r/MFM_Lifestyle

I absolutely love watching my wife suck a guy's cock during a MFM. And it's so hot to feel how wet her pussy gets while doing so! Who else loves this?

Any preferred vacation spots you’d like to recommend or share, whether explicitly geared to these sort of experiences or just relaxed, sexy locales where you’ve had fun playing? Did being out of the normal routine entice anyone to finally take the plunge? Any couples that have found thirds in unexpected places? Spontaneous experiences you weren’t expecting? Sexy locals? Let’s hear it!

Is it worth exploring as a couple?

Wife posting. Long post ahead. We have been fantasizing about a MFM threesome for over a year. We finally pulled the trigger and texted one of his buddies last weekend. They had a good conversation about it, his friend said he was down, but just wanted to hangout and feel out the vibe beforehand, which we were all cool with. A few days later I started a group chat to make plans, his friend happened to be available the following evening.

His friend came over, we all ate dinner together and had some alcoholic drinks. Afterwards we sat on the couches in the living room. My husband and his friend sat on our three seater couch on opposite sides. I didn't want to move things alone too quickly so I sat on the couch adjacent for the first hour or so. We were all just drinking and chillin. Eventually I got up to use the bathroom and when I came back, his friend moved the pillow in between them and motioned for me to come sit down. Quickly after that I draped my legs over his lap while leaning my head on my husband's shoulder. We were just listening to music and chatting, vibes felt good. His friend started rubbing on my legs, it felt really nice being in between two men. This went on for about half an hour until my husband asked his friend if he wanted to go to the bed. Friend said he needed to use the bathroom first, so we went upstairs to wait for him.

After a few mins, his friend wasn't coming upstairs, so I told my husband to go check what's going on. He goes down and I hear them chatting for a few mins. Eventually I decided to go down to see what's up (at this point I had taken my leggings off and was in just a crotchless thong and thin crop top.) When I got downstairs, his friend seemed a bit hesitant but also intrigued by my lack of clothing. We could sense he didn't want to go to our bedroom, so we suggested staying on the couch where he already made himself comfortable.

We all go to the couch in the same sitting arrangement as before. They both start rubbing on me and my man tells me to reach for his cock. So I reached under both of their pants. My husband was already rock hard, his friend unfortunately was still soft. Eventually they both pulled their pants down and after a few mins of them rubbing and sucking on my tits, and both of them taking turns putting their fingers inside me, I began to suck my husband off so his friend got an idea of what was to come. I realized his friend still wasn't getting hard (started to feel really bummed out) but I asked him if he wanted me to put it in my mouth, he said yes. I figured I'd be able to suck him to get hard. Unfortunately, despite feeling him pulsing in my mouth trying to get hard, it didn't happen. I checked in with him to ask if there's anything specific he likes or needs, but we could tell he was starting to disconnect. He pulled his boxers back up and we just sat there seeing if anything would change. My husband and I both reassured him that everything was cool, no pressure. His friend expressed that he was too "in his head" to get there. We all decided to call it a night.

The following day, I texted in our group chat to apologize for any discomfort and asked if he would be interested in trying again at a much slower pace or if he wanted to keep things platonic. Unfortunately his response was that he doesn't think he can handle the intimacy part at this time. We're not sure if it is him worried about someone catching feelings or being naked around another guy, because he seemed totally willing from the get go. We don't feel like we pressured him into it at all, but it is very disappointing that it didn't work and he doesn't even want to give it another try.

I guess I'm just looking for some solidarity or any advice, if we ever decide to try again. If you read this entire thing, I greatly appreciate it. It's been a rollercoaster of emotions the past few days.

Always been curious , considering making love with my husband and starting by letting someone watch . Maybe touch a little . And see where it goes .

After a night of socializing , drinking a little, and dancing ...

long time lurker, first time posting. i’ve always been into mfm but it would be next to impossible to get my husband onboard. any ladies out there experiencing this? i am open to talking to just about anyone but will be selective w dm replies.

Would you let a third sleep over or is the hot wife sent solo for the day could she sleepover? What's your experiences? And reasons if you can or can't do it

What do wife’s think when selecting the other guy for mfm,

Do you let your husband select him?

What would your concerns be?

My wife, our friend (regular third) and I are about to (as in 5 mins) have an MFM where we both finish on her face. She’s requested it for a while & we’re excited to paint her pretty face!

So I am the M of a swinging MF couple, and I have been chosen to be a third for a couple.

The meet is this Friday.

This isn’t a first for me to be a third. I love it and my wife loves sharing me almost as much as I love sharing her,

BUT

I decided to load up by not cumming all week. I’m a pretty decent /heavy Cummer in general but when I go several days, it’s noticeably more - noticeable to me anyway.

SO

Last time I came was Saturday morning…. And this is fucking killing me. It was a particularly horny day yesterday and today as these kinds of adventures always ramp up my libido and I’m developing blue balls and I’m like ravenously looking at EVERY woman out in the wild.

Should I power thru for another 36 hours?

I think the answer is an obvious yes.

BUT!!!

Here’s the complication…

I’m a one-and-done cummer. To be fair, it’s a power cum. The neighbors will hear it….. but I can’t hop back into action until several hours later.

I’m concerned that being so backed up and so horny that I’ll cum faster than I want.

To top it off, we all tested and we are going bare, so she is gonna feel extra GOOOOOOD.

So. You’re in my shoes as a guy, or you’re on the receiving end as a woman….

What would you suggest? cum now? Or continue to build it up and run the risk of having to hold myself back and switch to oral every few minutes.

Since we can't all find a third, or we can't find a third we trust to nut in our SO, I'm wondering how all of you (men, women, couples, and throuples) feel about lube that simulates cum?

I love mfms, and love grangbangs, and love sloppy seconds...thirds...etc, and my current partner is "ehh" about it so I bought some "Jizz" brand lube. OMG Filled her ass with it and used it to lube up her pussy, it looked like she had been filled multiple times by me and another guy and no matter where I stuck my cock there was cum, that wasn't mine. Thinking about getting it again, and getting the stuff that smells like it.

●- EDIT - I am getting DM's and asking for personal info. I'll ignore and/or block if being asked ●

So I posted a few weeks ago about our experience. Wife agreed to try once more to give my buddy a 2nd chance after some small talk.

He came over while the wife was at work. BBQ and 1 beer each. Just a casual hang out this time. She came home from work and greeted him like as nothing ever happened. The evening passed, lights were off and the TV was on. my buddy and I were watching shows on youtube. Wife passed out in her room. Couple hours later we were yawning and I called it a night. Told him shower just in case. Didn't know the wife's reaction would be from waking her up. So I laid next to here and kissed her neck and chest area which I can feel her getting aroused. She was already wet to start off with so I knew she is down for some sex. Went on for a few minutes and I asked her if she is ready for another try. She agreed and we headed to the shower just to get ourselves a quick wash up. While she was showering, I headed to the guest room and let my buddy know we are ready to head in for some fun. Wife was hesitant and shy. Didn't want to go in. So we made out at the door and she finally went in with me.

Double Blowjobs went on for a while and this time he was able to get hard. It was great watching everything. She climbed on him and they made out for a while and I was kicking back looking at her backside and her riding/rubbing on his dick. She finally guided him inside her and she rode him for a little bit. It was a great sight. They rolled over and he spooned her for a bit too while she was stroking me. It's been maybe a hour into the night now. Then she hopped on me and rode my dick for a bit because he needed to go drain the main veine. He came back and on bis knees behind her. I am not sure what he wanted to do but it looked like he was about to go for doggystyle on her. Since its been a while, I guess I was getting a bit tired and was having problems staying hard. So she laid down on her back. He didn't get a chance to doggystyle her. Me and my buddy were on our knees opposite from eachother next to her face instead and she was giving both of us hand jobs. I had broken out the bottle of lube in the beginning but didnt know it gave a wierd after taste. Found out later from the wife and that was the reasoning for hand jobs. He blew a huge load on her mouth and I finally blew one a few minutes afterwards from seeing cum on her. He kissed her and said Thank You and we ended the night there. After another shower, wife and went to bed and we tried to have sex again but I guess my body was tired from a long session. She never came that night.

In the early morning my buddy had to drive back home for things he needed to do. Wife and I laid around late being lazy since it was gloomy outside. We had morning sex to fullfill our own moment. She came fast and hard.

We talked. She said it was better but unfortunately he couldn't stay hard when she was riding him. Same when he was spooning her. He went completely soft and was trying to get hard by stroking himself. But when he was hard for a small moment, it seemed like she had a great time. She said he had a full erection but it was not stiff like mine. She said she can really feel it when I penetrated her. But not when he did. He is also a bit more girthy than me. Not that it mattered to us/her. We wanted the thrill and experience. I figured with him being more girthy, it would drive her up the walls.

So we had a conversation about it. We decided it was a great experience to try. I do not plan on finding another 3rd for a better experience. So we both agreed we will keep our sex life to ourselves. The experience did bring us closer and our sex life is a lot more wild. MFM checked off the list and thank my buddy for being a part of it.

Now if she is up for FMF experience, that would fullfill my dreams. But it looks like we'll be seeking for unicorns. We dont know any girls who are into this lifestyle. I will keep dreaming!

I will keep reading everyone's posts and enjoy yall's positive experience!

Yall have a good one and thanks for reading our MFM experience.

Sometime ago my gf and I were casually talking about a foursome, we've done a threesome with her female friend a couple times a few years back, now we were talking about our other friends, a couple.

Here's the problem. I hate the thought of another man touching my gf. I actually like the idea of DP or split roasting her, we've done that in a threesome with the friend wearing a strap-on. But idk how I'll feel with a man doing this. I'm afraid I won't be able to look at her the same afterwards.

I'd really like this, sounds like fun, the more the merrier and all that but I just need some advice, any of you had similar thoughts? Or how to overcome this feeling, idk if it's insecurity or something

would you want a 3rd who matches your guys sex drive or is greater? I find some couple like I have a high sex drive but can't always keep up or more the husband can't