u/GoodTimes8183

Image 1 — Still some burning/discomfort on back side of scrotum after ball gap increase
Image 2 — Still some burning/discomfort on back side of scrotum after ball gap increase
Image 3 — Still some burning/discomfort on back side of scrotum after ball gap increase
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Still some burning/discomfort on back side of scrotum after ball gap increase

I’ve been self locking significantly more over the past 6-7 months, and it has significantly cut back on my masturbation habit. I used to masturbate at least once daily, but now I’ve only masturbated once in the last month and a half. I feel like this has greatly improved my mood, discipline, and overall quality of life. I’d like to increase my locked time to continue this journey of self-improvement.

I currently wear a Cobra N with a size 3 curved ring. I also recently did a DIY to increase the curve of the base ring (and therefore the ball gap) to help alleviate the burning and discomfort I felt on the back side of my scrotum. This helped greatly to alleviate much of this discomfort, but I still experience this sensation to a degree, particularly while I’m sitting. I typically apply aquafor twice per day to the underside of my scrotum. It helps but dos not eliminate the sensation. I sit frequently for work, so I likely need to come up with a solution.

I could do some more modifications to increase the ball gap more, but could the rounded shape of the base ring also be applying a pressure point on my scrotum? If so, would getting an XD curved ring help with this sensation? My thought process is that the ring would lay flatter against my skin.

Also, would going up or down a base ring size make sense? I’m able to get two fingers inside the base ring fairly easily (see pics).

My instinct is to maybe get an XD curved at 2 or 2.5 and then add additional curve to it for the ball gap by heating it up and bending it, but I also want to get this right.

u/GoodTimes8183 — 21 hours ago
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Has there ever been a documented case of someone ejaculating in space (for science)?

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u/GoodTimes8183 — 22 hours ago
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Chastity in mainstream media

It seems that more and more kinks are being explored in some fashion in mainstream media, whether it be tv shows or film. I’ve seen shows that have BDSM, cuckolding, anallingus, and even pegging, featured in some capacity, albeit not the focus.

I have yet to see a show or film that features chastity, specifically male chastity. Is anyone aware of anything?

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u/GoodTimes8183 — 8 days ago
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Month of March Progress

Hi everyone! I have been interested in male chastity for close to 7 or 8 years. My wife is aware of these desires and of the cages I own, but has been hesitant to engage. Her primary concerns are both normal and typical of women that have been introduced to this kink: it looks uncomfortable, it sounds like more work for her, she doesn’t see the benefit, etc.

I got to the point where I’ve just asked her for blanket permission to self-lock back in November. I had a few stops/starts around the holidays, but I’ve been tracking my results since February:

February

13 days locked

9 orgasms for my wife

7 orgasms for me (3 of which were masturbation in the early days of the month)

March

17 days locked (we went on a family vacation for a week where I did not lock)

3 orgasms for my wife

4 orgasms for me (I accidentally came while edging in the shower on vacation 🤦🏻)

I don’t think my wife realizes the extent to which I’ve been self-locking, but I plan to see if she thinks I’ve been acting noticeably different. I’m genuinely curious if she does. It’s worth noting that of the 30 days I’ve spent locked over the last 2 months, 7 of those days I was locked with her direct knowledge.

It’s also worth noting that I’ve been seeing a kink-friendly therapist for over a year now. She has been extremely helpful, if for no other reason than it’s great to have someone to actually talk to about this without becoming overbearing. My wife is not interested in day-to-day chastity talk, but as most of us locked guys know, we need some sort of outlet.

I guess I’m just trying to normalize chastity for both myself and my wife. I think I’m trying to prove to myself that I can do this. I think I’m trying to also normalize it with my wife and prove to her (and myself) that we can live a normal life and engage in chastity.

Anyway, I figured I’d share this with this community. I’ll also say that this community has been very helpful to me, and I’ve appreciated the feedback I’ve received along the way. If people are interested, I can continue to update with my monthly progress. I’m 1 for 1 on days caged so far in April with 0 orgasms! 😂

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u/GoodTimes8183 — 15 days ago