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Also interested in what helped you along the way: books, communities, podcasts etc, or just experience. And if you're open to sharing, how did you find like minded people or partners, especially starting out as a single person?
+18 and ASL when messaging.
I feel like i never knew them. Feels like the whole "idea" of who they were was just a lie. Seeing them after +5 months feelt like a different person, doing things that they said they never do, switching a character that feels night and day.