r/ProstatePlay

Is anyone else extra horny after prostate play?

It seems after i get my o and cum Im extremely horny, but when I dont play my drive is pretty low

Has anyone else experienced not being to function mentally after a week or even an evening of incredible prostate orgasms? I feel so goofy after last night’s episode. I’ve heard of getting your brains f’ed out but does the same apply to p-play and orgasm overload?

We've all heard of the "Do nothing" approch - relax don't force anything

However, i take that one step further to "Avoid everything!"

When ever i feel an urge to clench, or flex, or pulse ANYTHING down there, i breath through it... suppress it!

Do that as much/long as i can and then WHEN it comes on - too big to fight....

Man oh man!! 100x better then had i had just gone with the flow!.

:)

Give it a try!

Honest options. Which one should I get? I’m in the market for a new toy. Have tried Vector+ before which was ok, managed a HFWO with it but wasn’t too impressed. Will the Edge 2 be similar to the vector or should I give it a go? Lots rave about helix. Wondering if anyone has used both?

I’m in a state where it is legal to possess marijuana. There was a law passed for adult recreational cannabis, but has not been enacted. And the new governor is not friendly towards cannabis.

I wound up getting an indica strain THCA. I smoked it in a pipe. It lit up my prostate. My whole perineum was tingly. I could literally just think my muscles to work and squeeze my prostate.

I did not have a prostate orgasm because I had limited time till the family came home. The time I did have was enlightening. I was not using any toys. I sank into my bed and inhaled poppers. I was in pleasure and on my way to ecstasy.

If I could get some real alone time, I think I could have brought it home.

GL

M32. Many times I've just chalked it up to I'll never get over that last hump of pleasure, I'll always just enjoy the ride and get a good enough O. So many toys tried, a real Goldilocks story, invested in a hiSmith, many Amazon special dildos, pspot toys, a couple cheap vibrators, the knock off njoy wand (recently learned about the backwords trick, got super close) girthy, curvey, loonng toys, even a nice soft knotted cock like a filthy furry degenerate, of which I swear I'm knot.

Really this last year I've been focusing on rewiring my brain to stop using masturbation for dopamine and strictly for pleasure

But that meant I needed to start saving multiple days or a week at a time because of time restraints working every day of the week between two jobs and life and such, I can't just spend multiple nights in a row edging for hours. So I guess that's the honestly the real important part here because bet had I tried that part years ago I would have had a hands free by now, oh well.

This is gonna turn into word vomit, love to tell a story with details and I really wanna share this.

A week ago high with a fresh tax return deposit burning a hole in my pocket, buzzing from pleasure on a Sunday night spent edging for what felt like 4 hours, I decided it was time to spend money on a real vibrator. Knowing the reputation of lovense and reading many of other success stories I pulled the trigger on the edge 2, pre set up my account, got the app and all the bs squared away, I was excited.

First time, testing, getting a feel for patterns and tricky position but I really wasn't in the right head space I wanted it to be the puzzle piece too bad, in turn, unsuccessful and honestly disheartened. I wrote it off as a vibrator just wouldn't do it and the hunt would continue into just getting railed finally by real cock and letting an experienced prostate whisperer tickle my insides. Even set grindr up, the commit was real.

Couple days go by, it's Friday. Get home from work horny and I'm in a super good mood, hit the penjamma, tease self, oh the mood is definitely mooding, edge 2 fully charged and in, this time I found the right position that bulb was resting exactly on my prostate. I picked the boldest claim pattern "HFO guaranty". No changes, no pauses, my phone is out of reach, 60 minutes uninterrupted focused no hands play. So I hit play on the pattern and tried to play vampire crawlers and just see how far I could get, the run was actually cracked. I got 20 minutes in and lost all focus I was finally feeling the pressure and pleasure I've read other talk about, I was shaking my body is screaming this is it, all gas, let go, drown in the pleasure, moaning involuntary, my brain was blank. 40 minutes, whole body is shaking, I'm sitting in my desk chair and am now helplessly grinding on the toy doing kegels forcing myself to remember to fucking breath I'm desperately chasing... 50 minutes, my chest, tummy, balls, thighs are soaking wet with fluids but the pressure hasn't popped I'm being milked for everything, it's right there then pattern really started to hit me, slow, deep, strong, stronger pulsing from tip of toy the the base motor perfectly (kudos to that pattern creator) To the very last minute it got so deep and heavy the pressure was unbelievable I could feel the vibrations all the way through my cock and it FINNNNALY happened, hands free, and I squirrrrmmmmed, writhed, breath gone, knuckles white gripping on the arm rests of my chair as I came what I can only describe as a hentai creampie amount. My phone, behind me charging I panicked to get ahold of it to hit pause because replay was on and it needed to be turned off, I was way too high to let that keep going.

Wow.

If you made it this far and your also on the chase, don't give up.

I've been sitting here writing this for a hot minute now, my insides are still buzzing and I'm suffering from success. Gah damn.

I recently got into self-bondage (fun with 3D printed ice locks) of course with something inserted in my backdoor.

I thought something electrical like a vibrating thing or a pulsating plug would be the most fun, but I was wrong. While my hands were tied behind my back and only being able to make my plug inflate squeeze by squeeze, I noticed how sensational it is to just move my hips like I would ride something while tensing the Kegel muscle. It felt like I was getting penetrated by something big without the pain of too much friction.

I did it for like 30 minutes, and because of the bondage part, I was really able to focus on the feeling. After a while, I felt that I needed to pee (the one I always read about). A little while later, I actually came hands-free for the first time. It felt phenomenal, and I want to do it again soon.

I have an aneros helix syn v and have used it multiple times now. At first I was just turning the vibration on and using it to make penile orgasms better. It worked, but I wanted to try for the super O today. I put it in without vibration and was just doing nothing aside from deep breathing for maybe 10 minutes if I had to guess. Then, I was doing very light contractions on the exhale for about 10 minutes. I was lying on the floor with both of my legs bent. They started to shake. I was feeling some very small moments of pleasure but mostly just lots of shaking. I could feel my heart pounding too. After about 10 minutes of this I got antsy and just finished with a vibrator on the underside of my cock. I feel completely drained right now, like some of my muscles still feel like they're having little spasms or tight. No idea if this is part of the path to a super O or I just overtensioned my pelvic floor or something.

So I’ll keep this short since I’m mid session, but I’ve been playing for a while now and owned a progasm for about half that time.

It never really did much for me and I preferred the eupho so I never really gave it the attention it deserves. What a mistake that was….

For the past 40 minutes I’ve just been rolling around in ecstasy. It’s a very different orgasm than eupho or even the pure wand. It’s just a jackhammer hitting your prostate over and over as you slowly and lightly relax and clench your muscles.

Wow… anyway, just wanted to drop this here as I take a quick break, but I can feel the next pwave building so I’m going to go back and let it settle in nicely ✌️

I feel like if I focus on my pelvic floor muscles, then I focus more on traditional "penile?" stimulation, without necessarily touching my penis.

If I sort of relax and not flex anything, I feel more just, idk what you call it, anal pleasure/anal orgasm. Almost like I'm trying to poop my toy out.

What’s interesting is that it feels almost like a switch: if I’m building toward orgasm in one “mode” and then shift my attention or muscle engagement to the other, it feels like I lose momentum and have to build back up again.

Just curious if anyone else experiences this.

I red a lot of people using THC or similar kind of drugs to help them achieve this pleasure.

For me it is not an option, because I have no access to them. Only thing that comes to my mind is alcohol. But I hate it, I am fitness oriented and dont even enjoy the taste.

Is it possible to achieve these prostate orgasms without any relaxing drugs? If not, what can be used to help relax enough?

Usually wear an aneros but I want something that fills me up more and more comfortable.

I just got 3 Squarepeg toys delivered and I'm anxious about trying them out. They all look like they would be very pleasurable but their bases seem way too soft. I'm worried that the whole toy would slip in and I'd have to make an embarrassing visit to the ER. Am I worrying unnecessarily? Is there a way to prevent the whole toy getting sucked in?

Looking for something to use with my theragun vac-u-loc adapter that can hit the spot as well as the tantus p-spot or njoy wand, but short enough that I can get it all the way in to hit the spot.

I love the tantus, but to really hit my prostate, there's like 1.5-2" not inserted. I don't want extra dildo there to diminish the vibration transfer.

anyone seen anything along these lines?

So not exactly prostate play but hoping to get some advice or guidance anyway as it's along the same lines.

I absolutely love anal play and I can now comfortably use pretty large and girthy toys but I always wish I could take the toys deeper, I always seem to bottom out, excuse the pun! Is this a biology thing? Am I hitting a point that doesn't welcome visitors? I've seen porn where people take really long toys so I know it's possible but wondered what seems to be stopping me taking anything deeper!

This is my first time posting here. I (M22) have been a silent reader on this community forum for a long time. And I'm glad to share my experience to y'all.

I feel like a lot of guides online focus on movement techniques, but one thing that helped me a lot was realizing that slow grinding motions worked better than bigger movements.

When I switched to a seated position, the whole experience changed because I could just shift my hips slightly instead of doing complicated positioning.

Why it worked better for me:

• It created consistent pressure in the same area

• My body stayed more relaxed

• I could focus on subtle sensations instead of mechanics

What surprised me the most is that the sensations built up much more gradually, which actually made them stronger over time.

Before that, I thought prostate stimulation was supposed to feel intense immediately, but it seems like for a lot of people it's more about slow buildup and patience.

Anyone else find that smaller movements work better than bigger ones?

I’d love to find someone in the uk who’d help me milk my prostate. I’ve tried so much with a range of different toys over the years, but nothing really worked.

Has anyone any experience with meeting up with someone to do this?

So just had my first prostate HFO and it was wet (and amazing), how do I steer myself towards the HFDO and make sure I don't accidentally rewire to HFWO's as the default? Also this was my first time using weed to help, and I'd also like to not become reliant on that either. Any tips for maming sure I don't stray into those things and set myself back? Also no penis stimulation was involved in this at all.

For backstory, I've been playing since about the start of this year. Had a fairly fast rewiring to this point, getting p-waves right near the beginning, up until a few nights ago when my wife was helping me out and I was having violent shivering in waves, but it wasn't super pleasurable. It was nice, but not orgasmic. Today I smoked a tiny bit of weed, which I never ever do and just happend to coincidentally end up with a joint from a friend. Was using my aneros, was feeling great. Moved to the glass jnoy wand knockoff and then it ramped up from there.

I found a nice looking prostate massager from Spencer’s, not really sure how good it is, but I was wondering if anyone here might know anything about it. As im writing this I realize that I cannot post images so the prostate massager im talking about is the Arouz'd Champ Remote Control Thrusting Prostate Massager.

assume you have 2 toys: njoy wand and edge 2. if you had these 2 options at your disposal, what would you start off with?