First time trying 11mm
Pardon the leg shaking - feet in stirrups and body stressed. Made it just to the external sphincter, no issues at the meatus or spongy urethra. Worked my way up from 9mm, easily reached the internal sphincter. Tried 12 as well, stopped midway through the spongy urethra - just a bit too wide. 10mm seems to be my sweet spot