall, fit, salt and pepper hairs, tattoos.
Nerdy, Musician, artsy, vegetarian, laid back, speak 3 languages fluently. ADHD and brillant. Love Animal ( especially dog) and I have got my s..together .

• some of my preferences -

Oral-receiving & giving, Dirty talk, breast fetish, toys, mutual masturbation, cock and cum worship, light impact play, restraint, TPE…

Looking forward to reading from you,

N

I am a 38-year-old married Dom from Poland. I’m looking for a submissive who values honesty, intelligence, and a strong long-term bond. I am body-positive and don't having problem to work across different time zones.

The Dynamic

I enjoy deep conversations, voice messages, and creative writing tasks. I want a partner who is comfortable being their unfiltered self. I am a patient mentor and happy to guide you, whether you are a beginner or experienced.

Kinks & Interests

I have a wide range of interests. You don't have to love everything on this list, but you should be open to new experiences:

Play: Roleplay, spanking, and humiliation.

Control: Chastity, cum control, and cum denial.

Physical: Anal play, anal/vaginal stretching, and fisting.

Tools: Rope play, dildo blowjobs, and deepthroat.

Your input: I am always open to your own suggestions and propositions.

Hard Limits:

No blood, scat, findom, or permanent marks/injuries.

Privacy: I respect your real life and we will move at a pace that feels safe for you.

How to Apply

If you are looking for a leader who values your loyalty and your pleasure, send me a message.

Please include:

• Your favorite song (so I know you read the whole post).

• Your ASL (Age/Sex/Location).

• Your kinks and limits.

• A little bit about who you are.

Hi! I'm a student looking for someone to guide me in the BDSM world! I'm looking for something genuine, monogamous and long term. I'm also quite inexperienced with both sexual and romantic things, so keep that in mind.

In my free time I like to read, play games and study. I don't expect you to match my interest, so dont worry

I'm (at least for now) brunette with hazel eyes, 164cm and an average weight, not super skinny, not overweight.

As for my kinks, feel free to ask about them in my DM any time you want. I also dont mind sharing photos early as long as you share one first :D

Looking to connect with someone who leads a conventional life. Someone who’s tough and dominant on the outside but has a weakness inside. A deep, persistent yearning that cannot be satisfied easily. The kind that has to be kept secret most of the time. Except when they’re with me.

With me you get to be soft, naked, vulnerable. You can give into your desire to be objectified, let go of control and surrender to your true purpose - pleasing me.

My type is masculine and fit, preferably muscular, clean face and someone who enjoys to show that off. Personality wise - respectful, diligent, affectionate. You should have interests and not be consumed by kink. I want us to converse like adults and take it beyond the superficial.

I’m based in Eastern Europe but enjoy talking to men from all over, English speaking countries preferred. Privacy for me is important therefore my face is off limits and I don’t reciprocate with media much. Voice messaging, on the other hand, I’m more than happy to entertain.

I hope we’ll speak soon.

Looking for a committed and serious women to enter in a 24/7 dynamic with, aiming for TPE.

I'm very open-minded and can ofc accommodate long-term. Located in southern Germany, I prefer if you are from within Europe (EU is easiest) or can travel as I cannot relocate.

To me: Experienced in the lifestyle for a bit over 10 years in various dynamics, aiming to take it to the next level. As the username and the title suggest, I'm the master / owner / degrader as type and hence into about all forms of power exchange, generally willing and able to lead in all aspects with the aim of this being very much a lifestyle and not a bedroom thingy. Very much into most forms of humiliation and degradation, but I like to discuss kinks in detailed in private, however you should expect it to be on the more nastier side and you can see what I can do to an ass on the pfp - but I do take great care of my subs and pride in my responsibility.

To you: I would prefer if you have at least some experience already, younger them me and can communicate clearly. You should be ready to commit. All else can be discussed in detail in private. In my experience it's body < mind, but I do prefer a more petite build and like you to be smaller or up to 170cm. Obedience should be a natural trait to you and I generally like to at least enjoy most of the lifestyle yourself. I can push and like to see you suffer in good way, but it's just a better turn-on if I can sense you are into it, too! Prefer the age range of 20-34.

The dynamic: again, this should be a lifestyle setup, with you being mainly a live-in/domestic slave. Your wishes and kinks will be included ofc. I like it to evolve more over time and push for getting deeper in terms of kinks and the power dynamic behind it. I got time and don't need you to pack your stuff and move tomorrow, trials are important. This is mainly mono but for transparency: I do have a sub I'm seeing. If you like a poly setup, do tell, I'm open to hear your take.

Kinks: Everything power exchange, nearly everything anal/ass play (not into scat) and humiliation/degradation, love it rough and sloppy, so you should love spit piss and cum play :>

Feel free to simply message me in reddit or leave me a contact to reach out. I speak English and German.

Cheers.

I'm a 42 years old Master, bored and very horny. Except kids and shit I think I'm limitless and I like a lot. But mostly really humilating and dirty things.

I'm looking for a girl who likes to help me and make my day less boring. So I want to abuse you online like the slut you are

This post might end up being a bit long and rambly as I’m really not amazing at articulating myself so I’m sorry if that’s the case, please make sure if you decide to reach out that you’ve read all of it, if you’re interested then please send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself and how you match what I’m looking for, I’m just trying to weed out very low effort messages because I get quite a lot of them!

A bit about Me:

I'm 22 and live just outside of London in the UK.

I'm childfree by choice and plan to get a vasectomy at some point in the future, I’m not sure when exactly I’ll get around to it but ideally sooner rather than later. Once I'm sterile, I'll be getting it tested every six months to be safe.

I'm 5'10 or 178 cm.

Right now I work in a pub, I enjoy it most of the time and it works for me right now while I’m just trying to save some money. I have a Computer Science degree, and my long-term goal is to be a software engineer, currently when I have time I try to just keep my programming skills fresh although it’s not a huge focus right now as I’m not looking to jump into a career type job just yet. I would not consider myself very career-oriented; while I want to do well for myself, I definitely value work-life balance the most.

I'm neurodivergent and quite introverted. I definitely value my quiet time, although I can be quite outgoing as well, I definitely enjoy socialising and going out for drinks although I wouldn’t say I drink much, one bad hangover basically put me off that for life lol, plus I’m just absolutely not the “laddy” type at all. I'd say I'm quite laid back and I have very little tolerance for things like yelling when it comes to a relationship at least so I'd like to say I'm good at communicating and working things out.

I'm financially literate and responsible with money (that being said most of my money right now is being saved for travelling), I hope to eventually retire early in the future.

I'm an atheist.

I like to travel. I haven't done too much yet, but I've been to seven countries, mostly in Europe. I've also been to the US and definitely want to go again in future. I’ve been to Germany 3 times as well and love it. Right now I don’t have a very clear idea of what my travel goals are, I did want to go to South East Asia for a few months at the end of the year but my recent trip to Germany taught me that I can’t really handle more than a week in hostel dorms at a time and staying in private rooms or hotels obviously pushes costs up, not to mention solo travelling can get a bit lonely if you don’t get lucky with meeting people you click with, so my plan for now is just to save money and see what happens, if I’m successful meeting someone on here then I’d absolutely love to go and do that trip with you, maybe after a shorter trip or holiday first otherwise I’ll likely just bite the bullet and go myself as I originally planned to. But in general there’s just so many places across the world I want to visit and explore I don’t know how you could fit them all into a lifetime but I (and we!) will certainly do our best. 

My long term goal is to live in a big city, I’m not necessarily picky on which city it just has to have a decent job market for tech.

I'm kinky. I have a very high sex drive and am definitely dominant. My experience is quite limited like admittedly i am a virgin but I do have some experience. Specific things I'm into, which I have experience with, are facefucking, throatpies, and rimming (both giving and receiving). Things I don't have experience with but want to try are anal, cockwarming etc. Ideally I'd like to wait until ive had a vasectomy to start having proper sex, I'm not really into ropes or anything like that, and I'm certainly not into degrading anyone or anything that would be considered "mean" like face slapping or anything. I don’t have any experience with it but I’d like to have a D/s type relationship although not like a strict one if you get what I mean so not like a dynamic where I have to make every decision and be in charge all the time but just generally I’d take the lead in the relationship but it would be pretty laid back.

I'm very affectionate. I can't get enough of cuddles, I'll absolutely tell you I love you constantly, compliment you, etc.

I would say I’m quite nerdy still although I barely play video games anymore however I’m trying to rediscover the love for them that I once had, I did have a PS5 for a while however i sold it to fund some travel plans that then fell through, i recently found my old PS4 so i've just been playing through Yakuza 0 trying to finally get the platinum trophy on it and eventually i want to do the whole series since I've loved the Yakuza series ever since i was a kid. I also used to watch a shit ton of horror movies when I was a kid and absolutely loved them, I could easily watch them without being scared or even flinching at jump scares but for some reason I find them terrifying now! 

I would like to get married eventually; however, I absolutely do not want to have a wedding. I know that's a bit forward to say right away, but I just want to make sure I'm not wasting anyone's time if that's something that's important to them. 

What I'm Looking For:

You're 18-25 years old and live in the UK or Anywhere else in the world although if you’re not in the UK then you’d need to be willing to relocate here, and you want to live in a big city in the future.

You're firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you’ve been sterilised or want to in the future that is a big plus but it's not a hard requirement.

You like to travel or want to in the future if you haven't done any travelling already, you’re open to longer periods of travelling in the future like travelling around Europe and going on extended trips to places like Asia, Australia and New Zealand, I would say I’m definitely at a stage of my life right now where I definitely want to focus on travel for a bit and do at least one or two extended trips before I settle into a career type job in a city and I definitely want to find someone with the same mindset so if you’re looking to get settled into a career right away then I’m likely not the best match for you, if you’re at university right now then that’s fine as long as you want to do some travelling later on and in the meantime we can do some shorter trips and of course visit each other if we happen to be long distance.

I'm open to people of any body type.

Ideally you're not a big pet person because i dont really want to have pets in the future.

You are not very family oriented.

You are not religious.

You don't smoke or take drugs.

You have a very high sex drive, just like me, are submissive and into the same kinks as me. You want a D/s dynamic like I described, I'm more than happy to guide you on the things I have experience with if you need and, of course, to explore new things together. 

Ideally, you're also introverted like me.

Like me, you're want to get married in the future but don't want a wedding/don't care about having one.

You have a calm personality and are a good communicator, as I said before I really do not like yelling in relationships so I'm looking for the type of relationship where we can just discuss everything calmly and work things out if we have an issue.

You are also a very affectionate person.

You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on building wealth and retiring early together.

You’re intelligent, confident, independent - and still, you want someone who will guide, discipline, and hold you accountable in a way that’s consistent, intentional, and unrelenting. I’m here for that.

I'm in the South, I love travel, football, laughing, making things and all things tech. You are nearby or eventually willing to consider relocating from wherever it is you are in the world.

I’m looking for a sub who is committed to me and I’m looking to extend the family, so you must be happy to join the commitment and be a part of the family together something real, structured, and consciously negotiated. I believe in clarity: setting expectations up front, agreeing on rhythms (especially for communication), and creating a shared vocabulary for connection, discipline, and growth. No ambiguity. No flaking. No performative nonsense.

You thrive on hierarchy, obedience training, and likely an amount of humiliation and degradation when paired with deep genuine affection. We’re different, that’s good. We thrive inside this container. I have a deep respect for the psychological and spiritual layers of power exchange. The moment when pain or humiliation tips into surrender, tips into obsession and love, when your overthinking falls away and your body becomes fully mine - that’s sacred. I don’t need you to have a high pain tolerance, I need you to derive joy and pleasure from pleasing.

I’m not looking for someone to “play a role.” I want someone real. Someone who fantasizes about being bent over the kitchen counter and spanked with a wooden spoon because she knows she needs to be reminded who she belongs to. Someone who sees the hike not just as exercise, but as foreplay - searching the ground for the right switch to bring home. Someone who gets that this is a practice, not just a kink. A release. A reckoning. Free use, a gift, a passion of yours to be fully of service.

I want you to take care of your body, to have meaningful relationship with my sub, to want to build something new and lasting. I keep myself healthy, grounded, and mentally clear. Hygiene is a given. So is emotional self-awareness. I don’t numb myself or pretend things are fine when they’re not. I don’t avoid tears, whether yours or mine.

This won’t work unless you’re ready to show up proactively. I want us to build toward something deeper. Something transformative. If that includes tears, bruises, resistance, surrender, and a bit of laughter.

I’m happy to discuss more in depth on private chat, we can get to know each other more.

Hey you 👋

Yes, you—the one who's bookmarked "girl-girl content" but still labels herself straight.

If you've ever caught yourself thinking "What if…?" and then immediately shoved the thought away because:

• "I'm probably just confused"
• "My friends would think it's a phase"
• "I've literally never touched a girl—what if I'm terrible at it?"

…then this post is for you.

Why I'm here (and why I get it)

I'm a 27 y/o woman from Europe. I've spent years understanding sexual curiosity—both studying it and living it. I remember the late nights wondering if something was "wrong" with me for being curious.

I'm not looking to convert anyone. I am looking to give one curious woman the safe, guided, zero-stakes space I wish I'd had.

What makes this special

I use edging.

If you've never been edged by someone else, it's a completely different experience than doing it alone. I'll talk you through building up, getting close, then stopping. We do that a few times.

When you finally cum, it's so much more intense. Theres something about having someone else control the pace—tell you when to stop, when to go—that makes it hit different.

You stay in control the whole time. I just... guide.

What we'd actually do

• Voice chat only – no video, no photos, no real names
• Start with a conversation – what you're curious about, what you're nervous about
• Watch something together – I share my screen, something soft and sensual, not made for the male gaze
• Optional guided edging – at your pace, completely optional (think audio erotica with a friend on the line)
• Full stop power – you can pause or end anything at any second. No questions asked

You, if this is calling to you

• 18–35, identify as straight, zero prior sexual/romantic experience with women
• Curious, maybe anxious, maybe excited—all feelings welcome
• Able to set aside 60–90 minutes in a quiet space (headphones recommended)

Built-in safety rails

• Religious? I grew up with that background and can hold space for "sin-free" framing if that helps you breathe easier
• Private – I'll delete our chat logs afterwards; you keep nothing that could out you
• First-time friendly – questions like "Where do I even start?" are 100% normal, and we'll laugh about them together

If your gut just did a little flip, send me a Reddit chat with the word "SPARK" so I know you read this far.

Tell me your timezone, your biggest worry, and one thing you are excited to explore.

I'll reply with no pressure—just a calm voice and an open mind.

Let's turn that what-if into a what-now, together 💜

Greetings! Thank you for clicking on my post, im 28 and from England UK (southern part for fellow brits!) looking for something long term and genuine, something which won’t fizzle out after a few days

About me?

Well I’m certainly the nerdy introvert, I enjoy building Legos, I dip into some casual gaming from time to time when freedom allows it outside of work, I’m a senior manager in the telecommunications industry, I love anything horror related, Halloween happens to be my favorite time of year! Recently gave up riding motorbikes (upsetting I know) but the British weather is simply too wet these days🫠 whilst I say I’m extroverted I do switch up once I’m comfortable! I slowly open up into a goofball 😂 I’m 6’1 tall, blue/grey eyes, bearded, certainly the dad bod type of man. As bad as this description sounds your photo gets mine for sure!

About you?

Well, I’m an open book. I don’t tend to set limits so I’m open to younger or older. Closer or afar, why restrict yourself from finding that potential connection? Certainly looking for someone who values communication as I feel this is heavily underrated these days. We don’t have to like the same things but I wouldn’t be opposed to gaming together or even building some Legos together haha

I’d love to find that consistency with someone, building from the ground up, enjoying the slow burn, and actually getting to know one another and seeing where the road takes us! If I’ve got your interest this far.. then I can’t wait to hear from you 😊

Thank you for reading!