I have been following this sub for a while but haven't really tried anything yet. I want to understand how I can get started especially as someone with no toys.
Well technically, I did put inside the tip of my finger but it made me wanna go to the bathroom and didn't do anything for me.
I have been into the lifestyle for a while and have had a wonderful experience so far. But as someone with anxiety issues, it makes it very difficult for me to understand if I am talking to someone online (mostly on reddit), if they are trying to scam me or just want me to subscribe to their OF. Don't get me wrong, my first mistress initiated it and I just fell into it and I knew i could trust her after a while. But since then it's been difficult to find someone, whom I can feel safe with.
Why not find someone on dating apps or maybe at bars, you ask?
Admitting that I like to be dominated is still something which makes me feel shy and passive, so it's a little scary.