u/KeyandQuestion

Hi, thanks for dropping by. Please get something nice to drink and I hope you enjoy the essay. Depending on length, I might have to submit it for peer review.

To start, a bit about you hopefully: a partner first and foremost who is smart, funny, cute, cuddly, and kinky. Age-wise, I'm open to meeting someone between 28 and my age, give or take a few years, as long as we seem to mesh well. I'd like a little who is a healthy weight, and smaller than I am, so I can pick them up and give them spinny hugs, uppies, or piggyback rides. I've got no problem if you have health issues, I just ask that they're medicated or managed. I want to find someone willing to relocate if our relationship progresses naturally to that point. I own my home, and would love to share it with someone. I'm not looking for an open ended online relationship, although I understand that is where it will most likely start. While I can tolerate a smidgen of brat, I'm not looking for someone who exists only in that space. I'm monogamous by nature, and am not interested in poly/ENM, etc. I'm child-free and would like to meet someone who is as well, as I'm looking for a single babygirl to share my life with. I'm also not looking for a ppm or trad wife relationship, no judgment, but that's not for me. To me, the relationship is the most important part of this: without a foundation of friendship and trust, I don't think a dynamic will work for that happily ever after.

Now, a bit about me. I'm 5'11" with dark hair and gray eyes, conventionally attractive, reasonably fit, albeit with a few pounds left I'd like to turn to muscle. I'm a nerd, I love to read, watch movies/tv, listen to music, and game. Outdoors, I like walks, biking, kayaking, swimming, and more reading most often in the shade. I'm an atheist, and while I'm very liberal in the global sense, it doesn't get in the way of kink. I would prefer someone who shares those values, although I'm not opposed to someone who is spiritual, or practices a non-traditional faith.

I'm a creative person, whether it's painting, writing, or woodworking I love creating things, and I'd love to make something for my partner in the future. I'm a good cook and love trying new recipes, however, full disclosure, I'm not much of a baker. You'll need to help if we need to make cookies!

My goal is to find someone to share my life with, grow with, nurture, discipline when we want to play, and love with everything I've got. I ask that you're looking for the same. The life I want to build is cozy, fun, and simple in the best ways. Littles and middles are both fine by me, although I'm partial to nsfw littles who wouldn't mind curling up on my lap and coloring, or watching cartoons! Bonus points if you like fuzzy blankets with the cuddles. I'd love to go on adventures with you, then come back to our snug castle and relax after a long day out in the big world.

A bit more about the dynamic I hope to build together, I want to collaborate, have regular checkins, and hope you're looking for a partner first and foremost, one who is your Daddy, but also your best friend. As an aside, just as I want to support you, I hope to find someone who wants to do the same. I can't give eternally, and need to be supported as well. This does unfortunately preclude 24/7 Littles. It's adorable, but there will be times I need support from you, in both your little, and big, headspaces.

I've been in the scene for most of my life, and meandered from regular BDSM, through DDlg and found my place as a caregiver. While I'm very open to just about everything, including quite a few darker kinks, I'd prefer to discuss the specifics of our personal kinks, expectations, and limits privately. Since CGL is still a part of the overall scene, its specifics are something I find best discussed at length, and thoroughly before we decide if moving forward is something we want. All I ask is that you're willing to be honest with your expectations, clear in your communication, and I'd love for you to paint me a picture of what you want from a CGL relationship. I intentionally left this for last, because to my mind, the order of importance is Relationship > Dynamic > Kinks. Compatibility here is nice, but less important than the cozy life I'd like to build with you.

I should probably wrap this essay up. I hope you're having a wonderful day, and if you're interested, send me a message with a bit about yourself, and why you think we'd be the perfect match! For a gold star, tell me about the perfect day with your Daddy!

Editor's Note: Messages of "hi" will be ignored, or roasted depending on how much coffee I've had. Please be able to engage in thoughtful conversation.