u/Zealousideal_Wolf717

I have worked - and continue to work - hard in my life. I went from having to pay my way through university to being a well-respected financier at one of the world's most powerful and successful institutions. I could have never imagined ending up here. What drove me? The desire to give my partner the security, safety, and relationship dynamic I never had when I was growing up.

To that end, I want to find someone who is as passionate as I am about my primary goal in life: creating and maintaining a lasting, meaningful long-term relationship. I pour my passion into creating a stable, loving environment full of opportunity and the ability to grow. I seek a partner whose passion is creating a nurturing, loving environment full of care, compassion, and comfort.

What you should expect from me:

• I will always treat you with love, respect, and consideration. I will consistently express my appreciation for your contribution to our home. I truly believe that each of our roles are no less important to the success of our relationship than the other.
• I will be clear about my expectations of you. When I feel you're falling short of those expectations, I will tell you. If you feel I'm falling short of my commitments to you, I will listen.
• I will maintain my health and fitness. I go to the doctor regularly. I do not smoke or drink. I dress well, but not ostentatiously. I meditate regularly.
• I am well-respected among my local community and friends, and will continue to build and foster those connections and relationships with you.
• I believe a man's role as a boyfriend absolutely requires presence in both body and mind, and I am enthusiastic about this role. While I work long hours, I will always prioritise time with you.
• I will always make time to date you, to make you feel special and appreciated for the romantic and nurturing role you play in my life.
• I have no interest in dictating you do things that don’t matter to me - but I will take the responsibility of making tough calls. I will always make decisions that I feel are in the best interest of our relationship.
• Our relationship will lead to marriage. I will take care of you if you become sick, even seriously so.
• I am open to both having children and being childfree.

What I want in a partner:

• You are a cis female.
• You do not smoke/vape/do drugs.
• You truly love and feel called to the idea of creating a nurturing, supportive, and comfortable home life and serving and pleasing your man.
• You live in, or are willing to move to, London (I love it here, my community is here, and I have a truly wonderful life that I want to share with you!).
• You will take pride in your appearance and keep yourself in good health. I’m happy to ensure our budget includes whatever health, beauty, and fitness desires you have.
• You value and are proud of your femininity.
• My love language is being cooked for. Seriously. I feel truly loved when I'm served a healthy, homemade meal. I feel appreciated, considered, and respected. I want that as part of our relationship.
• When you have difficult feelings, you will communicate them to me and I will always provide you with a safe space to do so. You are comfortable understanding your emotions.
• If you feel like I'm not living up to my commitments you will tell me.
• You will help me continue to participate in our community and our friendships.
• You consider yourself submissive, and enjoy feeling lovingly owned. You seek an emotional and romantic connection over sex.

What I do NOT expect in a partner:

• I don't expect you to be perfect. I'm not perfect either. But I do expect both of us to approach each other with presumption of good intent and faith that we are both working towards a happy and healthy life.
• I don't expect you to give up your career/studies from day one, if at all. This will be a mutual decision we both make further down the line.

If you've read this far, reach out via Reddit chat and we’ll take it from there. I'm 25, 174cm tall, good-looking, and someone who loves to stay in shape. I love working out, reading, meditating, hanging out with friends, and trying new restaurants. Looking forward to hearing from you!

PS: Due to my profile settings, this post won't show on my profile. However, if you're reading this on the subreddit, I'm still looking.

I have worked - and continue to work - hard in my life. I went from having to pay my way through university to being a well-respected financier at one of the world's most powerful and successful institutions. I could have never imagined ending up here. What drove me? The desire to give my partner the security, safety, and relationship dynamic I never had when I was growing up.

To that end, I want to find someone who is as passionate as I am about my primary goal in life: creating and maintaining a lasting, meaningful long-term relationship. I pour my passion into creating a stable, loving environment full of opportunity and the ability to grow. I seek a partner whose passion is creating a nurturing, loving environment full of care, compassion, and comfort.

What you should expect from me:

• I will always treat you with love, respect, and consideration. I will consistently express my appreciation for your contribution to our home. I truly believe that each of our roles are no less important to the success of our relationship than the other.
• I will be clear about my expectations of you. When I feel you're falling short of those expectations, I will tell you. If you feel I'm falling short of my commitments to you, I will listen.
• I will maintain my health and fitness. I go to the doctor regularly. I do not smoke or drink. I dress well, but not ostentatiously. I meditate regularly.
• I am well-respected among my local community and friends, and will continue to build and foster those connections and relationships with you.
• I believe a man's role as a boyfriend absolutely requires presence in both body and mind, and I am enthusiastic about this role. While I work long hours, I will always prioritise time with you.
• I will always make time to date you, to make you feel special and appreciated for the romantic and nurturing role you play in my life.
• I have no interest in dictating you do things that don’t matter to me - but I will take the responsibility of making tough calls. I will always make decisions that I feel are in the best interest of our relationship.
• Our relationship will lead to marriage. I will take care of you if you become sick, even seriously so.
• I am open to both having children and being childfree.

What I want in a partner:

• You are a cis female.
• You do not smoke/vape/do drugs.
• You truly love and feel called to the idea of creating a nurturing, supportive, and comfortable home life and serving and pleasing your man.
• You live in, or are willing to move to, London (I love it here, my community is here, and I have a truly wonderful life that I want to share with you!).
• You will take pride in your appearance and keep yourself in good health. I’m happy to ensure our budget includes whatever health, beauty, and fitness desires you have.
• You value and are proud of your femininity.
• My love language is being cooked for. Seriously. I feel truly loved when I'm served a healthy, homemade meal. I feel appreciated, considered, and respected. I want that as part of our relationship.
• When you have difficult feelings, you will communicate them to me and I will always provide you with a safe space to do so. You are comfortable understanding your emotions.
• If you feel like I'm not living up to my commitments you will tell me.
• You will help me continue to participate in our community and our friendships.
• You consider yourself submissive, and enjoy feeling lovingly owned. You seek an emotional and romantic connection over sex.

What I do NOT expect in a partner:

• I don't expect you to be perfect. I'm not perfect either. But I do expect both of us to approach each other with presumption of good intent and faith that we are both working towards a happy and healthy life.
• I don't expect you to give up your career/studies from day one, if at all. This will be a mutual decision we both make further down the line.

If you've read this far, reach out via Reddit chat and we’ll take it from there. I'm 25, 174cm tall, good-looking, and someone who loves to stay in shape. I love working out, reading, meditating, hanging out with friends, and trying new restaurants. Looking forward to hearing from you!

PS: Due to my profile settings, this post won't show on my profile. However, if you're reading this on the subreddit, I'm still looking.

I am a man who finds purpose and clarity in structure, leadership, and responsibility in my career, my life, and my relationships. I have built a successful, stable life not as an end in itself, but to create a foundation upon which I can build something truly meaningful: a total power exchange (TPE) relationship with a devoted partner.

The dynamic I seek is best described as Gorean-inspired. It is rooted in high protocol, clearly defined roles, and the profound beauty of total power exchange. My authority is calm, absolute, and wielded with the sole purpose of nurturing your growth and ensuring the well-being of our life together. I provide structure, protection, and direction; you provide devotion, service, and the warmth that makes a house a home.

This is a dynamic we will build together, step by step. My ultimate vision is a life where I provide for you completely, allowing you to find your fulfillment in dedicating yourself to me and our home. However, I am seeking a partner for the entire journey, not just the destination. Your current career or studies are not an obstacle; they are the starting point. From day one, they will be integrated into our dynamic, existing under my authority and direction, as we work together towards our shared future.

What you can expect from me as your Master:

• I will provide the framework for your life. This includes rules, protocols, and routines designed to help you flourish. Your purpose will be clear, your efforts will be seen, and your growth will be my priority.
• Your physical and emotional well-being will be my ultimate responsibility. Your submission is a precious gift, and I will protect it and you fiercely. While I will push you, I will do so with the goal of building you up, never breaking you down. Our dynamic will be built on a foundation of rigorous consent and trust.
• I will have total authority, but it will be wielded with wisdom and for the benefit of our shared life. I will provide for you, make the difficult decisions, and create a world where you feel completely safe, cherished, and owned.
• This is not a search for a casual or temporary dynamic. My intention is for our M/s relationship to be long-term.

What I am seeking in my slave:

• You are a cis woman.
• You feel a genuine, undeniable need to serve, obey, and please your Master. This desire is a core part of your identity.
• You find beauty and pride in your femininity and in the act of service, from maintaining our home and your appearance, to the simple, profound act of preparing a meal for me.
• You are emotionally aware and an excellent communicator. Your ability to express your feelings, fears, and desires is essential for the health of our dynamic.
• You crave structure, rules, and discipline, and you understand that praise and correction are two sides of the same coin of care.
• You do not smoke, vape, or use drugs.
• You are seeking an all-encompassing M/s dynamic that is emotional, romantic, and spiritual first, with sexuality being an expression of that deep connection.

This is not a dynamic we would rush into. It would begin with conversation, vetting, and a gradual building of trust and protocol. True M/s is a journey of co-creation, and I am looking for a partner for that journey.

About me: I am 25, 174cm, good-looking. I am willing to exchange pictures once trust has been established. I am a well-respected financier, and I take pride in my health, fitness, and appearance. My interests range from luxury travel and meditation to quiet nights in with a movie or a good book.

If this description resonates with the submissive soul within you, send me a message via Reddit chat.

PS: Due to my profile settings, this post won't show on my profile. However, if you're reading this on the subreddit, I'm still looking.