r/MisogynyDating

33 [F4M] #australia - looking for dom to keep me smooth and make me skinny

Love to be tied up and be humiliated by having me pussy shaved, would love to be forced to get laser to keep it hairless, regular body inspections and weigh ins, pressures to lose weight and degradation of my belly, love to be forced to get some piercings too, and anal virginity taken, love being photographed and filmed and exposed online.

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u/submelon275 — 2 hours ago

21 [f4M] #USA #Online #Oregon - Looking for a connection with a more traditional older man

Hi,

I am looking for a man to start a daring and exciting connection with. A very specific man. Maybe too specific but I feel like I have told at least look for him. I’m submissive, and I feel like I have a lot to offer a man. I’m cautious, but also eager.

A bit of background about me:

I recently moved to a bigger city after living in a small town for the last few years. It’s amazing how lonely I can feel in such a big city surrounded by so many people. But the people, especially the men, I’ve met just haven’t been what I want.

About you:

I want some older than me, preferably 30+. Don’t have an upper age limit. Please at least lean conservative, believe in more traditional gender roles, are confident, dominant, a strong leader, is blunt and honest, caring, and knows what he’s doing. And a misogynist, of course.

About me:

Physically I am 5’8”, short brown hair, brown eyes, mixed race (white and Asian), a bit curvy but proportional.

I work weird hours, mostly a night owl. I get random fixations and deep dive on them and then move on to another fixation. I love going on long walks and listening to music or podcasts. I like to daydream. I’m still finding myself. I’d like to find myself with someone.

Would prefer if you’re close to Oregon but even if not I’m still happy to chat and see where it can lead.

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u/urdeliciousmilk — 2 hours ago

31 [F4M] East Coast US - I like being pressured

I've noticed how ending dates makes me feel really anxious and I'm looking for a guy that wants to take advantage of me freezing up like that. Tells me that I owe him and doesn't really take no for an answer. I'm primarily into being pressured and groped and can adjust everything else to your preferences! We just need to talk and establish a connection first.

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u/tinymirr — 3 hours ago

19 F4M US Looking for Relocation and permanent ownership.

Hello, I am searching for my permanent future owner! I just know you are out there!

I am 19, blonde hair, 5ft with a slim figure and a flat chest. Since I am looking for something permanent, I am afraid I am picky.

My criteria

  • Lives Alone
  • Not Married
  • Wants a live in 24/7 slave
  • Tall and quite chubby
  • 35+ Years
  • Into being called "Daddy" all the time
  • Extensive kink list (Including non-sexual) of heavy kinks
  • Love of degradation
  • Into heavy control in all aspects and training
  • Has a vision for where they want to take me training wise

Please do not contact me if you do not meet the above!

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u/PapayaDisastrous4021 — 15 hours ago

45 [M4F] Reno, NV - Looking for an obedient little princess.

I'm looking for a long-term relationship with an obedient little princess.

I want something a little bit DDLG, and I want everyone in reality to think we just have an age gap relationship, but in reality, I own you.

I want a girl that's very submissive and just wants to be property.

I want to make all the decisions, and I just want you to be very submissive and give me everything I want.

I want you to be able to cook too and travel with me.

The ownership part is what I'm really excited about. I want a free use situation as well.

I'm 45, white male, muscular, athletic, handsome. Very intelligent.

Send me a message and let's chat more.

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u/bouldercoder80302 — 44 minutes ago

18 [F4M] #Fort Worth Tx - Looking for my gym rat or blue collar bf to worship

I’d love to be where I’m your sweet, shy girl in the streets, who you treat like a princess, but in private it’s completely different. In private, I’m your use cum dump that you can use however and whenever you want. I don’t have an exact timeline We could play out your most twisted, fucked up fantasies. The darker they are, the better! But we can also play out a sweet, loving scene! I’d love to combine both! I have lots of kinks that I would love to explore with someone ho knows how to keep me stored away like the object that I want to be. Sensory bondage in deep heavy restraints are what I want, to be tied up for hours, gagged, turned into nothing but a hole for you.

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u/NationalDingo5856 — 4 hours ago

40 [M4F] #Southbay California/Worldwide Patriarchal Dominant seeks people-pleasing, submissive, cooking-loving wife to support for life and raise a family with

My requirements up front to respect your time: fair-skinned, 18-35, 5'2"+, under 160lbs, born a woman, lover of traditional gender roles, submissive in and out of the bedroom, making other people happy makes you happy, peaceful/non-argumentative, no children currently but wants children and is ready for them, never been married but wants to be a wife, wants to be a stay-at-home mom, kind, nurturing, caring, sweet, loves cooking, cleaning, fitness, fashion, makeup, and is loyal, honest, and obedient.

I'm a professional multi-millionaire Dominant with a stable career residing in a paid-off 5br/3ba home in the suburbs of the Bay Area, California.

I've lived alone here while concentrating on my career and ability to provide and am now in a position to fully support a wife and family.

If you are a motivated woman who wants 2-4 children and is ready to start sooner rather than later, message me now with your age, height, weight, location, ethnicity, hair color/length, eye color, and what you connected with in this post.

I have push notifications on my phone turned on so I will see your message immediately and reply immediately.

It doesn't matter where in the world you are. If we're a good match, I'll relocate you to me, all expenses paid.

Everything in your life has led up to you completely reading this specific post on this exact day at this precise moment in time.  Fate brought me to you, but fate can only keep us together if you message me right now. 

So don't hesitate:

[Click here then click the CHAT button right now](https://www.reddit.com/u/Husband2026)

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u/Husband2026 — 1 hour ago

22 [F4M] #VA #Virginia #CentralVA free use for you!! (I’m desperate)

Hi! 22, 5’2, 115 lbs, 34 C, 3 holes—I know that’s all you really need to know.

I’m a submissive college slut into some fucked up shit. It’s surprisingly hard to find someone willing to hit me in the face 🤷‍♀️

I’m extremely obedient and can be manipulated into doing a lot of stuff I don’t necessarily want to do. I have very taboo fantasies and am willing to try a lot, so let’s talk abt them!

I want to meet someone nearby, close in age to me, and preferably can host because I have roommates.

Kinks: misogyny, TPE, degradation, humiliation, cock worship, objectification, public, impact play, abuse, CNC, slavery, kidnap, gang bang, throat fucking, patriarchy, free use. So much more I can’t even think of them.

If you’re far, dm me anyways and maybe we can chat

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u/lilyqui23 — 22 hours ago

20 [F4M] #Atlanta Georgia - Looking for masculine gym rat / blue collar bf in the streets, dom in the sheets :3

What are your favorite kinks? Some sort of fantasy you've wanted to explore? Ive been fascinated by kink for a while, but never really have gotten into it as of yet. Im looking for a male dom who loves to take control in the bedroom, also into bondage, letting me worship you. I know its basic but love gym guys, and blue collar haha. That usually gets me really going, let me know if either of these criteria apply to you.

I wanna explore long term kinky chats, someone to text when im feeling lonely, maybe a boyfriend if we vibe. Im 20, would love to know what things make you tick.

kinks: Bondage, sweat, smelling your pits, shoes, gym gear, sports gear, blindfolds, toys, edging me, being choked, suffocated, fucked deep, storing me away as a toy.

Ive always wanted to try being stored away, being locked in your closet or gym bag where no one can find me, making sure im all there for jsut you. If this sounds up your alley feel free to drop me a message :) im not a busy person at night so im down to chat for a while.

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u/Powerful-Formal2434 — 7 hours ago

35 US, F4M Needs to be Ruined...

I know I'm pathetic, I know you hate my fucking guts. Hurt me, abuse me, humiliate me, break me. Do your worst. I deserve it.

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u/PandaOverture — 22 hours ago

18 [F4M/MTF] Nebraska nl freeuse

Hi! 18 f in Nebraska looking to be owned. I’m very submissive and know females are inferior to men. I am pathetic and have been told to do things in person with older guys that I really didn’t want to do before but did them.

Kinks: misogyny, freeuse, degradation, humiliation, cock worship, objectification, public, impact play, abuse, CNC, slavery, kidnap, gang bang, throat fucking, patriarchy and a lot more so prob even extreme ones.

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u/Thin_Mix1726 — 21 hours ago

25 [M4F] #London, United Kingdom - Masculine, dominant traditional finance bro seeking a feminine, submissive traditional woman for a long-term relationship

I have worked - and continue to work - hard in my life. I went from having to pay my way through university to being a well-respected financier at one of the world's most powerful and successful institutions. I could have never imagined ending up here. What drove me? The desire to give my partner the security, safety, and relationship dynamic I never had when I was growing up.

To that end, I want to find someone who is as passionate as I am about my primary goal in life: creating and maintaining a lasting, meaningful long-term relationship. I pour my passion into creating a stable, loving environment full of opportunity and the ability to grow. I seek a partner whose passion is creating a nurturing, loving environment full of care, compassion, and comfort.

What you should expect from me:

  • I will always treat you with love, respect, and consideration. I will consistently express my appreciation for your contribution to our home. I truly believe that each of our roles are no less important to the success of our relationship than the other.
  • I will be clear about my expectations of you. When I feel you're falling short of those expectations, I will tell you. If you feel I'm falling short of my commitments to you, I will listen.
  • I will maintain my health and fitness. I go to the doctor regularly. I do not smoke or drink. I dress well, but not ostentatiously. I meditate regularly.
  • I am well-respected among my local community and friends, and will continue to build and foster those connections and relationships with you.
  • I believe a man's role as a boyfriend absolutely requires presence in both body and mind, and I am enthusiastic about this role. While I work long hours, I will always prioritise time with you.
  • I will always make time to date you, to make you feel special and appreciated for the romantic and nurturing role you play in my life.
  • I have no interest in dictating you do things that don’t matter to me - but I will take the responsibility of making tough calls. I will always make decisions that I feel are in the best interest of our relationship.
  • Our relationship will lead to marriage. I will take care of you if you become sick, even seriously so.
  • I am open to both having children and being childfree.

What I want in a partner:

  • You are a cis female.
  • You do not smoke/vape/do drugs.
  • You truly love and feel called to the idea of creating a nurturing, supportive, and comfortable home life and serving and pleasing your man.
  • You live in, or are willing to move to, London (I love it here, my community is here, and I have a truly wonderful life that I want to share with you!).
  • You will take pride in your appearance and keep yourself in good health. I’m happy to ensure our budget includes whatever health, beauty, and fitness desires you have.
  • You value and are proud of your femininity.
  • My love language is being cooked for. Seriously. I feel truly loved when I'm served a healthy, homemade meal. I feel appreciated, considered, and respected. I want that as part of our relationship.
  • When you have difficult feelings, you will communicate them to me and I will always provide you with a safe space to do so. You are comfortable understanding your emotions.
  • If you feel like I'm not living up to my commitments you will tell me.
  • You will help me continue to participate in our community and our friendships.
  • You consider yourself submissive, and enjoy feeling lovingly owned. You seek an emotional and romantic connection over sex.

What I do NOT expect in a partner:

  • I don't expect you to be perfect. I'm not perfect either. But I do expect both of us to approach each other with presumption of good intent and faith that we are both working towards a happy and healthy life.
  • I don't expect you to give up your career/studies from day one, if at all. This will be a mutual decision we both make further down the line.

If you've read this far, reach out via Reddit chat and we’ll take it from there. I'm 25, 174cm tall, good-looking, and someone who loves to stay in shape. I love working out, reading, meditating, hanging out with friends, and trying new restaurants. Looking forward to hearing from you!

PS: Due to my profile settings, this post won't show on my profile. However, if you're reading this on the subreddit, I'm still looking.

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u/Zealousideal_Wolf717 — 16 hours ago

40 [M4F] #UK | #Online - Worthless and needy sluts to the front of the line…

There’s no need for pleasantries, we both know exactly what we’re doing here. I’m Alex, 40 and based in Southern England, however, I am more than willing to talk with anyone and from anywhere so long as they are somewhat on the same level of depravity as me.

I’m a six foot beast of a man. Burly, bearded and rugged. I look exactly like the type of man who can, and will gladly, ruin you.

Day to day, I am a geeky, easygoing guy which is a facade I put up to blend in with society. With the right person I can let that mask slip and reveal the consummate sadist lurking underneath. A sinister, perverse deviant experienced with over twenty years of dominance and power.

My satisfaction comes from degradation, dehumanisation, total control and extreme kinks but my real talent lies in digging into your psyche to uncover the filth you desperately try to suppress.

I listen and notice patterns, remember contradictions and I can pick up on what try and hide behind your little jokes. I find the parts of you that feel dirty, shameful, wrong and dangerous and I make you face them, slowly chipping away at your inhibitions until you stop resisting and start to crave it.

For me, a real dynamic isn’t just scenes and dirty talk. It’s developing a trust so deep it can become reckless and letting me into your fears, your weaknesses, your need for approval and your desire to be owned. 

I’m looking for a woman who has always felt that being “normal" was a lie. Someone who is tired of pretending and is ready to be honest about her darker and more depraved kinks.

I understand life exists and everyday things like work, responsibilities and stress will always come up. I want to build something that can survive the rigours of modern life and won’t switch off when things become inconvenient so it’s imperative that you can think and articulate so that there’s a relationship beyond the kink otherwise it just fizzles out.

You may have always been told that being needy is a turn off, quite the opposite with me. When I own someone then I eventually want her to be  consumed by me. I want to live in her thoughts, her routines and her instincts. I want her checking her phone for my name and adjusting her life around my moods and schedules. I want her loyalty and attachment to be unavoidable. I want to be the thing she can’t ignore, can’t replace and can’t walk away from without it leaving some sort of emotional scar.

I want devotion, intensity and her prioritising me over comfort and convenience. I don’t do casual or disposable nor do I chase short term successes. I am permanent and possessive.

I’m not concerned with your appearance or relationship status and I expect the same respect in return. This isn't about your physical appearance but more about what's inside your head. I care about your psychology and I want someone who understands that true submission isn’t roleplay. It’s letting yourself be altered and trusting someone enough to let them take pieces of you and not give them back.

If this made your stomach knot and your cunt twinge with excitement then you might be worth my effort.

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u/BarSea6723 — 16 hours ago

20M4F [MI] [online] searching for my cunt to ruin

Hello doll wherever you are out there, im willing to call you my "girlfriend" in public sure, if you look good enough, but In reality? You are nothing more than breeding stock for me to use and abuse in whatever way I want to. You exist for my pleasure, nothing else. And I'll be sure you're very well aware of that. You'll be brainwashed and turned into a pathetic living fleshlight who can't live without my abuse.

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u/ThrowAway89142 — 23 hours ago

45 M4F #Sacramento California - Be My Toy, And Not in a Fun Way

You know how it goes.. Here I am, a married man who isn't getting what he needs at home, searching for someone who will do what his wife won't. Let me use you, abuse you, and do everything to you that I can’t do to my wife. Be my little trauma toy.

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u/InternationalPut6256 — 24 hours ago

60 (m4f) North Carolina looking for a little fun

I’m a 60-year-old man who takes care of himself, stays active, and enjoys life. I’m financially stable, drama-free, and know how to treat a woman right.

I’m attracted to younger women who are confident, fun, and open-minded. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, and building a real connection—whether that starts casually or turns into something more.lets party

If you like older men who are respectful, experienced, and easy to talk to, send me a message. Let’s see where it goes.

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u/DifficultySubject710 — 22 hours ago
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