u/SelectionAgile1352

So here’s where I’m at with the whole RV situation. If you aren’t aware, here’s the link for the first part:

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/s/ykW8Ek3d9D

Basically he’s doubling down like I thought he would. I’m so over it and I feel like he’s acting dense on purpose. What’s upsetting is I know he wouldn’t want anyone to treat his daughter like this and she’s not too much younger than me. I mean this is after he was boasting to me about how successful his businesses are. I’m on seeking as we speak, but this time I’ll take my time.

I’ve been in the bowl for almost two months now, and I’ve been seeing my current SD for about the same amount of time. Overall, he’s been good to me in a lot of ways. He gives me mid xxx ppm, which I was totally fine with starting out since I’m still learning and he’s had prior arrangements. He also started giving me ppm from the very first meet, before we were ever intimate, which I appreciated. He’ll cover extras when I ask and gives occasional gifts, and we’ve talked about potentially moving to an allowance later on. The issue is more about the place and effort.

He can’t host, and I don’t feel comfortable hosting either, so we’ve mostly been getting intimate in his RV. At first I tried to be open-minded, but the thing is this RV is something he’s had for like 10 years from when his kids were little, and he hasn’t really cleaned it up or made it feel presentable. It’s not even registered or insured. He’s only gotten us a hotel once. Now he’s proposing taking me to a shopping mall, eating at a restaurant I don’t even like, and then going back to the RV in the mall parking lot.

I don’t know, it just gave me a really icky feeling. It feels very convenience based for him, and on my end it almost starts to feel like I’m being treated more like an escort than someone he’s actually in an arrangement with. Am I wrong for feeling a little disrespected by this? Or am I overthinking it?