The Shitty Dom Saga Continues!!!
Istg I’m about to snap. So, summary, I’m in an open relationship and started seeing another person in an open relationship, my Mistress. She has two other partners, one of whom has joined us for a scene or two. I don’t like this guy much. He’s kind of just grinning and bearing with the kink bc it means he gets to fuck us. I don’t like his approach to kink at all. During the last scene he was with us in, I safeworded and he pretty much packed up and left the second it became clear I wasn’t gonna be sucking him off at the end. No aftercare whatsoever. Fuck him fr.
Now, when I started seeing Mistress, I was under the impression they were entirely open (that is, they had completely seperated partners as well as mutual ones). Now that I’ve broken it off with him, he’s now texting me asking me not to “do things as much with [Mistress], since we’ve always only been open as long as it’s mutual” EXCUSE ME? WHERE WAS THAT INFO BEFORE? I outright asked if Mistress was aware he was asking me to break up with her, and he admitted he hadn’t talked to her at all. Suffice to say she’s now aware he’s asking that.
TLDR; he’s open to polyamory and kink as long as he gets fucked too, but he’s shit at BDSM and shit in bed. Went behind his girlfriend’s back to ask me to break up with her as well.
I originally kind of gave him the “well he’s trying… he’s inexperienced… there’s clearly some psychological issues….” But this is just a dick move on his part and I’m beyond pissed.