r/FootFetishTalks

Hey guys, I was scrolling through the sub earlier and laughed so hard at some of the posts here - like "why do women wear sandals in the summer?" or "is my neighbor coming onto me because she sits on her porch barefoot?" aren't we overcomplicating this? Sometimes a foot is just a foot, right? I mean, I love feet as much as the next person, but these questions are next level. What's the weirdest foot-related question you've ever gotten or asked?

I love showing up at people’s houses where they make me take my shoes off, especially when it leaves me in my bare feet. I find it both vulnerable and a turn on and it’s always nice to see others padding around in socks and especially barefoot. And I love being barefoot in general so it just gives me an excuse. I also don’t wear shoes in my house and greatly appreciate it when others remove theirs, but it’s not a strict requirement. Anyone else like this rule?

I’ve always been drawn to older women’s feet - there’s something about the confidence and experience behind them that’s just… magnetic. Like, call me shallow but a woman in her 40s or 50s rocking some sleek nude pumps or well-worn sandals gets me every time. It’s not about age, just that older women tend to know exactly what they’re doing with their feet and I respect that. Anyone else feel the same or am I alone here?

She surprised me by sitting on my lap last night, feet right in my face - I should've known she was into it when she kept "accidentally" brushing them against me all week. We were just cuddling at first, but then she slowly started rubbing her arches against my thigh while we watched tv like it was no big deal? Honestly caught me off guard how confident she was about it - next thing I knew she was tracing her toes along my neck and I was just... melting. I've never had someone so naturally take charge like that, it was kinda hot seeing her own her thing like that.

So, I wrote on this sub a little while ago after my gf helped me explore my fetish for real with her for the first time. Since then we did not do a lot of foot stuff, although she let me massage her feet with cream often and allows a kiss here and there. No full-on worshipping though, she is not into that, at least not out of a sexual context.

a couple nights ago we were at a friend couple's place for a sleepover(they love out of town) and we had some drinks and played board games. after a while both me and the other guy went to sleep around 2 AM but the girls stayed up and continued drinking and chatting. At around 5 AM my gf came in our room and woke me up getting in bed. She was pretty drunk and she was giggling. I asked what was funny and she said she could hear our friends fucking. I listened and indeed I could faintly hear them. As my gf crept closer to me we heard them a bit louder until it was pretty obvious they were having a good time. To my surprise my gf whispered in my ear that it was making her hot. I didnt expect that from her but she was pretty drunk and is usually more kinky in that states.

As she caressed my abs and went down towards my crotch I could clearly hear our friend moaning, her voice piercing the silence, as well as the rythmic sound of fucking. It was making me kinda hot too. and then something crazy happened. My gf spun around, at first pressing her ass against my erect cock, but then she looked like she had an idea and bent her knees to "cup" my balls with her feet. She used her toes to tease me there, and as I started to caress her ass and kiss her back, she stretched her legs out and said "get down there". I looked at her a bit incredulously, and she said "I know you want to, you want to fuck them so bad, well I want you to right now."

Without wasting a second thought I removed my boxers and moved towards the edge of the mattress. She laid on her stomach and put her feet together and laid one on top of the other, crossing them a little. I watched them for a moment, as she rubbed the top one over the sole of the bottom one. I was getting so hard. I kissed them a bit and placed my balls on top of her soles. It felt like heaven. I could feel her soft soles and smooth heels in the sides of my crotch, and she curled her toes a bit to tease me some more. "go on" she said, as she put her head on top of her crossed arms. She seemed relaxed and chill. I could still hear the moans coming from the other room.

I started to rub my dick on the sole of her top foot, and bent down to take one of her ass cheecks in my hand, firmly gripping it. It was such an intense feeling, I was fucking my gf's feet for the first time and it was so good! Then I lifted the foot I had been rubbing on and instead placed my cock on the one under, and put the first back on top, toes over my shaft, and the soft and silky sole of the bottom feet under it.

As I fucked her feet like that I eventually bent down again and started to lick her asshole, face buried in between her ass cheeks, dick pumping between her feet. I had never felt such pleasure before. I exploded on her soles and she laughed, then as I cleaned her up she litteraly fell asleep. I gave her feet a couple more kisses and went back to sleep beside her.

The next morning she woke up with a headache and I wondered if she remembered what had happened, but as she crept out of bed to go shower she put her toes on my face and winked at me as she pushed on my face with her feet. I didn't know she had that kinkyness in her.

I hope it happens again soon.

I love my Girlfriend and love worshipping her feet but I would be lying if I said I didn’t think about and wanted to worship other women feet I have interest in having sex with other women just there feet and luckily for me my gf is completely cool with it I enjoy worshipping and smelling other women feet just as I love worshipping her sexy feet.

Just got back from a long day at work and really could use some foot-focused relaxation. Not that I’d complain if someone wanted to take the time to really worship them - I mean, who wouldn’t enjoy that kind of attention? I’m a 23F who’s always been into the idea of someone being completely into my feet. There’s something so intimate about it, you know? I’d love to hear about others’ experiences or even just some fun thoughts on the matter.

TL:DR read below.

Note: Foot Fetishism is my sexuality. I am unable to orgasm without her sweaty smelly foot-related play and dirty talk. I can do vanilla sex and enjoy giving orally (I always make sure she finishes) but I do not finish during blowjobs or penetration.*

I am almost 40yo dating with intention. While I have dated many women who accepted my FF, none of my committed Long Term relationships were as enthusiastic as more they tolerated. They did for my fulfillment and that is acceptable to me.

Since my last LTR ended I am wanting to prioritize my FF needs since I believe 100% sexual compatibility is very important for Life Partner or Marriage. I know FF Hedonists do exist albeit rarer and hope to find my unicorn wife.

Because of this, I have dated casually and seriously enough to know that majority of women do not fully grasp the implications of my FF for Life Partner, until we are well into dating or even committed relationships and becomes dealbreaker for them.

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Last LTR of almost 3 years we were planning marriage but (among other reasons) broke up because she know longer saw our sex life compatible long term. She had lightly aromatic feet. She was also a “clean freak” and not keen on trying to make her feet smelly for me. Wearing used socks more than twice was not for her. At the time I was able to accept it all, but now I want to find someone who does have really pungent feet and more than accepting but prioritizing my needs for the extreme end of FF (as I prioritize her needs and kinks).

My most recent short relationship, when becoming intimate (had sex once but I did not finish) I told her my FF around 3rd date she was open to exploring, but when she realized how serious it was and my need for smelly feet she found it disgusting (her words). We broke up because of my FF.

Of course had multiple dating experiences when they are not open to exploring FF and that is a dealbreaker. That is probably at least 50% of the time. Which is totally acceptable and why I want to weed out women for those who would be into extreme end of sweaty smelly feet fetishism. I hate to “waste time” for both parties and hard enough to match, date and find compatibility. But when it is over multiple dates she finds out my FF is not for her afterall, gets frustrating for wasted effort. I think women assume I love to suck toes as foreplay but having to actually make her sweaty smelly feet my priority for orgasm is a bigger ask.

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Now I am thinking of revealing early on before first date when we are initially talking how much FF is important to me and the specifics. To be a caveat and letting her know now in case she wants to exit.

Should I even hint on likening Feet before the first date? My dates are most always from Dating Apps. I was even thinking of listing my FF as dealbreaker prompt or reference a “Quentin Tarantino” joke or similar lighthearted hints but listing on my profile may be too forward too.

I don’t want her to think sexual activity is my primary focus for dating, but I also want her to know how rigid my sexuality is for potential compatibility.

Thoughts?

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Cliffs

- FF (female sweaty smelly feet) is my sexuality and required for my orgasm.

- Late 30s and have yet to find true sexual compatibility in LTR. Not wanting to waste time for anyone, want to start weeding potential very early. Intention is committed Life Partner or Marriage and kids.

- Should I reveal FF before or during First Date?

- Hint or explicitly say have FF on Dating App Profile for caveat dealbreaker?

Recently Ive been seeing ads where women feet and soles are being shown to promote the products. One of it was a CK ad with Dakota johnson showing her soles at the begining. I just saw another of a bath cleaning product with a woman showin toes. This means the media want to normalize feet now. Huge win for foot fetish guys! Hope to see more

Just found this massive master list of 2,269+ foot fetish films and it’s a goldmine. I’ve been struggling to find good content beyond the usual stuff, so this is a game changer. Wondering if anyone else has gone through it all-what were your top finds? Also, after binge-watching a few of these, my standards are through the roof now. Anyone else feel the same way?

Just got home from this wild foot session with a coworker - turns out all those stink eye glances in the break room meant something totally different. Who knew cubicle life could get that hot? My feet are still tingling from all the attention… and yeah, maybe I’ll be thinking twice before wearing open-toed shoes to work again.

I'm now early/mid forties, and married very late in life (35+), partly because I was in school forever and partly because I had a blast being single in my thirties. I had a lot of fun in my early twenties, but I think I had even more in my early/mid thirties. Maybe because of that, I was always worried that, if I got married, that it'd be hard to stay focused on my wife. Honestly, this fear alone was probably responsible for delaying marrying my now wife by at least 2-3 years as I agonized over it. I always told myself that, if I got married, I wanted to be a good husband, only have eyes for my wife, etc.

Turns out that fear was largely overblown. We're nearing a decade (total) together, and I've honestly never really felt a serious temptation toward anyone else. We live in a beach town, and I'm a guy, so of course I fairly routinely look (and my wife & I even occasionally share thoughts in that respect), but I've never seriously felt an extreme urge or even desire to fuck someone else. Could be because I've seriously fallen off and have no real opportunities (totally possible! ) , or could be just because my wife is more than enough for me. I'm definitely very attracted to her and still love fucking her. VERY grateful for that.

But the weird thing is that, while I don't really have as much desire to fuck other women as I thought I would, I still have a ton of desire to suck on other women's toes. Part of it might be that my wife (by her own description) "doesn't have pretty feet" and isn't that into that stuff. But the other part is just the novelty and "pull" of my fetish, I think. For example, we went on a beach vacation a few months ago, and that shit's feels like walking around a buffet when you're starving for me. But I don't think I have much desire to actually fuck attractive, mostly-naked women I see at the beach, I really just want their toes in my mouth. In fact, I've gone to a strip club a couple of times just to scratch this itch (yes, my wife knows), and I could just get my fill of feet in the VIP room and then go home. I feel like usually people would want some sort of "release" alongside it, but I really don't need that. I got hard doing it & have jerked off thinking about it a couple times since, but it seems weird that the two aren't more closely paired. Anybody else experience this?

I have posted about my first two experiences at dance bars. It is now time for the third.

I walked into the same club as before (seconds experience) and got a drink.

A girl (let's call her S) approached me. She said she was half Ukrainian. She had a bit of an accent. Very hot. Also slightly older. I got us some drinks and she asked me what I like. By this time I was way beyond the point of being embarrassed. I told her straight away I liked feet. She suggested we do a short (~5 min) dance so she could show me her toes. She was wearing knee high cowboy boots. During the dance she put her booted foot up on my lap and asked me to take it off. I took it off and her sock. Her pedicure was a bit old but her toes were perfect. She danced on me for a bit then we went back out to get more drinks. I told her I'd be happy to spend some more time with her toes.

Just as I was ordering another round of drinks I felt a tap on my shoulder. It was D from the last time I had visited the club. I briefly described her in my previous post, but here is a more detailed description:

Early twenties, slim, blonde, bubbly.

I had sucked D's toes previously but she hadn't come to my place . Of course she knew how much I loved her toes. As soon as we were done with the customary greetings she took off her heel and lifted her foot upto the bar. She wanted to show me her new pedi. It was a delicious pink.

I didn't need to see anymore. I instantly asked both the girls to accompany me to the VIP. Although I was drunk and drinking more, the girls only had juices. S would take a few sips from my whisky periodically but neither of the girls wanted to drink.

We went to the VIP room and instantly D took her heels off and shoved her toes into my mouth. Obviously as she was aware of my predelections. However S was not. It took a minute or two but soon enough S was comfortable as well shoving her toes into my mouth.

I will describe D's feet first . She had a pretty pink pedi and all her toes were ideal proportions. She also had great soles. In my previous visit I had spent a good deal of time nibbling on her heels. I know this might put off a number of ppl on this sub, but I really do enjoy rough and scaly heels. D's heels did not sdisapoint. While I was nibbling I could feel a few bits of dead skin falling into my mouth. She seemed to know what I was doing and seemed to enjoy it as she moved her foot up and down my tongue and switched feet. I handed her my phone (this time without even speaking) and she just started to record as if it was the obvious action.

I watched the videos later and she was positively giggling as she shoved her toes down my throat.

Now moving on to S's feet. She had shown me her toes during the initial dance. I even had the opportunity to briefly massage her soles. Now that she was laying back on the sofa and smothering me with her feet, I i was able to get a better sense. As I said earlier, she was a bit older . Her pedicure wasn't fresh either. Her feet had absolutely no smell even though I had taken off her socks earlier anf they were drenched in sweat. I am not a fan of sweaty feet smell.

Her soles were a bit rough. A bit calloused. I had a lovely time chewing on her callouses. I kept looking up at her to tell me if I was using too much teeth. Obviously I was black out drunk at this point and I only remember this because D was recording the whole thing. I kept looking up at S for approval while I was nibbling on her soles and she kept telling me to go on. At one point she actually got annoyed and told me to stop asking and keep licking. Both girls were totally comfortable laying back on the sofa with their feet in my mouth. Other customers came and left, some seemed a bit shocked, others just jealous

I was Hella drunk so I don't exactly remember but some of the videos have a man's voice . He seemed to be aroused while I was worshipping these girls' feet.

I didn't even need to ask this time, I just handed D my phone and she began to record. I woke up the next day to a whole bunch of videos.

In my first encounter with her D had been sort of hesitant, just letting me suck her feet while W amd T did most of the talking. This time W and T were not there so D took over the leading role. She teased me and goaded me both girls had their feet on me the entire time. S with her rough calloused soles and D with her pretty perfectly pedicured toes. They shot a lot of videos on my phone. Smothering me with their feet. At various points new customers entered the VIP and they all saw me worshipping but tbh no one had much of a reaction. I don't know how I finally got home that night . But the videos are amazing the girls are having a good time and enjoying the free massage.

Looking for a girl that wants her feet worshipped all the time I have a big foot fetish and it’s so hard to find women that are also into it

last night my wife gave me an absolutely incredible footjob. I was a little buzzed so it took a little bit but she really worked her perfect toes to make sure I felt so good. she normally isn't too into feet play, but I love it and honestly it was one of the best orgasms I ever had. trying to figure out how to make sure we do that again!

Have been wanting to watch and cleanup a couple’s footjob. Lmk if anyone in the New England area is interested in having a foot fetish sub!

I posted earlier about my first experience at a dance bar. I was sort of encouraged by the posts here to go and try my luck. I have found that, without exception, dancers are happy to entertain foot guys if we are honest and up front.

I went to another club in my city. I got a drink and instantly a girl (let's call her T) approached me. Having gained a bit of confidence from my previous experience I told her straight away I was into feet.

She was about to guide me to the VIP room when her friend (let's call her W) interrupted us.

She said it was a package deal and that I would have to take them both.

W was a bit older than T and she had a real dominant vibe. While T was absolutely hot, W was what you might call slightly "curvy". But only slightly.

I was drunk so I agreed to the package deal. It was a good decision I think because W was basically playing wingman. She told me her friend liked me.

Anyway, I paid for a dance and both these girls shoved their feet in my mouth.

They were both a bit drunk I think and they kept ordering shots. Although it was meant to be a VIP private room, at times more customers would enter and see me sucking on those delicious toes.

At this point the girls weren't even dancing, they were both just relaxing on the sofa while I licked their feet.

I handed my phone to T and asked her to record. Neither of the girls had any objections. We made tons of videos.

While I was sucking on their feet another customer entered the private room, must have been the third one by now. The girl who was dancing for him (let's call her D) seemed intrigued by my foot thing. Almost jealous of T and W.

As I had mentioned previously W was quite dominant and commanding. She asked D to take off her boots and show me her toes. She had the best toes of them all tbh. As soon as D's dance ended and her customer left, W asked her to join us.

So at this point I was sucking three pairs of feet. W was playing admin she would get our drinks orders and keep track of time. D and T were mostly just relaxing while I massaged their feet and sucked on their toes.

W mentioned to me that she had sold her used stockings previously. She kept insisting that I be honest about my fantasies and what I wanna do. She said she had driven from the neighbouring city (both herself and T) and turns out where they were living was quite close to my place.

I spent a good few hours sucking on those three girls' feet at the club. When the club was about to close I msgd W (she gave me her number) . I saw W and T outside the club by her car. We negotiated a price and the girls said they would come home with me. This was at 1am.

We went to my place and drank some wine and had some fun

Both the girls gave me massages.

At one point I asked T to stand on my back and she did. It was amazing. W was recording throughout.

I have so many videos on my phone. One of them shows T sitting on my back and giving me a massage with her feet in my face. My face was literally buried in her soles. At one point her massaging fingers moved up to my neck and pushed my head down. As I accepted my fate and let my head burrow down into her soles the video showed her smile in satisfaction

We spent a few hours doing this. Eventually I got even more drunk and I asked W to remove her fishnets. Uptill this point I hadn't shown much interest in her feet. But now I really wanted to suck them.

She obliged and took her fishnets off. Her soles were so dirty they were literally black. She had been walking barefoot in the club up and down the stairs, getting us drinks and playing admin. She had taken her heels off for me for the dance and didn't bother to put them back on after.

I know some ppl in this community love dirty feet but that's not my thing. I told her she could use my shower. I was pretty drunk at this point and had my face buried in T's soles. So W went into my bedroom and grabbed a towel and took a shower. She came back to us a few minutes later. I asked to see her feet and she obliged. She seemed a bit embarrassed by her feet, she pointed out how her second toe was longer than the big one . And yeah I do admit she didn't have the prettiest feet. But by this point I was mad drunk and just wanted another set of toes to stick in my mouth.

So I did. I sucked her toes while T stood on my back.

As the night progressed I kept drinking more (the girls were not drinking now) and W said they had to get back home . This was like 5am. She said T might come back to see me once she had picked up a change of clothes from the apartment they were sharimg for the weekend.

I tried to protest and get them to stay a bit longer but I was on the verge of passing out at this point so I didn't make much of an effort.

The next morning I woke up and checked my phone for the videos.

There were so many. Mainly showing three girls relaxing and chatting while stuffing their toes down my throat. One of them also showed T being affectionate and giving me a flurry of kisses on my face.

It was a great experience. I have been back to that club once more and have another increible story to share if there is interest.

I’m a straight man who is interested in female feet. I’m wondering if gay men like obviously male feet or if they prefer cross dresser or transgender women feet. I’m interested in understanding how foot fetishes work for gay people.

She was the absolute best and just downright amazing, even offered in person sessions. She went by Belle was Italian and is from Pennsylvania.

This is my first post. Just wanted to share how being more forward and willing to spend a bit has led me to incredible FF experiences.

I went to a strip club in my city.

The first dancer who approached me I didn't like much.

Second girl approached once I got my drink and took a seat.

She was a petite blonde dressed in cowboy, knee high pink boots.

Told her straight away I was into feet.

She started putting her booted feet in my lap.

Then she said she'd go change her boots.

She came back in clear transparent heels.

I took her foot in my hand and slowly and graciously ran my fingers over her toes examining each one.

Her big toe was a bit gnarly and she seemed embarrassed by it, but she stayed confident and dominant, playing it off like yeah you love these toes.

I got a dance with her as a sampler.

Then I took her to the VIP room and they brought a bottle of champagne.

She stripped totally nude.

I told her I wanted her to stick her toes in my mouth.

She said she wasn't sure if she was allowed.

So I just went with the flow . She danced on me and we drank champagne.

Then I expressed my wish again in a suggestive manner.

We aren't allowed to touch the dancers so I said jokingly she could bind my hands.

She obliged in an instant. She took her pants off and used them to ties my hands behind my back .

She then continued to dance on me . This time with a lot more foot action. Within minutes she took off her heels.

So far she had been teasing my cock by running her heels against my crotch.

Now she was totally barefoot . She lifted her foot to my face . I could vaguely see (I was quite drunk at this point) that her soles were a bit dirty.

But reflexively I just opened my mouth. She stuck her toes in my mouth and I sucked them .

She continued to dance on me. Rubbing her bare soles all over my chest and crotch. Every once in a while she would raise her pretty little foot to my face to let me get a taste.

Finally the time was up and the dance ended and her manager came in. He interrupted us while my hands were still tied by her pants and her foot on my chest .

The manager took one look at us like wtf going on here . But he was a good sport. He asked her to adjust me so I'd be out of the cameras sight and then she could do as she pleased.

She asked me if I wanted to extend I said yes. The manager charged me and brought another bottle of champagne.

This time around she just laid back on the sofa with both feet resting on my chest and toes slightly dipping into my mouth. She was playing around with my tongue. She asked me about my day, my work, my family etc and I answered her all while sucking on her dainty little toes.

She also had really long finger nails and she would scratch me and even choke me . Somehow she figured out what I was into without me saying a word. She was stuffing her tit in my mouth when I used too much teeth and she slapped me playfully. I asked her to do it again. She obliged without hesitation.

She would dance on me, slap me around and then sit back against the couch and let me suck on her toes.

Finally our time was up.

Sadly by the time I left I was near black out drunk.

I didn't have the sense to get her number. And I don't even remember her name now.

I want to go see her again , but the first time was really expensive and I need to save up for a bit before i can go again.

I am also anxious that by spending so much the first time around I might have raised expectations a bit too high and that she won't let me enjoy her feet again unless I spring for VIP.

I also didn't get a picture of her feet but will be sure to remember if I see her again.