u/Chicagoan2023

44 Black male in Chicago looking for consistent FWB

I’m looking to connect with one White female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there. I’m 100% real. Put your favorite color in your first message to me.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 12 hours ago

44 [M4F] #Chicago - Black male looking for consistent FWB

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, Black, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 14 hours ago

44 [M4F] #Chicago/US/Online - Newer Black dom wants to explore an proper Dom/sub relationship

I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, graduate degree, works in a fully remote corporate job. I’m old school in terms of dating as I love to court and lead. I provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for a woman that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities. I’m open to all body types except BBW.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 14 hours ago

44 [M4F] #Chicago/Midwest - Black male looking for consistent FWB

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, Black, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 1 day ago

44 [M4F] #Chicago- Black male looking for younger female to start something fun and exciting with

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 2 days ago

44 [M4F] #Loop - Any feminine sports fans out there?

I know I’m looking for something very unique. I’m a huge sports fan especially a White Sox fan (and follow the Cubs). I’d love to meet someone that loves talking about sports & going out to watch games, and going in person to sporting events.

I also love to do other activities as well such as summer street fests, seeing live music, and just enjoying summertime Chi.

More about myself. I’m 6’2”, living in the loop, working in a finance role, grad degree, no kids.

In terms of the connection I’m looking for: Would love to start out as friends/activity partners (with a little flirting mixed in). Over time I’m open to a long term FWB and/or LTR if our chemistry takes us in that direction.

I’m 100% real and actually looking for a connection. Please actually respond with some substance and don’t just say “hi” or “hey” in your first message.

Happy Masters Weekend!

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 2 days ago

44 Black male in Chicago looking for consistent FWB

I’m looking to connect with one White female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there. I’m 100% real. Put your favorite color in your first message to me.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 5 days ago

44 [M4F] #Chicago- Black male looking for younger female to start something fun and exciting with

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 5 days ago

44 [M4F] #Chicago/US/Online - Newer Black dom wants to explore an proper Dom/sub relationship

I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, graduate degree, works in a fully remote corporate job. I’m old school in terms of dating as I love to court and lead. I provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for a woman that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities. I’m open to all body types except BBW.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

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u/Chicagoan2023 — 5 days ago