My diaper calendar
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Im an ABDL and my Fiance is very accepting. Its been a long journey, and ive had to take it slow so that she was not overwhelmed. Ther have been more than a few open and honest conversations as well as some books I found that helped. In case anyone is curious, i found this book and it was super helpful.
After that book we talked and came up with the idea for a calendar. Its helpful for a few reasons.
- I dont have to ask when I can wear I just have to look at the calendar and know that she's going to be ok with it otherwise it wouldn't be on the calendar.
- She doesnt have to be responsible for the daily decision about if I wear, how long, what can or cannot be done while I wear.
- Its flexible. Either of us can update or make a change if we're just not feeling it or want to make a change. The calendar is treated more like a guide or reference and not an absolute.
This works for us, and I wanted to share because in all my time lurking on this sub I haven't seen anything like it.
Bonus points if you can figure out which stamp means what.