u/lightybutterfly

My husband and I have been talking about opening things up for a while now, but I think we're actually getting closer to pulling the trigger. We're both pretty nervous but also really excited, especially since we're finally at an age where we feel confident about setting boundaries and knowing what we want. I guess I just needed to put this out there to see if anyone else has gone through something similar - what's something you wish you knew before taking the first step? My husband says he's all in but I don't want to rush into anything without making sure we're both on the same page.