30 [M4F] #Netherlands natural dominant seeking for his submissive/bratty goddess
Do you crave the feeling of belonging to someone? the type where you can be in your most depraved state without any limitations or judgement, just full acceptance from both sides.
Submitting yourself to that man emotionally and physically and make him happy by pleasing him and him only, knowing that he'd take care of your needs without it being actually transactional.
I am looking for someone that is trustworthy and willing to work towards absolutely loyalty towards me (which I will do to in return), and work towards an unique relationship where you'll be tied up, spanked (too hard) and experience intense forms of submission (ofcourse with safewords) emotionally and physically in the bedroom (or wherever else you crave), and once we have served each others purpose and lay on the bed with post nut clarity, you'll receive the sweetest forms of aftercare through forehead kisses and praise if you've been a very good girl.
I purposely did not put in any titles such as 'masters/daddy/king' because everybody likes something else, so lets talk about it.
Must haves:
- Strong communicatively
- Takes care of herself
- Open minded and considerate enough.
- Really craves that D/s power dynamic
- Is a real pleaser (this way we will try to outdo each other regarding pleasing, because I'm also a pleaser)
- Determined, and does not only wants put effort when she craves it.
- Knows what she wants and communicates it
Bonus:
- Loves audio & voice messages (I love to tell you what to do & and can send the most seductive voicemessages that you can listen to at inappropriate places so you will always be reminded that you're hooked to me)
- Knows how to want space and give space when needed (we are adults with our own lives)
- Animal lover
- Wants to cook & bake delicious things together
- Wants to have cozy gaming nights where we can start our own BG3 campaign, or whatever else (got a giant steam library)
- Would like to go work towards something beautiful together irl
About me:
I'm a 30 year old guy from The Netherlands, I'm born and raised here but I do have a Mediterranean background and come from a warm and welcoming culture.
I'm 182cm tall, tanned a bit, have wavey brown hair and piercingly dark brown eyes, I have a pretty active lifestyle and love to hike and to gym and am pretty muscular/slim and am manly looking in general. Some people perceive me as a assertive & authoritative person, but that's just because of how I look and how I can come over. But I'm actually very playfully goofy and have a sarcastic humor, but I do have a serious dominant side that doesn't take shit from people so you'll have best of both worlds.
I do have quite some experience with BDSM and other kinky relationships, and know how to actually build.
It is something that takes time, exploration and tons of communication which is sometimes the tricky part, but I'm a very communicative and a descriptive person in general. I've kinda explored a lot of my sexuality so I have an idea of what I want and the things I still want to explore more.
I'm a lowkey a people pleaser (regardless of how bossy I can be sometimes), so I'm more of a pleasure dom and can be very intimate and caring besides being very rough and boundary pushing.
I enjoy doing things my own way, so my approach can sometimes be perceived as orthodox, regardless of how depraved and intense our sessions will be, I will ALWAYS make sure that there is gentle and cozy aftercare. (with the sweetest kisses on the forehead if you've been a good girl)
But before I can embrace this, there needs to be some type of click between us.
I'm a calm, respectful and emotionally developed dude with deep rooted sexually depravities.
So feel free to dm me if you're interested in going on a serious dopamine filled adventure.
ps; consent is always king.