u/Unusual-Bacteria-501

my partner and I have been getting into rope recently, and I've found (most of the time) I'm more comfortable with my wrists crossed than parallel like you see with every double column I've seen.

We've been using a modified larks head DC where my wrists are crossed and we take the rope around the middle of the cross vertically when we split the tails after wrapping it horizontally, but I feel like there's got to be a better way to do it

and suggestions or tutorials?