u/Asleep-Historian1544

28m married. Living the life I begged for, but its not at all what it seems. I divorced my s/o two years ago. Against my better judgment I got back together with her upon hearing the promises that turned out to be lies. I cant exactly rip my family apart again especially so soon so here we go.

About me:

Im skinny 5'10 with long hair, a beard, and more tattoos than I care to count. I play music (rock mainly, instruments include guitar and saxophone), I own my own business, and I have 4 kiddos. I love old school trucks and have 2 that are older than me that I keep running. Perks of being the family mechanic. I re watch the office to the point I could watch it in an empty room with my eyes closed. I love to read, the Inheritance Cycle is my top tier favorite series. Im a nerd, and love anything Marvel, Star Wars or tech. Im friendly and will gladly smile at anyone I pass in the grocery store. Sarcasm is my 1st language and I love being sassy.

What Im looking for:

Something long term. I want the spark, the passion and the desire. I want to feel wanted, cherished and loved. Someone, female, between 25 and 40, who’s also in a relationship or marriage but feels that same hunger. Not just for sex (though let’s be honest, that’s important too), but for intimacy. The kind where you feel seen, wanted, and understood. Someone I can flirt with throughout the day, share secrets with at night, and build a little world with, just for us. I want more than a moment.

I’m not interested in a Monday–Friday, 9–5 thing. I want someone who’s actually around someone who can talk to me even when life gets messy. I match the energy I’m given. If you give me effort, I’ll give it right back. I don’t need a stage‑five clinger, but a good morning text is always nice. I do want someone who feels that little jolt when they see my name pop up. I’m not into cold, transactional encounters or one-night stands. I want that slow burn: the build-up, the trust, the emotional safety that lets the fun side come out in full. I’m drawn to people who are emotionally intelligent, kind, attentive, and just a little bit wicked.

Ideally, you're in Louisiana! There’s something delicious about the idea of meeting in person for coffee, or a walk, or more, once that spark is undeniable. But if we connect deeply, distance doesn’t scare me - passion travels well.

So if you’re someone who misses deep eye contact, whispered inside jokes, and feeling truly wanted, tell me what your world looks like… and what you wish it felt like instead.

Let’s build something secret, and let’s make it unforgettable

28m married. Living the life I begged for, but its not at all what it seems. I divorced my s/o two years ago. Against my better judgment I got back together with her upon hearing the promises that turned out to be lies. I cant exactly rip my family apart again especially so soon so here we go.

About me:

Im skinny 5'10 with long hair, a beard, and more tattoos than I care to count. I play music (rock mainly, instruments include guitar and saxophone), I own my own business, and I have 4 kiddos. I love old school trucks and have 2 that are older than me that I keep running. Perks of being the family mechanic. I re watch the office to the point I could watch it in an empty room with my eyes closed. I love to read, the Inheritance Cycle is my top tier favorite series. Im a nerd, and love anything Marvel, Star Wars or tech. Im friendly and will gladly smile at anyone I pass in the grocery store. Sarcasm is my 1st language and I love being sassy.

What Im looking for:

Something long term. I want the spark, the passion and the desire. I want to feel wanted, cherished and loved. Someone, female, between 25 and 40, who’s also in a relationship or marriage but feels that same hunger. Not just for sex (though let’s be honest, that’s important too), but for intimacy. The kind where you feel seen, wanted, and understood. Someone I can flirt with throughout the day, share secrets with at night, and build a little world with, just for us. I want more than a moment.

I’m not interested in a Monday–Friday, 9–5 thing. I want someone who’s actually around someone who can talk to me even when life gets messy. I match the energy I’m given. If you give me effort, I’ll give it right back. I don’t need a stage‑five clinger, but a good morning text is always nice. I do want someone who feels that little jolt when they see my name pop up. I’m not into cold, transactional encounters or one-night stands. I want that slow burn: the build-up, the trust, the emotional safety that lets the fun side come out in full. I’m drawn to people who are emotionally intelligent, kind, attentive, and just a little bit wicked.

Ideally, you're in Louisiana! There’s something delicious about the idea of meeting in person for coffee, or a walk, or more, once that spark is undeniable. But if we connect deeply, distance doesn’t scare me - passion travels well.

So if you’re someone who misses deep eye contact, whispered inside jokes, and feeling truly wanted, tell me what your world looks like… and what you wish it felt like instead.

Let’s build something secret, and let’s make it unforgettable

28m married. Living the life I begged for, but its not at all what it seems. I divorced my s/o two years ago. Against my better judgment I got back together with her upon hearing the promises that turned out to be lies. I cant exactly rip my family apart again especially so soon so here we go.

About me:

Im skinny 5'10 with long hair, a beard, and more tattoos than I care to count. I play music (rock mainly, instruments include guitar and saxophone), I own my own business, and I have 4 kiddos. I love old school trucks and have 2 that are older than me that I keep running. Perks of being the family mechanic. I re watch the office to the point I could watch it in an empty room with my eyes closed. I love to read, the Inheritance Cycle is my top tier favorite series. Im a nerd, and love anything Marvel, Star Wars or tech. Im friendly and will gladly smile at anyone I pass in the grocery store. Sarcasm is my 1st language and I love being sassy.

What Im looking for:

Something long term. I want the spark, the passion and the desire. I want to feel wanted, cherished and loved. Someone, female, between 25 and 40, who’s also in a relationship or marriage but feels that same hunger. Not just for sex (though let’s be honest, that’s important too), but for intimacy. The kind where you feel seen, wanted, and understood. Someone I can flirt with throughout the day, share secrets with at night, and build a little world with, just for us. I want more than a moment.

I’m not interested in a Monday–Friday, 9–5 thing. I want someone who’s actually around someone who can talk to me even when life gets messy. I match the energy I’m given. If you give me effort, I’ll give it right back. I don’t need a stage‑five clinger, but a good morning text is always nice. I do want someone who feels that little jolt when they see my name pop up. I’m not into cold, transactional encounters or one-night stands. I want that slow burn: the build-up, the trust, the emotional safety that lets the fun side come out in full. I’m drawn to people who are emotionally intelligent, kind, attentive, and just a little bit wicked.

Ideally, you're in Louisiana! There’s something delicious about the idea of meeting in person for coffee, or a walk, or more, once that spark is undeniable. But if we connect deeply, distance doesn’t scare me - passion travels well.

So if you’re someone who misses deep eye contact, whispered inside jokes, and feeling truly wanted, tell me what your world looks like… and what you wish it felt like instead.

Let’s build something secret, and let’s make it unforgettable

28m married. Living the life I begged for, but its not at all what it seems. I divorced my s/o two years ago. Against my better judgment I got back together with her upon hearing the promises that turned out to be lies. I cant exactly rip my family apart again especially so soon so here we go.

About me:

Im skinny 5'10 with long hair, a beard, and more tattoos than I care to count. I play music (rock mainly, instruments include guitar and saxophone), I own my own business, and I have 4 kiddos. I love old school trucks and have 2 that are older than me that I keep running. Perks of being the family mechanic. I re watch the office to the point I could watch it in an empty room with my eyes closed. I love to read, the Inheritance Cycle is my top tier favorite series. Im a nerd, and love anything Marvel, Star Wars or tech. Im friendly and will gladly smile at anyone I pass in the grocery store. Sarcasm is my 1st language and I love being sassy.

What Im looking for:

Something long term. I want the spark, the passion and the desire. I want to feel wanted, cherished and loved. Someone, female, between 25 and 40, who’s also in a relationship or marriage but feels that same hunger. Not just for sex (though let’s be honest, that’s important too), but for intimacy. The kind where you feel seen, wanted, and understood. Someone I can flirt with throughout the day, share secrets with at night, and build a little world with, just for us. I want more than a moment.

I’m not interested in a Monday–Friday, 9–5 thing. I want someone who’s actually around someone who can talk to me even when life gets messy. I match the energy I’m given. If you give me effort, I’ll give it right back. I don’t need a stage‑five clinger, but a good morning text is always nice. I do want someone who feels that little jolt when they see my name pop up. I’m not into cold, transactional encounters or one-night stands. I want that slow burn: the build-up, the trust, the emotional safety that lets the fun side come out in full. I’m drawn to people who are emotionally intelligent, kind, attentive, and just a little bit wicked.

Ideally, you're in the area! There’s something delicious about the idea of meeting in person for coffee, or a walk, or more, once that spark is undeniable. But if we connect deeply, distance doesn’t scare me - passion travels well.

So if you’re someone who misses deep eye contact, whispered inside jokes, and feeling truly wanted, tell me what your world looks like… and what you wish it felt like instead.

Let’s build something secret, and let’s make it unforgettable