Hi
Hey, this is my introduction I guess lol. I just came across this sub randomly and felt like I found home in a way. so a bit about me; I'm 22M, kink has been a core aspect of my life for as long as I can remember, I realised very early on that being in control wasn't something I merely enjoyed but needed in a relationship. To me kink is the missing link in every relationship, the thing that prevents a relationship from becoming stagnant, the thing that makes every aspect of a relationship more in every way.
my identity as a soft pleasure dom however took longer to establish. I spent years experimenting with both sides of the spectrum yet I always fell back on the soft pleasure dom side of myself that felt like soo much more of me than any other dom identity that id try. the feeling of providing a sub with a safe space where they can be who they want to be, not keep up the facade that they soo often need to infront of the world, a space where they can retreat to when everything becomes too much, watching them grow, heal and turn into better versions of themselves is perhaps the most rewarding thing a dom can ever feel.
now finally the soft and pleasure side of me being a dom, the soft side became apparent as I realised that the space I just described is a space where I want my sub to know they are cared for, through my actions and my words, however I understand the need and time to turn from being soft to becoming firm yet at my core I truly believe myself to be a soft Dom. Now the pleasure aspect of it all, something about providing pleasure to another person, to my sub is often how I get pleasure myself, making them feel good, seeing it, hearing it, it culminates in a feeling indescribable, its almost a need for me, a need to not only tell my sub they are wanted but make them feel it, constantly.
now a few other sides to me, I can be possesive and hate the idea of sharing, I am curious beyond measure and love seeing what's mine. outside of kink, I love to read, writing however always wins out in the end which leads to me being incredibly descriptive, I love cinema and everything to do with it, and a good swim. since I love knowing who im talking to I can only expect to offer the same so, visually im 6ft, bearded, incredible hair lol, big hands and wide shoulders.
ikik this was quite long, much longer than I had initially planned it to be but you only ever get to introduce yourself once, and I didnt want to waste the opportunity, I will end this by saying I'm still growing and learning as a dom because I truly believe no one is ever fully complete especially in kink however this identity of mine is the bedrock upon which all that growth is happening. so hi all of you, I hope to get to know some of you more and become a part of this community.