We aren’t able to stay overnight and can’t arrive until around 8pm on a Friday.
Is it worth our time?
We are first timers but not new to the lifestyle club scene.
Any tips of what to expect, what to bring, etc would be appreciated!
Not sure how to proceed so looking to those with more experience. Wife is into the idea but really doesn’t like the “dating” feeling of finding a suitable 3rd. Any ideas how we can make this work without her needing to put in much effort. She’s quite selective in what she wants.
Was thinking maybe I need to do all chatting, get some images to show her and if she approves we meet for a drink. The question is whether we plan to move forward immediately or set a 2nd meetup time for action. Her concern is what happens if we have a night out planned and the dude is a total dud within a short period of time (had happened before). Do we just cut our losses and tell him thanks but it’s not a good fit?
TIA