Blackmail within the community
Hi all, im a submissive guy and just thought i would get some thoughts here on something i have experienced quite a bit.
In searching for a dom partner it happens so often that you are blackmailed, i mean i take steps to verify such as photos with certain gestures and such, like maybe so many fingers up and one pointing left or something, ai checkers give like a 96% odds if it being real so i go for it, then suddenly boom, “im gonna send your nudes to all the people you know, to your work, family etc.” All of which are not ideal. Anyhow, i assume they never actually do it and just mock them a bit then block the number, but its still stressful for like one week after the event where you are wondering maybe this one wasn’t lying, maybe she was for real etc.
So what are some better ways to 1- verify the dom? and 2- avoid blackmail from a poser.? And 3- how does one properly find a dom, i had one in the past, but seems i got lucky?
Enjoy yalls day