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18 [F4M] #SE Looking to try new things!

I’ve not really explored much sexually before. I’m not the most confident in how I look so it’s been tricky for me. I’m at the point where I just want to get it out of the way! Only looking to try giving a blowjob tbh, definitely not sex.

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u/Basic_Original353 — 1 hour ago

18 [F4M] #SE london looking for fwb

Hiii, so I’m just on here to find a fwb, something casual and not too serious. Me: 5”2, brown eyes, curly brown hair. I have limited travel and i can’t host but If ur around the se area I’d love to chat and see where things go from there. So just hmu xxx

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u/StomachSoft9544 — 4 hours ago

30 [M4F] #East spontaneous meet today , 7 inches bwc , looking to book hotel or yours, women or couples only!

30 , white , 7 inches , girthy, can verify , can book hotel or meet at yours , looking for longer fun , so text me with your kinks and desires , i am sure we can have fun all day today

Women or couples only!

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u/Aggressive-Sir658 — 1 hour ago

20 [M4F] #SE - looking for a friend (with benefits… obvs) 🙃

20M in SE London but more than happy to travel. Ideally looking for a fwb thing, but I’d still be down for whatever type of one-off fun you have in mind. Just get in touch and let’s chat.

I’m a slim white guy, 5’9, with brown hair/eyes. Happy to verify and send pics.

All the best x

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u/WildComfortable2852 — 1 hour ago

28 [F4M] #NortheastLondon - seeking an excellent muff diver tonight and company/cuddles to a good movie (not sure how much of the movie we will actually watch, lol)

Freshly bathed, shaved and ready for multiple orgasms. Period due in two or three days or so, so time is of the essence. You have to be good at giving, listening to and observing cues. I can guide you and tell you what I like - but you have to be receptive. Als bonus points if you like using your fingers to give rubbing orgasms as I love them too!

Happy to host. AVAILABLE ALL WEEKEND (sat and sun)

You must fit the following criteria:

Excellent personal hygiene - cannot overstate this enough. Clean, short nails. Good oral hygiene. Smells nice. Caucasian preferred. Blue, green, hazel or brown eyes. 5ft8 and above. Slim to athletic. Love cute nerds/nerdy looking dudes, especially if you wear glasses. Open to more if it feels right in the moment. Cuddles and aftercare essential!

Please send me a clear message with stats and send a photo if I accept the chat invitation. Low effort messages will be ignored.

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u/enmertack — 19 hours ago

31 [M4F] #east if you into BBC , 11 inch , let me know , i host !

31 , 6'1 , 11 inch girthy bbc , hosting in east london , looking for one time thing or regular , come over and find out ! women, multiple women , couples , just no men and ts

if you want group lmk can invite few friends too !

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u/BBCForYourLdn — 1 hour ago

29 [M4F] #West | Any larger ladies out there?

As the title suggests, I have a thing for bigger girls who may be described as chubby, BBWs or (even SBBWs?). If you fit the description and are craving a good fuck from a guy who likes and knows how to handle curves, drop me a message.

The kinkier you are, the better - I’m pretty open-minded, but am still always down for some good old fashioned fun.

Happy to chat and share more in DMs - if you read until here, please let me know your age, race, location and what you’re into / looking for in your first message. Thanks!

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u/Responsible_Log5895 — 1 hour ago

25 [M4F] #Central – Masculine, dominant traditional finance bro seeking a feminine, submissive traditional woman for a long-term relationship

I have worked - and continue to work - hard in my life. I went from having to pay my way through university to being a well-respected financier at one of the world's most powerful and successful institutions. I could have never imagined ending up here. What drove me? The desire to give my partner the security, safety, and relationship dynamic I never had when I was growing up.

To that end, I want to find someone who is as passionate as I am about my primary goal in life: creating and maintaining a lasting, meaningful long-term relationship. I pour my passion into creating a stable, loving environment full of opportunity and the ability to grow. I seek a partner whose passion is creating a nurturing, loving environment full of care, compassion, and comfort.

What you should expect from me:

  • I will always treat you with love, respect, and consideration. I will consistently express my appreciation for your contribution to our home. I truly believe that each of our roles are no less important to the success of our relationship than the other.
  • I will be clear about my expectations of you. When I feel you're falling short of those expectations, I will tell you. If you feel I'm falling short of my commitments to you, I will listen.
  • I will maintain my health and fitness. I go to the doctor regularly. I do not smoke or drink. I dress well, but not ostentatiously. I meditate regularly.
  • I am well-respected among my local community and friends, and will continue to build and foster those connections and relationships with you.
  • I believe a man's role as a boyfriend absolutely requires presence in both body and mind, and I am enthusiastic about this role. While I work long hours, I will always prioritise time with you.
  • I will always make time to date you, to make you feel special and appreciated for the romantic and nurturing role you play in my life.
  • I have no interest in dictating you do things that don’t matter to me - but I will take the responsibility of making tough calls. I will always make decisions that I feel are in the best interest of our relationship.
  • Our relationship will lead to marriage. I will take care of you if you become sick, even seriously so.
  • I am open to both having children and being childfree.

What I want in a partner:

  • You are a cis female.
  • You do not smoke/vape/do drugs.
  • You truly love and feel called to the idea of creating a nurturing, supportive, and comfortable home life and serving and pleasing your man.
  • You live in, or are willing to move to, London (I love it here, my community is here, and I have a truly wonderful life that I want to share with you!).
  • You will take pride in your appearance and keep yourself in good health. I’m happy to ensure our budget includes whatever health, beauty, and fitness desires you have.
  • You value and are proud of your femininity.
  • My love language is being cooked for. Seriously. I feel truly loved when I'm served a healthy, homemade meal. I feel appreciated, considered, and respected. I want that as part of our relationship.
  • When you have difficult feelings, you will communicate them to me and I will always provide you with a safe space to do so. You are comfortable understanding your emotions.
  • If you feel like I'm not living up to my commitments you will tell me.
  • You will help me continue to participate in our community and our friendships.
  • You consider yourself submissive, and enjoy feeling lovingly owned. You seek an emotional and romantic connection over sex.

What I do NOT expect in a partner:

  • I don't expect you to be perfect. I'm not perfect either. But I do expect both of us to approach each other with presumption of good intent and faith that we are both working towards a happy and healthy life.
  • I don't expect you to give up your career/studies from day one, if at all. This will be a mutual decision we both make further down the line.

If you've read this far, reach out via Reddit chat and we’ll take it from there. I'm 25, 174cm tall, good-looking, and someone who loves to stay in shape. I love working out, reading, meditating, hanging out with friends, and trying new restaurants. Looking forward to hearing from you!

PS: Due to my profile settings, this post won't show on my profile. However, if you're reading this on the subreddit, I'm still looking.

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u/Zealousideal_Wolf717 — 5 hours ago

34 [m4m] #east London looking for a top/vers fwb

Living in east London but able to travel a bit within reason. I'm near Walthamstow.

would be looking to maybe game or hang out as the "f" part, and then get to the benefits after we vibe.

**pics are in my profile** . I'm more looking to suck dick but open to going other places. frotting or wanking together, I love cocks!

also looking for gym bud so if you're local to E17... hit me up!

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u/BraveEnoughToLoveYou — 3 hours ago

23 [F4M] #Central - naughty Aussie girl moved to London and willing to travel x

Keen to meet some sexy lads, I’m a naughty Aussie girl just moved over for Melbourne after breaking up with my bf. In need of a good deep asf rooting that will make me forget Australia. I’m just here looking for my London boy that I can cream over and over again.

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u/Tricky-Scientist-259 — 14 hours ago

24 [M4F] #SouthEast / Gravesend Our MFM fantasy comes alive

Hey, I’m a 24-year-old Black guy from North London. I do have a dad bod but that's a work in process, chilled energy, and always up for meeting. My main thing that I'm looking for is someone fun for sure.

I’m looking for a woman who’s open-minded and into exploring without judgment. Whether that’s just us having a good time, trying new things together, or occasionally inviting others in for an MFM when the vibe is right, I’m down. No pressure either way.

I’m respectful, clean, and big on good communication and consent. If you’re into threesomes, voyeurism, or have ever been curious about group play like a cheeky gangbang, I’m sure I'll be able to help you out. Only if you’re into it though.

Mostly I’m just looking to meet someone I vibe with, have fun with and see where things go.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, message me with a bit about you as in age, interests, what you’re into and let’s take it from there.

Pics get pics. Looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/DMB69420 — 2 hours ago

21 [F4F] #East - FWB

currently a third year uni student looking to relief stress through make outs and more!! 👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏽

about me: curvy south asian, little shy a first so you might have to lead but eventually i’ll break free from my shell. 5’0 (im small ik 😢)

(no male should be in my dms)

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u/Exciting_Flamingo_11 — 4 hours ago
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35 [M4M] #Islington massaging, edging, and fucking (accom over easter break)

35 bi asian slim/fit guy looking for a few different types of fun with guys.

(1) free massaging (and fucking)

I want to practice my amateur massage skills, which sometimes ends up with happy ending (either handjob or fucking you)

(2) edging and fucking

I have decent amount of experiences to edge guys. Blindfolded and handcuffed, you sit on a chair and I edge you to cum multiple times. The last shot is coming when I fuck you.

I dont mix (1) and (2), so tell me your preference.

Be slim/fit, young (<40), and clean. Prefer smooth/shaved/trimmed body. Exceptions exist about age if you have extremely fit body.

Can accom over the Easter break in Islington, London.

DM me, not making comments (wont respond)

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u/BlueberryStrict4944 — 6 hours ago

31 [M4M] #Central Anon Gloryhole skilled sucker visiting WC1 from now until Mon 06/04

You book a time. I will give you instructions (room number, floor etc). You get in, door will be on latch, the gloryhole is set up, and I'm on the other side. You pull your dick out and slide it trough. I milk your dick until you cum. I swallow. You leave.

Anonymous, discreet, and private.

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u/oralexpert_ — 3 hours ago

25 [M4F] #East - Only for a Muslim

I am specifically looking for someone who is Muslim/Hijabi, whether religious or not.

This will be a very discrete meet depending on when we decide on a day.

About me

5’9, easy going, drug and disease free, clean and in shape.

About you

Muslim, Clean, drug and disease free. I don’t care about body type or your ethnicity as long as you’re Muslim.

I am very open, so if you have certain kinks, things you want to do or try feel free to message me and we will discuss them further.

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u/bluntz_on_me — 3 hours ago

21 [M4F] #South East london. Looking for fwb around my ages or one time hookup with 40+ lady. Couple welcome Dm me

I’m 5’10 White with stocky built.

I get weak for older lady so if that your thing the hit me up.

I am up for 3some if you are able to host it

i am able to travel but unable to host unless you got a spot to do it in a car?😉

Dm me you won’t regret it

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u/Fit-Sir9977 — 3 hours ago

29 [m4m] #east - any straight lads need some head?

I love worshiping a straight guys cock and making him moan and then shoot his load. I have my own place near Stratford. So come round, unzip layback and shoot your load in my mouth, I’ll swallow it all.

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u/SwallowStraight — 3 hours ago

23 [M4F] #west London 6’5 experienced guy, hung BWC, open to exploring with a FWB or couples (MFM) summer fling?

Heyy been here before and have had quite good amounts of success doing so…

But I’m looking for fun scenarios to explore, preferably a consistent kinky fwb to play around with but one that can hold a conversation… I’m quite an easy person to talk to I feel, quite nerdy but sporty. Have a good profession and a lot of different hobbies.

I’d quite like someone to spend time w during the summer and as the weather improves

I’d also love to play with couples more, have had my fair share of MMF’s and find the dynamic quite hot…

Physically I’m 6’5/195cm, 7 inches length and over 6 inches in girth, ethnically southern European, with a stocky build.

Im more of a dominant person and tend to have quite good stamina.

When messaging please include at least a bit of a description about yourself, and just say more than hi : D

I’m happy to verify and can host depending on some things but happy to grab a hotel if neither of us can at the time.

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u/tgyb628 — 3 hours ago

32 [M4F] #East - hijabi/Muslim

32M located in East London. Ideally you're a hijabi/Muslim, curious - maybe this is your first experience and you don’t know where to start. Maybe you’re all pent up from Ramadan. I'm British South Asian, Muslim, and have some successes through reddit in the past, and would love to meet.

5'8", in good shape (I've been told I have nice arms), hygienic and man-scaped. Cut. Have great beard. Working professional.

Can verify once we’re comfortable, and more than happy to take things at your pace. Reach out and let's talk, a conversation never hurt.

No men.

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u/Beard-a-geddon — 3 hours ago

21 [M4F] #SouthWest Muslim/Brown/Girls with strict parents who need to release

Hey, so if you're reading this you're probably sexually frustrated and your circumstances mean that you can't get what your body is craving.

I'd love to help you if you want. I'm 21, tall and bulky, a mix of ethnicities (Arab-Turkish-Dutch-Pakistani).

This is a 100% no strings attached, safe and discreet thing.

Can be more than one time if you want.

I've helped quite a few girls this way, and I love doing it.

I can make arrangements for hosting and I'm happy to do whatever you prefer with you. I'm open to helping you try all your kinks, fantasies or interests or even if you're just wanting to explore a bit.

if this sounds like you then don't hesitate to message me with anything.

please try to be local, I get a lot of messages from girls outside London. I'm willing to travel within reason.

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u/Mountain_Ebb6256 — 4 hours ago
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