Has anyone actually found a BDSM partner off Reddit?
I’ve been lurking here forever, but lately I’ve been wondering-has anyone actually met a legit BDSM partner off Reddit? I’ve tried the usual spots FetLife, local munches, even some sketchy apps but nothing’s panned out. Maybe I’m just cursed, or maybe I’m looking in all the wrong places. Either way, sometimes I wish I could just stumble into a scene at a coffee shop like in the movies. Has anyone had any luck finding someone serious here, or am I wasting my time with this sub’s dating pool?