54 [M4F] #Nj Dom looking for his good girl.
Hello all, I’m looking for a long term partner, who considers themselves a Sub or Sub leaning Switch. I'm looking build a loving relationship or good friendship with a healthy dose of Kink. Someone to chat about our days as much as kinky stuff. I don't mind starting online but looking to move to RL at one point.
A bit about me: I 'm male Dom leaning Switch (mostly dom these days) living in Burlington NJ. No kids, never married, do not drink (allergies) but am 420 friendly. I'm 51, 5’10, 230lbs (chubby) , decent looking but no model, I tend to have a long beard in the winter and short one in the summer.
On the normal side of my life I’m more of a geeky guy than a jock and prefer to watching movies, shows or play a game over watching sports. I do enjoy going on walks, whether that's hiking or just window shopping.
For kinks they are wide and varied but for me the turn on is more control than pain, That is to say I like “Dominance and Submission” more then Sadomasochism, although I do love to take someone over my knee for a spanking (I mean who doesn’t?). I lean more toward the gentle Dom With a sadistic (puckish) side that comes out to play from time to time.
Some of the kinks I really enjoy are Orgasm control , tease and denial, light embarrassment/humiliation/degradation, praise, pet play, ABDL, begging, spanking, light bondage, light pain, Rping (can get detailed), Oral (love both giving and receiving) body worship / massage (giving and receiving), and aftercare.
What I am looking for
Cis woman
age 30-60
Drugs and alcohol: No heavy drug use or alcohol abuse. Weed (I smoke) and light drinking are all good!
Communication: I expect you to be open about your wants, needs and experience and I expect you to communicate when you will and will not be available. I do not take kindly to getting ghosted.
Relationship : NO CHEATERS! I can work with poly but have no desire to be in the middle of your drama.
Distance: Within 2 hours of NJ.
Anyway I hope this catches some beautiful submissive eye. if it does please shoot me a chat request I look forward to talking with you.
Anyway I hope you all have a great and kinky night!